hiii soooo I just realised we've been mutuals for quite a bit now but I never knew you had a specific dni list... and I jus read it and think I may be on it.
I'm traumagenic, but I absolutely have no problem with endos. one of my closest friends is an endogenic system and I adore them and can't imagine ever hating them or anyone because they are endo. imo its none of my buisness what type of system a person is nor is it my place to say whether someone is or isnt plural or is or isnt valid.
Do not respond to this looking for an argument. It is tagged with syscourse so that my followers don’t see it if they don’t want to.
If we’re mutuals already then it’s not too much of an issue. I will say though that I do NOT in any way support invalidating identities. The reason I’m anti-endo is due to it often being
1) An actual system being unaware of their trauma (which would mean they don’t even know there’s something to work through)
2) Misidentifying symptoms which in of itself is harmful if you’re trying to work through a whole different disorder than what you have.
3) Singlets that are just mistaking normal things for being plural which can and has for many “endo systems” and even misidentified traumagenic systems ended in psychosis or a loss of identity/other issues
It’s not my place to assume if someone’s experience is or isn’t real or if they are or are not a system. Endo spaces just very frequently spread misinformation and are inhabited by some people faking it for “fun”, though I’d say that’s the minority.
Im willing to explain more in dms if you’re comfortable but tldr; I don’t support hate and/or fakeclaiming whatsoever and my issues with endos are from a medical standpoint/concern.