Okay, pardon me while I share some brutally honest and valuable advice for the tops out there, especially the hung ones.
1. The goal isnāt to stay as deep in him as you can. Pull it out at least halfway when youāre thrusting, it feels so much better and more intense for the bottom.
2. Donāt pull it all the way out of his hole and then shove it back in. You can do it a few times, but if thatās your āmoveā and you keep doing it, your bottom hates it and it just hurts.
3. If youāre doing missionary, make eye contact sometimes and kiss your bottom. He loves it. It makes him more comfortable and he relaxes.
4. Try different angles until you get an obvious reaction from the bottom. When you find his spot, make it your target. Again, just digging as deep as you can is hot, but it isnāt the best experience you can give your bottom.
5. If you cum in him, donāt immediately yank it out. Thrust a few more times so he can feel it, and pull out very slowly. Theyāll thank you for this, especially if you cum a lot and they can feel it pushing into them when you thrust. Bonus points if you stay in him until it goes soft and comes out on its own.
6. If your dick is big or thick, use extra lube. You think you have enough? Add some more. Trust me, it matters.
7. Splurge on GOOD LUBE. Donāt buy the cheap stuff that turns into water after a minute. Seriously, lube is the most important part of gay sex. Spit can work if youāre not big, but if you are, you need the good stuff.
8. Please make your bottom cum. Even if you get yours first, take the time. Suck him, ride him, jack him off, or at least hold him and play with him while he jacks off. Youāre not done until he is.
Thank you for listening. š
I met up with a particularly gifted guy last night, and I was so excited about it, but he was a terrible top. He was gorgeous and his dick was insane, like probably one of the longest and thickest Iāve ever seen. I had to tell him twice to stop and add more lube because it felt like he was tearing me in half, and the lube was horrible. Also, I could tell he was just trying to stay as deep as possible the whole time, and I didnāt feel any pleasure, it just hurt.
I finally convinced him to let me ride it. THAT part was amazing and I came like a fire hose all over him without even touching it, and I didnāt stop riding him until several minutes after he came and it went completely soft. It actually felt a lot better after he came because the cum helped lubricate. š
I was going all the way down, but I also angled myself so it hit my spot every time. It still hurt, but it was the good hurt and not just organ damage hurt.
I know he wants to meet up again, but Iām honestly not sure if I will. Part of me wants to teach him to be better at sex because that dick is a gift from every god known to man, but the other part of me just isnāt impressed. š«
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