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[micaxiii]

Squishy got a new friend. Their name is Squashy.

[idonotsay-bleh-bleh-bleh]

I love how no one addresses Taylor Swift is five years older than Harry styles and began dating him when he was around 18 and she was around 23. Not to mention he was on X Factor when he was 16 meaning he had already been in the public eye for two years or so. Let’s call a spade a spade.

[jarofnotions]

oh my fucking god who cares imagine giving even one fuck lmao cannot fucking begin to relate

[idonotsay-bleh-bleh-bleh]

1) this was tagged as anti which means you were literally looking for an argument and that’s super unhealthy.

2) I care because that’s? Literally gross behavior? When your five years older than someone and you’re waiting for them to not be a minor anymore to date them that’s gross. Stay mad about it.

[sick-asin-cool]

Thinking there’s nothing even QUESTIONABLE about a 23 year old dating an 18 year old? Can’t begin to relate.

[sick-asin-cool]

Sometimes I miss my abuser so much. Like, it was awful but sometimes I can’t help but wish they’d talk to me. It’s a weird feeling

[destroymylife]

[lovenotereminders]

The phrase “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” is misleading af.

Your trauma doesn’t get the credit for making you stronger.

You were the one who made the decision to recover and put the work in to get there. You were the one who rose from your own ashes. You were the one who put yourself back together again like smashed pottery repaired with veins of gold. You are the flowers that sprouted through the cracks in the tarmac. You stuck around and you fought and you learned and you grew.

The thing that nearly killed you shouldn’t get the credit for making you stronger - you did that.

[sick-asin-cool]

[sick-asin-cool]

Commander holly making Etika’s tragic death about herself. And then when people point out that it’s distasteful she deflects it saying ‘but I’m not making it about myself’.

[idonotsay-bleh-bleh-bleh]

Taylor “tell your friends I’m obsessive and crazy — I’ll tell mine you’re gay” Swift trending at number one over Daniel Howell coming out should be a crime

[theflyingpengiun]

First who is Daniel Howell, Secondly being gay isn’t a big deal it’s like having brown eyes or red hair, it’s just how you were born, don’t need to be trending at number one because you’ve decided to keep your natural hair colour do you?

[idonotsay-bleh-bleh-bleh]

Yeah his video about being beaten, choked, harassed, for most of his entire life over being gay and deciding to finally come out is a little more important than an album name I’d come up with in 3rd grade. You look ignorant.

[theflyingpengiun]

Not knowing who he is, isn’t being ignorant, pretending that the coming out of a YouTubed is going to gather as much notice as one of the worlds biggest singers is.

while no one should be bullied or harassed it happens and for so many reasons not just peoples sexuality. If we stop telling people it matters more who they sleep with or what’s between their legs than if they are a good person the world would be a better place. Sorry to rain on your “I’m offended” parade but honestly you need to calm down

[idonotsay-bleh-bleh-bleh]

You completely miss the point and it only makes you look worse. But thanks for showing how “you need to calm down” is manipulative language that’s takes a completely valid feeling and makes it seem like an over reaction. Talk to me when you learn about how:

14 countries penalize being gay with death

73 countries criminalize it

22 states allow discrimination

And how conversation therapy is technically allowed in the United States

I sure wish I lived in a bubble like you.

[theflyingpengiun]

Let’s not pretend your outrage comes from an educated place, and let’s not pretend a you tubers coming out video is going to make a difference in any of those countries, less of all the states… none of those things you’ve listed are ok but you slackivism outrage isn’t actually helping so come back when you actually want change not your five minutes

[idonotsay-bleh-bleh-bleh]

You are absolutely amazing at missing points. Nowhere did I say he was going to change the world but he probably helped a lot of people who watched his video at least feel less alone in their own lives where they may get bullied, beaten, or rejected. Maybe he even helped some people realize how their behavior can affects others for years.

My point with the numbers is that being gay isn’t “not a big deal” and isn’t just like “having a hair color”. People get killed for it. People get disowned from it. People can be criminalized for it. It’s obvious you’re set in you’re ways so this will be my last response to you. Hope you get better at reading and comprehension.

[theflyingpengiun]

Also side note the reason Taylor was trending was for her new song where the whole message of the song was “shade never made anyone less gay” literally anti bullying, anti homophobic song and very much sharing the same message as your you tuber, that being gay is ok, so maybe this is less about Taylor and more about you just wanting to hate on her… but no continue pretending I’m missing the point and you are justified in your outrage…

[sick-asin-cool]

Okay, but you did miss their point. And that isn’t the “entire message of the song”. It’s a song about how no one is allowed to criticize her. The idea that people having anything slightly negative to say is “a hater” is something I expect out of a 16 year olds mouth. At a certain age you learn that no one is above criticism. She has a big history of responding badly to genuine concerns and grievances about her work/actions/words. Her going all activist in the month of June is no different than a corporate company slapping a rainbow on their logo and acting like they’ve cared the entire time.

Idk why you’re arguing you missed the point. It isn’t a deflection. They corrected you on the severity of how people are treated and instead of going “you know what? I didn’t think about it like that. Maybe it was in poor taste to down play murder, harassment, and being made criminals down to schoolyard name calling” you Go back to “oh your just a hater! You’re outraged over nothing”

The Og post was a half joke pointing out the irony of a popular YouTube coming out being overshadowed by an artist who once threatened to maliciously spread a rumor someone was gay as a way to get back at a guy. How much slower does it need to be explained for you to make any connection?

[theflyingpengiun]

How do you not get that Taylor with her much wider audience is going to trend higher than a you tuber a lot of people have never heard of? Taylor has changed her lyric, reflected on her mistakes, educated herself and is coming from a place of wanting to help, but no one persons inconsequential story in the grand scheme of things isn’t going to compete with that… should his story be important, maybe but the reality of getting butt hurt because Taylor is trending higher is nothing more than outrage culture. I’ve been bullied to the point where the school bully made an attempt on my life but guess what literally no one cares in the adult world, that’s just something that happened to me, I don’t need to be held up as some sort of hero because I lived through it, people go through things and they come out the other side, this argument was never about wether or not his story is valid, but instead of making a point about how scary it is people are put through this trauma because they are gay the OP made this post about who was trending higher, don’t come at me because I can see logically that Taylor is always going to trend higher than a you tuber, or because I believe that being Gay is normal and natural and should be accepted, or because I see through this as nothing more than an excuse to be outraged at Taylor and her fandom

[sick-asin-cool]

Holy shit you are daft. You got bullied and that’s awful but That’s individual. Being gay is made into a big deal because an ENTIRE GROUP — not an individual — are threatened with murder, rejection, abandonment. It isn’t about you.

The OP post was about it being IRONIC Because of context. Not that they actually thought he would trend higher. Get a life instead of obsessing over some celebritie’s ffs.

[idonotsay-bleh-bleh-bleh]

Taylor “tell your friends I’m obsessive and crazy — I’ll tell mine you’re gay” Swift trending at number one over Daniel Howell coming out should be a crime

[theflyingpengiun]

First who is Daniel Howell, Secondly being gay isn’t a big deal it’s like having brown eyes or red hair, it’s just how you were born, don’t need to be trending at number one because you’ve decided to keep your natural hair colour do you?

[idonotsay-bleh-bleh-bleh]

Yeah his video about being beaten, choked, harassed, for most of his entire life over being gay and deciding to finally come out is a little more important than an album name I’d come up with in 3rd grade. You look ignorant.

[theflyingpengiun]

Not knowing who he is, isn’t being ignorant, pretending that the coming out of a YouTubed is going to gather as much notice as one of the worlds biggest singers is.

while no one should be bullied or harassed it happens and for so many reasons not just peoples sexuality. If we stop telling people it matters more who they sleep with or what’s between their legs than if they are a good person the world would be a better place. Sorry to rain on your “I’m offended” parade but honestly you need to calm down

[idonotsay-bleh-bleh-bleh]

You completely miss the point and it only makes you look worse. But thanks for showing how “you need to calm down” is manipulative language that’s takes a completely valid feeling and makes it seem like an over reaction. Talk to me when you learn about how:

14 countries penalize being gay with death

73 countries criminalize it

22 states allow discrimination

And how conversation therapy is technically allowed in the United States

I sure wish I lived in a bubble like you.

[theflyingpengiun]

Let’s not pretend your outrage comes from an educated place, and let’s not pretend a you tubers coming out video is going to make a difference in any of those countries, less of all the states… none of those things you’ve listed are ok but you slackivism outrage isn’t actually helping so come back when you actually want change not your five minutes

[idonotsay-bleh-bleh-bleh]

You are absolutely amazing at missing points. Nowhere did I say he was going to change the world but he probably helped a lot of people who watched his video at least feel less alone in their own lives where they may get bullied, beaten, or rejected. Maybe he even helped some people realize how their behavior can affects others for years.

My point with the numbers is that being gay isn’t “not a big deal” and isn’t just like “having a hair color”. People get killed for it. People get disowned from it. People can be criminalized for it. It’s obvious you’re set in you’re ways so this will be my last response to you. Hope you get better at reading and comprehension.

[theflyingpengiun]

Also side note the reason Taylor was trending was for her new song where the whole message of the song was “shade never made anyone less gay” literally anti bullying, anti homophobic song and very much sharing the same message as your you tuber, that being gay is ok, so maybe this is less about Taylor and more about you just wanting to hate on her… but no continue pretending I’m missing the point and you are justified in your outrage…

[sick-asin-cool]

Okay, but you did miss their point. And that isn’t the “entire message of the song”. It’s a song about how no one is allowed to criticize her. The idea that people having anything slightly negative to say is “a hater” is something I expect out of a 16 year olds mouth. At a certain age you learn that no one is above criticism. She has a big history of responding badly to genuine concerns and grievances about her work/actions/words. Her going all activist in the month of June is no different than a corporate company slapping a rainbow on their logo and acting like they’ve cared the entire time.

Idk why you’re arguing you missed the point. It isn’t a deflection. They corrected you on the severity of how people are treated and instead of going “you know what? I didn’t think about it like that. Maybe it was in poor taste to down play murder, harassment, and being made criminals down to schoolyard name calling” you Go back to “oh your just a hater! You’re outraged over nothing”

The Og post was a half joke pointing out the irony of a popular YouTube coming out being overshadowed by an artist who once threatened to maliciously spread a rumor someone was gay as a way to get back at a guy. How much slower does it need to be explained for you to make any connection?

[sick-asin-cool]

Just because it shouldn’t be a big dea doesn’t mean it isn’t. Get that through your thick skull.

[idonotsay-bleh-bleh-bleh]

Taylor “tell your friends I’m obsessive and crazy — I’ll tell mine you’re gay” Swift trending at number one over Daniel Howell coming out should be a crime

[theflyingpengiun]

First who is Daniel Howell, Secondly being gay isn’t a big deal it’s like having brown eyes or red hair, it’s just how you were born, don’t need to be trending at number one because you’ve decided to keep your natural hair colour do you?

[idonotsay-bleh-bleh-bleh]

Yeah his video about being beaten, choked, harassed, for most of his entire life over being gay and deciding to finally come out is a little more important than an album name I’d come up with in 3rd grade. You look ignorant.

[theflyingpengiun]

Not knowing who he is, isn’t being ignorant, pretending that the coming out of a YouTubed is going to gather as much notice as one of the worlds biggest singers is.

while no one should be bullied or harassed it happens and for so many reasons not just peoples sexuality. If we stop telling people it matters more who they sleep with or what’s between their legs than if they are a good person the world would be a better place. Sorry to rain on your “I’m offended” parade but honestly you need to calm down

[idonotsay-bleh-bleh-bleh]

You completely miss the point and it only makes you look worse. But thanks for showing how “you need to calm down” is manipulative language that’s takes a completely valid feeling and makes it seem like an over reaction. Talk to me when you learn about how:

14 countries penalize being gay with death

73 countries criminalize it

22 states allow discrimination

And how conversation therapy is technically allowed in the United States

I sure wish I lived in a bubble like you.

[theflyingpengiun]

Let’s not pretend your outrage comes from an educated place, and let’s not pretend a you tubers coming out video is going to make a difference in any of those countries, less of all the states… none of those things you’ve listed are ok but you slackivism outrage isn’t actually helping so come back when you actually want change not your five minutes

[idonotsay-bleh-bleh-bleh]

You are absolutely amazing at missing points. Nowhere did I say he was going to change the world but he probably helped a lot of people who watched his video at least feel less alone in their own lives where they may get bullied, beaten, or rejected. Maybe he even helped some people realize how their behavior can affects others for years.

My point with the numbers is that being gay isn’t “not a big deal” and isn’t just like “having a hair color”. People get killed for it. People get disowned from it. People can be criminalized for it. It’s obvious you’re set in you’re ways so this will be my last response to you. Hope you get better at reading and comprehension.

[theflyingpengiun]

Also side note the reason Taylor was trending was for her new song where the whole message of the song was “shade never made anyone less gay” literally anti bullying, anti homophobic song and very much sharing the same message as your you tuber, that being gay is ok, so maybe this is less about Taylor and more about you just wanting to hate on her… but no continue pretending I’m missing the point and you are justified in your outrage…

[sick-asin-cool]

Okay, but you did miss their point. And that isn’t the “entire message of the song”. It’s a song about how no one is allowed to criticize her. The idea that people having anything slightly negative to say is “a hater” is something I expect out of a 16 year olds mouth. At a certain age you learn that no one is above criticism. She has a big history of responding badly to genuine concerns and grievances about her work/actions/words. Her going all activist in the month of June is no different than a corporate company slapping a rainbow on their logo and acting like they’ve cared the entire time.

Idk why you’re arguing you missed the point. It isn’t a deflection. They corrected you on the severity of how people are treated and instead of going “you know what? I didn’t think about it like that. Maybe it was in poor taste to down play murder, harassment, and being made criminals down to schoolyard name calling” you Go back to “oh your just a hater! You’re outraged over nothing”

The Og post was a half joke pointing out the irony of a popular YouTube coming out being overshadowed by an artist who once threatened to maliciously spread a rumor someone was gay as a way to get back at a guy. How much slower does it need to be explained for you to make any connection?

[youdontknowhowlawworks]

Is this really their defense or are Vic’s four (4) lawyers actively throwing his case? Lol.

[timbllr]

via weheartit

[sick-asin-cool]

Bisexuality is not and has never been trans/non-binary exclusionary, and I feel like it says a lot that bisexuality is the only sexuality I can think of where people say that.

We don’t have a lesbian flag and then also a separate lesbian+ flag/identity that mentions including trans people because it’s understood that they are INHERENTLY included. You like women — ALL women. It is the same with bisexuality. I am bisexual that means I like ALL women ALL men and non-binary people unless their personality sucks.

[depression-stays-but-you-dont]

sorry for not talking to anyone i am completely one hundred percent disconnected from this reality

[anxietyproblem]

[remanence-of-love]

[verylittlebird]

a true fact about spiders is they can’t run for extended periods of time because they have asthma. all spiders are nerds. even tarantulas. have you ever seen a spider dating a hot babe? i doubt it. spider flashing his cash in the club? nope. spider pulling up beside you at the lights in a lamborghini? never happened. they’ve got so many eyes because they love reading. nerds. all of them.