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I've come full circle.

[sickofeverythingmale2]

I despise every person who asks for relationship advice. Because if you're at the point where you're asking for advice, it's completely useless. You simply need to decide if this is a deal breaker for you or not. Because those are your options. Leave or tolerate it. Men rarely ask for relationship advice; they just like to complain about their women because they hate women. Women like to act like they're asking for advice, but as soon as you present her with those options, she gets huffy or offended. Maybe I'm simply too mature for all this nonsense, but it seems to me that both men and women resent each other, yet won't leave each other. Men, for obvious reasons. Women, because they refuse to be without dick I guess.

[torchestogether]

you cannot spend your life suspicious that any woman who calls herself a lesbian is Faking It. you have to have hobbies that are not trying to prove a random lesbian secretly likes dick

[pusheen-the-radical]

i mean. where is that post that lesbian made about how she never uses dating apps because she’s never met a woman on there who wasn’t trying to sex traffic her to her boyfriend. and gave very specific and haunting examples of how far secretly het partnered women will go to trick lesbians into becoming invested with the explicit intention of giving their male partners access to the lesbian woman. so. maybe we’ll become less suspicious when het and bi women become less violently lesbophobic.

anyway, if i was ever in the market to date again, it would be an absolute non-starter unless i could access at least 3 personally verified testimonies from a woman’s ex-girlfriends.

[sickofeverythingmale2]

Literally what is so wrong about being suspicious. People are lying about their sex and sexuality by the thousands now. How are you mad at the women who are trying to protect themselves rather than the women who are lying?

[torchestogether]

i made this post because i saw women engaging in antisocial behavior online by sending invasive sexual anons to strangers protecting themselves from real life danger and it made me roll my eyes punch a hole in the wall. i was just so angeryyyyyy

[sickofeverythingmale2]

No you’re being nonsensical and annoying. If you were against invasive anons, you could have just said that. But you didn’t.

[torchestogether]

it is weirdos online with rage addictions who desperately search for things to get mad about that i am against & the invasive anons are just one manifestation of that behavior

[sickofeverythingmale2]

You're just screaming to the void for no reason. What I say is going in one ear, out the other. If you originally said that in your post, I would have agreed with you, but clearly any criticism of your vague ass post is going over your head. So bye

[torchestogether]

you cannot spend your life suspicious that any woman who calls herself a lesbian is Faking It. you have to have hobbies that are not trying to prove a random lesbian secretly likes dick

[pusheen-the-radical]

i mean. where is that post that lesbian made about how she never uses dating apps because she’s never met a woman on there who wasn’t trying to sex traffic her to her boyfriend. and gave very specific and haunting examples of how far secretly het partnered women will go to trick lesbians into becoming invested with the explicit intention of giving their male partners access to the lesbian woman. so. maybe we’ll become less suspicious when het and bi women become less violently lesbophobic.

anyway, if i was ever in the market to date again, it would be an absolute non-starter unless i could access at least 3 personally verified testimonies from a woman’s ex-girlfriends.

[sickofeverythingmale2]

Literally what is so wrong about being suspicious. People are lying about their sex and sexuality by the thousands now. How are you mad at the women who are trying to protect themselves rather than the women who are lying?

[torchestogether]

i made this post because i saw women engaging in antisocial behavior online by sending invasive sexual anons to strangers protecting themselves from real life danger and it made me roll my eyes punch a hole in the wall. i was just so angeryyyyyy

[sickofeverythingmale2]

No you’re being nonsensical and annoying. If you were against invasive anons, you could have just said that. But you didn’t.

[torchestogether]

you cannot spend your life suspicious that any woman who calls herself a lesbian is Faking It. you have to have hobbies that are not trying to prove a random lesbian secretly likes dick

[pusheen-the-radical]

i mean. where is that post that lesbian made about how she never uses dating apps because she’s never met a woman on there who wasn’t trying to sex traffic her to her boyfriend. and gave very specific and haunting examples of how far secretly het partnered women will go to trick lesbians into becoming invested with the explicit intention of giving their male partners access to the lesbian woman. so. maybe we’ll become less suspicious when het and bi women become less violently lesbophobic.

anyway, if i was ever in the market to date again, it would be an absolute non-starter unless i could access at least 3 personally verified testimonies from a woman’s ex-girlfriends.

[sickofeverythingmale2]

Literally what is so wrong about being suspicious. People are lying about their sex and sexuality by the thousands now. How are you mad at the women who are trying to protect themselves rather than the women who are lying?

[sickofeverythingmale2]

Why am I seeing posts circulating about “real” transphobia? I thought we settled this years ago. That you can’t choose to be oppressed. Why is this still leaking into radblr. The misogynists and homophobes aren’t gonna be taken by you defending them. You’re just making yourself look stupid and tolerant of bullshit

[bloodandtheory]

There's 2 sides of radblr

The women that helped me get an abortion when I needed one a few years back and women who harassed me for being in a position to need one in the first place

Be the first option. A woman shouldn't have to tell you she was raped for you to support her through an abortion, especially in a feminist space

[yyzma]

[sickofeverythingmale2]

Macroclit? The lesbophobe that thinks lesbians can sleep with men? That one?

[bloodandtheory]

I'm pretty sure you're right, I'm not macroclit tho

[sickofeverythingmale2]

Oh thank god

[sickofeverythingmale2]

Women on radblr who claimed to be separatists, anti heterosexuality, and cultivated a following of likeminded women once they decide they actually do want a jakey after all: "You meanies are in an echo chamber policing women for wanting to date men and being attracted to them!!! How dare you call me out on being a hypocrite and doing a complete 180 in all my beliefs at the drop of a fucking hat!!!!"

Meanwhile they are getting some mild criticism for the most part yet they choose to either not address it or misinterpret it deliberately to make themselves look like victims. It's so funny they'll turn into the same women they criticized by expecting other women to praise and support her heterosexuality. They chose to be in this space and then decided not to leave when they knew they didn't align with it anymore and then throw tantrums when they start to be disliked. They think other women exist to kiss their asses in every decision they make.

They know what they're doing. But I do wonder what makes it so appealing to them to drop hetslop on us when they surround themselves with anti male women. Do they like the power trip? Or do they genuinely think us as flimsy as them with our morals?

[bloodandtheory]

There's 2 sides of radblr

The women that helped me get an abortion when I needed one a few years back and women who harassed me for being in a position to need one in the first place

Be the first option. A woman shouldn't have to tell you she was raped for you to support her through an abortion, especially in a feminist space

[yyzma]

[sickofeverythingmale2]

Macroclit? The lesbophobe that thinks lesbians can sleep with men? That one?

[sickofeverythingmale2]

Genuinely think we need to call out entitled people more often instead of just being nice. Called out a woman who parked her car in what was supposed to be a drive thru book drop off thing, and she got soooo defensive. Whole ass women with a son btw. These types of people won't change but hopefully it will make them think twice and make them a little more self conscious.

[landminesnake]

Women are the co-authors of patriarchy. Anyone saying anything else is infantilizing them and is trying to avoid accountability.

[sickofeverythingmale2]

One thing I wonder about and that I don´t see many radfems discuss is the popular idea that white women are constantly falsely accusing black and brown men of sexual assault. How true is this in reality? To me it sounds like what every rapist says, "I was falsely accused by those evil bitches!!!" Cases like that of Emmet Till are used by both men and women as the ultimate proof of white womens supremely evil nature. it is awfully convenient imo that there is a specific type of woman that should just be assumed to be a liar no matter what.

I have even seen WOC defend a rapist just because we share the same ethnic background. I recently saw a man from my country talking about how he had been accused of rape by white women on FOUR different occasions and I just...find it suspect that women around you just randomly accuse you. I simply don´t believe men who go out of their way to tell us their sob stories of false rape accusations. Because that is what all rapists claim! We know that such accusations are statistically rare, and that they rarely "ruin a mans life". All moids rape, no matter their background.

Oh yeah, using the shield of racism against accusations of misogyny is a long held strategy of men. They will use any argument to get out of being held accountable. Yet women still fall for this every time, I cannot comprehend

[sickofeverythingmale2]

do you have Instagram and can see these comments? Men hate us so much

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZu3-59haG0/?igsh=b2RpY2x3dmNibWJ6

Lol I don't give a shit about what men say

[sickofeverythingmale2]

thoughts? https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYmheBtoWk0/?igsh=MXFkOXNyd2dpZjkxZA==

I don't care about any woman who says shit like submissive and masculine energy I barely made it five seconds

[sickofeverythingmale2]

Its truly disgusting seeing so called "man hating feminists" become soft and ass kissing, and fight for the right for literal incel men to have access to women's spaces.

"Transwomen are literally just trying to exist!"

Fine, they can exist in their homes, in private and they can engage in their fetish all they want. The "right" to womens bathrooms is not a right, its a accommodation. A accommodation so called feminists are willing to give these incels.

Do you think its male loving or women being conditioned to be overly pleasing despite their true feelings?

See I'm actually way more radical than that. Misogynists are not entitled to live, and tolerating them only makes them more bold. Demanding "accommodation" is a spearhead of the trans movement. To answer your question, it's both but more male loving. Even an insecure woman would have said no ten years ago if she valued women over men.

[sickofeverythingmale2]

I feel like libfems would let a man disrespect their whole movement and say it's okay because "it's his kink!1!1!1!!1!1"

They do do that, yeah

[sickofeverythingmale2]

It feels bloody amazing calling trans "women" incels and watching them get all triggered. Stay out of our spaces then weirdo creep

Anything that makes them feel just a little more self conscious is a net positive

[sickofeverythingmale2]

It's so gross when older gens are constantly yelling about gen z supposedly not having enough sex. They always frame it as a human connection/intimacy issue too. Meanwhile millennials were promoting asinine kink/hookup culture crap back in the 2010s. It's why we now have people saying masturbating to/wanting to roleplay rape scenarios is now okay as long as it's just a kink or a fetish. Not having sex is better than that.

I doubt that that's even true tbh. Clearly women are still fucking men and giving birth. A few of us are just more vocal about not doing it