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@simplysabreezy
Your mixed feelings about your parents are valid.
Shout out to people like me who have parents who are loving but are black holes of emotional labor… It took me a long time to realize that it’s okay to have mixed feelings about your parents, about your relationship with them.
Sometimes parents can love you but be somewhat toxic to you and your growth, and that’s a very hard realization to come to if you, like me, grew up extremely close to them.
Sometimes parents can love you genuinely but lack emotional maturity, forcing you to perform disproportionate amounts of emotional labor. Some parents manifest symptoms of their mental illness in ways that are toxic to your mental illness.
Some parents, like mine, try so hard to be good parents but fall back on habits of emotional manipulation because they haven’t processed their own traumas and are modeling behavior they grew up with. That doesn’t make their behavior acceptable, and it’s okay to feel exhausted and hurt when they betray you. You don’t have to forgive every mistake.
I want you to know that it’s okay to protect yourself, to need some space apart from them. The love you have for your parents is still valid, and you are making the right decision.
Placing a safe emotional distance between myself and my parents has been one of the most difficult, heartbreaking processes I’ve ever gone through… it hurts to try to curb the strength of your own natural empathy around people you love. It feels disingenuous to your heart’s natural state.
But I promise you, you are not hard-hearted or ungrateful, and you are not abandoning them. You are making a decision about your own emotional, mental, and spiritual health.
I know what it’s like in that confusing grey area of love mixed with guilt and anxiety, of exhaustion and quasi-manipulation and unreciprocated emotional labor, and I promise you, you are not alone.
Your mixed feelings about your parents are valid.
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In a few years, all this hustling will make sense. Yes I may regret times I missed chilling or spending time with people, but when we’re cooking in our 6 bedroom london townhouse and all of our children are privately educated, the fuck you thought? I’ll have no regrets fam..
My 5 month old Bebe .
Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud.
Maya Angelou (via quotethatword)
Thank you.
Happiness is achieved when you put yourself first and see what the world has to offer you.
I flew by myself to San Fran and saw FLUME live (perfection). Before that I enjoyed an entire month of whatever the hell I wanted.
I carried a friend with me, as my friend carried me. Life always brings things back for a reason, and I believe at that time we just needed a break from our realities.
Now it is 2017 and I am working harder than ever before to accomplish my goals and finish school in 4 years. But thanks to my selfish month I now have added many other things to my list and I can't wait to accomplish them.
Why do u keep posting about how unhappy u are but still fail to do something about it ..
i posted those things when i was in a negative place. i did do something about it..
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I feel like I'm dying inside. I was suppose to get better, I was suppose to be better. But in the end it was broken promises and constant arguments. What do i do now? How am I suppose to figure out my next move, when every single move consisted of including you. Maybe I loved harder than I should have. I don’t want to blame myself, but at this point I don’t know what else to do.
The best thing about the past is that it shows you what not to bring into your future.
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Beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from negativity.
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