Symmetry is Perfection @simplysymmetry - Tumblr Blog

The goal is not to keep it together. The goal is to be true and authentic and let it be whatever it is, and let it not be whatever it isn’t.

I keep a bunch of sticky notes full of quotes on the dashboard page on my Mac. I like to read them whenever I need a friendly reminder, and this is one that is sticking with me today!

Happy Sunday ladies xo

cherrybabe101-deactivated202004

Friday Affirmation ✨

*I am bold and impactful. 👄

*I will take life at my own pace.

*I am the master of my fate.

*I am the captain of my soul.

*I AM A MONEY MAKER. 💸

*I am to be envied. 💁🏿

*I deserve ALL that life has to offer and will not give those who sit and wait.

Say it with me! And don’t ever forget.

Reblog for good fortune this weekend. 🔮

joeblack885

Girls...just accept it!

Just accept the fact that your sugar daddy wants sex. All he is thinking about is sex. Everything he does for you is about sex.

If you are able to accept that fact, you have essentially empowered yourself to be in control of your arrangement. If you focus on it, you will find that everything you want out of this can be manipulated by you.

Guys are idiots when their mind is clouded by awesome sex! In our minds, we have an ideal way you can be to satisfy us. By us choosing you for an arrangement, you fit the basic physical mold. The rest is entirely up to you to figure out what he wants you to be.

simplysymmetry

Seriously. They’re just being typical men.

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goldessz

living-fitness

Girl, can't nobody GHOST like I can 😈😈😈

sugarspicemelanin

For every single gift daddy, splenda or free vacay I’ve gone on (I’ve been on 3 this yr and was suppose to have one this weekend 😧😟🙁) this is the trap I use.

1) I casually throw out lingerie shopping for myself out there which of course will entice them. Note: I initially didn’t ask him for anything, just stated it would inevitably happen.

2) He bites…he wants to see. That’s when I ask if he’s buying it. Usually its a “yes” to which I’ll flirt back. In the rare occasion that it’s a “no”, I let him no that he shouldn’t even ask to see me in anything sexy if he’s not willing to buy me something sexy to wear. This usually turns a “no” into a “yes”.

3) I include him in the shopping. I send him photos of things I’m thinking about buying. If he starts to fantasize, I’ll slightly indulge him like “oh yea, I DO think my butt will look great in that…”

4) I up sale him. For example “oh yea, I DO think my butt will look great in that… Can’t you imagine me in lingerie and pearls/at dinner in nude heels and a form fitting dress with my lingerie peeking from underneath/ red lipstick and chanel?”

I’m creating an image for him that he thinks is based for his pleasure but already I’ve gone from just lingerie to pearls, dinner, shopping for shoes and dresses, makeup and perfume. And he doesn’t feel forced because he’s trying to bring to life the image I created for him.

Another trick could be to double up. Once you agree on a set or whatever tell him that you want to pick out another as a complete surprise for him and that he can’t see it until you wear it. Now you have two sets! (Assuming you have his card or he paypal you the money).

It starts small then you just add on a bit more every time. It helps if he believes You’re already accustomed to this treatment. If he thinks every man does this for you and that if he doesn’t do it, another will, And that he won’t get your time of day without it then he’ll more than likely get on board if he truly wants your attention. Btw of all the men I’ve used this on…. young vanillas are the easiest. Truly. Honestly.

simplysymmetry

I like the idea of using lingerie as a lure BUT what do you do if you have no desire to have them see you naked???

recoveryisbeautiful

tswatch

Something I’ve talked about before and find super helpful! Finally in a visual!

This literally changed my life you guys don’t understand every time I almost relapse I think of this and I stop I’m two weeks clean because of this post I love everyone who reblogged this thank you all so much