Experiencing catcalling when youāre not conventionally attractive is such an internal predicament. Because on one hand, when you experience it youāre repulsed. Because itās still harassment. But on the other hand- you finally feel that someone finds you desirable. And as fucked up as it is, it validates you for yourself.
And if you donāt experience, you wonder if something is wrong with you, like youāre not pretty enough or desirable enough for it.
And I just think itās really fucked up that our society has shaped us into thinking that there must be something wrong with us if we arenāt harassed, that if we are its okay to feel good about it. Itās fucked up.
















