inappropriate Fantasies.

Hit me and it feels like a kiss. 18+ ONLY.

[d3adwh0re-deactivated20260201]

Life Update!

I haven't been very active on here for a while because I have been working on myself, physically and mentally. I have lost 66 pounds so far and have been continuing to go to the gym and eat healthy. The supplements and diet I do are expensive, though, so I've kinda been broke, so that's not fun, but things are much better for me physically and mentally.

I no longer have sleep apnea, I have learned to like myself more and dress the way I want to now. I wear a lot of dresses and tights. I have more confidence.

Another life update, and the reason I haven't been talking sexually with anyone on here is because I'm IN LOVEEEE! LIKE...FOR REAL! He is so wonderful. So thoughtful, sweet, caring. He supports me emotionally even through a bout of psychosis I went through during the summer. He thinks of me before he makes decisions and cares how I'm feeling. I truly think he is my person and we are going to end up living together and married.

Here's to a positive future! Hope you've all been well!

[sinnyslut]

#2024

[inmyhead-imloved-deactivated202]

Fyi. A woman can

love daddys dick.

Love to be spanked.

Love choking on dick.

Love being a babygirl.

And still hate men that try to take her rights away. Hate men that degrade them and think of them a property. Hate men that think women are just breeding cows and should just cook clean and raise kids. . Don't call me names. Don't spit on me. Don't degrade me and don't take away my rights to my body.

If you have a problem with this just go to someone else's blog. Don't try and debate me. I am just a woman with daddy issues living in a world that is trying to hold me down

[thespiralreborn-deactivated2026]

Visit Original Link

This is the follow up to my previous dronification file, you can find it here. You need to have listen to it first.

[mstrdrew24]

Awesome work!

[dominantlife]

Updated Library For Kinksters

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

Topping from the bottom

[sirskia]

Always a reblog when it crosses my dash because there is a lot of good info here.

[choked-up]

I may not always admit it, but…

I need rules. I need the structure, the stability, a way to obey you even when you’re not around. I’ll whine and complain about them, but we both know that deep down, I crave them. That I want you to put me in my place when I act up or don’t listen. That I want to shine under your praise when you tell me that I did such a good job listening, that I’m such a good girl for you. Daddy, I want you to be in charge, and I want you to show it. To take care of me and make sure I take care of myself. I just want to obey you.

[ravenbunnie]

[lord-of-dice-and-kinks]

Things I’ve said

Things I’ve said during sessions over the past years:

(These things were said with consent obviously and said in different kink/play contexts)

1. “That’s it. That’s a good little slut. Keep gagging on that cock. Fucking gag for me.”

2. ”Ohhhh poooooooooor you. *Fake pity voice* Am I making you suffer? Is my dick too much for you to handle? Am I stretching your holes?”

3. ”Roll your dice. Let’s see how lucky you are. If you roll a nat 1 you’ll get 500 strikes with my meanest paddle.”

4. “Come back here, I’m not done with you yet.”

5. ”Yeah? You want to cum for me? You want to cum for Daddy? Go on. Use your words. Beg. Juuust like that but louder. Again. Louder. Goodgirl! You can cum in…3…..2……..2……….1….. CUM! Cum for me now.”

6. “That’s my girl.”

7. ”Look at you fucking gush for me. Did my fingers feel that good little slut? You soaked us both you naughty sub…. Well done. I’m proud of you!”

8. ”Did I tell you to stop? No? Then fucking continue.”

9. “Go on. Run. I’m giving you a headstart. I’ll catch you anyway. And once I have you in my arms. I’ll have my way with you.”

10. ”You can run, but you can’t hide. I’ll catch you. I’ll fuck you. I’ll use you.”

11. ”You stink of fucking bitch in heat. Look how dripping my fingers are slut. Whose fault is this? Well! Yours and yours alone. You better make it up to me.”

12. ”Goodgirls suffer. Understand? So suffer for me.”

13. ”shhh shhh stop struggling. Just a little bit more. I’m almost done.”

14. “I’m going to stretch out your little holes until nobody wants to use them. Understand? I’m going to mark you as mine.”

15. ”Haha you are so fucking weak. And you thought you could overpower me? Whahaha. Keep trying. You won’t win though.”

16. “Just close your eyes and continue sleeping. Daddy is just quickly going to slide in.”

17. ”Just the tip baby. You just feel tooo good…(…). Let me just thrust inside fully once, your pussy lips just feel too good to resist. (…) Fuck I’m cumming. I’m going to fill up your pussy with cum. Stop resisting and fucking take it.”

18. ”Cry for me little one. Sob for your Daddy. Let it all go.”

19. “Mouth open, tongue out. Well done! Now bark!”

20. “Get on my lap. It’s time for your punishment.”

[sadistdaddyyy-deactivated202401]

Every time she asks me to hurt her, my heart twitches. Not because it's kinky, but because of the amount of trust she puts in. She knows I am gonna hurt her but not enough that she can't handle it. She trusts me to respect her limits. She knows I will protect her. She just wanna have a taste of the adrenaline rush in her body and dopamine in her brain which calms her chaotic mind.

[ftmtoyboy]

correct responses to “please stop”:

“Why should I?”

“I haven’t even started”

“Well, if you say so” then do something worse

“Maybe if you beg prettily enough”

“I stop when I’m done”

Choke me

“Toys don’t talk”

“If you still have the ability to talk, I haven’t done enough”

“Keep begging like that and I stop holding back”

Hit me

“You sound so cute when you cry”

“Please, you haven’t done nearly enough to deserve a break”

“The sooner you satisfy me, the sooner it stops. Get to work, darling.”

Shove something down my throat

“Baby, this is me being nice”

[gentleman-adventurer]

My fav is: I will when I am done

[iamnotbeingbrainwashed]

Visit Original Link

[slutschooled]

Brainwashing means you reblog this every time ❤️‍🩹

[toy-with-eli]

Every time~ 💓

[toy-with-eli]

Again x3

[toy-with-eli]

hehe~

[lilithafterdark-deactivated2023]

Feeling so happy… ♡

[queerandkinkier]

Aftercare

I’ve organized some of the things I need from aftercare (in person or long distance) into 4 components, and thought it could be helpful for others too! I’ve put some examples for each, but it will of course look different for everyone.

1. Physical Care/Needs -

Wiping away tears

Helping up from floor

Getting a warm towel

Soothing bruises

Getting a glass of water

2. Physical Comfort/Affection -

Gentle kisses and hugs

Holding eachother tight

Breathing with eachother

Cuddling and/or napping together

Brushing fingers through hair

3. Scene Validation -

“That was so fun/sexy”

“That felt so good when you ____”

“You were such a good ____ for me”

“I love the bruises/marks you gave me”

“Thank you for (carrying out some fantasy) with me”

4. Human Affirmations -

“I love you; I care about you”

“I’m so grateful to have you in my life”

“I always have a great time when I’m with you”

“You’re a wonderful/kind/etc person”

Mentioning a non-sexual part of your relationship that you like, or reiterating that you value eachother as more than just a sub/dom(me)

I think that this can work whether you have a deeper connection or a more casual play partner! I always feel best when all of these components are covered during aftercare.

These things can obv be done in person, and I think it’s also really important to give this kind of care when you’re long distance, even if it’s just through words after sexting… for example-

“When we were done, I would help you up and wipe away your tears, bring you a warm towel and make sure you’re ok. Then I’d love to cuddle, with your head on my chest, and give you forehead kisses while telling you how good you made me feel and how wonderful of a person I think you are.”

Thanks for reading! Be safe everyone 💕💕

[kinkobra]

Hope it's okay to add on but in the Human Affirmations category I find

"You are not below me"

"I see you as my equal"

and "You are my partner and I don't look down on you in any way"

very helpful!!<3

[puppyboydrools]

If you don’t mind me adding some dom/top affirmations:

“The things you said or names you called me weren’t to harsh/hurt my feelings”

“That was a lot of work do you want water”

“Are your arms/hands sore?”

“Please let me know if you need to catch your breath at any point”

[nastybrattishandshort]

Yesss aftercare for doms + tops is super important. Especially if exploring something new or spicy like cnc, humiliation etc... these things are a big ask of someone psychologically and a bit of reassurance goes a long way. On both sides, before and after. Reassurance sandwiches for all!

[strictdaddydom-73-again]

Always important to remember and some very good ideas!!

[kinkylittleminxx]

👉🏼 MyPOV

[nii-neko-deactivated20160220]

[onesubsjourney-deactivated20180]

How to love a broken girl

How to love a broken girl. How many would benefit from an instruction book for that? Its easy to love the carefree girls, the “normal” girls, the confident girls next door, but what about the broken girls? The girls with fortresses around their heart and shields in their eyes? The girls whose souls have aged beyond their earthly years? The girls with bodies and minds that have survived wars which would break the strongest of men? Sometimes these girls should come with a warning label. The warning pendulum swings both ways. This warning is not only for how you must treat her but for all the ways she will ruin you.

1. You cannot love her gently. She does not realize she deserves to be loved. You must love her with a force that can crush mountains. You must burn her soul so hot with your love that doubt melts away. Your love must be unconditional and you must show her on her very worst days.

2. She doesnt know shes beautiful. She can get compliments all day and she wont believe it. There is a demon on her shoulder whispering that its not true. It takes a dozen compliments to erase one hurtful torment from her past. Shower her with compliments, be her cheerleader, until your words are her heartbeat instead of her doubts.

3. Chase her. I know we often have the attitude of not chasing anyone. I know it is said to be weak if we chase someone who walks away, but we need to see you are weak for us. Sometimes a broken girl needs to see how much you need her. She needs to.see that vulnerability in your eyes to feel ok. We need you to need us.

4. She needs routine. Broken girls over analyze everything. They notice everything, too. Did you stop asking her for pictures after some time passes? Did you stop using a pet name? Every broken pattern to us means the end of the only thing we have ever wanted and it terrifies us.

5. Smother us with affection. Touch us. Kiss us. Touch us some more. Broken girls have not experienced enough positive affection in their life. We will absorb every ounce as a person dying of thirst demands water. You cannot shower us with enough of a good touch.

6. Be honest and keep promises. Broken girls have not dared to dream much. Every vow made to us has been broken. Every promise has been a lie. We would rather you never let a promise escape your lips than have you utter false ones.

7. Prepare to drown. If we let you inside our chaotic soul, you will be immersed in a madness you will not understand. We sometimes walk the balance beam of insanity and sometimes we fall. The biggest warning we should have is this.. if we love you, it is forever. We will love you with a loyalty that will amaze you. We will be committed and our heart will beat your name. While we are still broken we will try to devour all of your pain. We will be perceptive to your wounds and eager to heal your soul. If we love you, please be prepared that we will forever stay.

***This was not written by me, but by Lady-Savant on fet, she gave me permission to post, and asked no links be added.

[babygirlprincessfordaddy]

👸🏻💗🤴🏼😪😪😪😪😪💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[tarotdaddy3-deactivated20231006]

I think many people have a fundamentally wrong idea of how CNC play is supposed to work.

To fit the season we are in I’ll describe CNC as the haunted house of kinky play.

In a haunted house the point is to be surprised and scared. You don’t know what is going to await you in each room and we suspend belief for a bit to pretend that these monsters are real, there is some real danger.

But under that is an agreement we make when we enter the haunted house. The actors won’t hurt us, the gore and monsters aren’t real. The people inside are going to try to scare you but if they see you aren’t having a good time they will back off.

It’s the same with CNC play. It’s something that should be done with someone you know well and who knows you even better.

It’s a blanket of consent that allows the submissive to lose themselves in the experience. To not have to constantly be checked in on over and over by their dom because their dom already knows their limits well, and how hard to push them, and can read very well when they stop having a good time and stop.

It’s a chance to explore scenarios where you wouldn’t actually want to be in. It’s the fun of someone pretending to kidnap you but you know deep down you are safe. It’s the fun of playing with multiple partners like you are being overcome against your will but the whole group is in on your limits and desires and is facilitating that for you.

CNC is never supposed to be to abuse someone. Or have an opportunity to hurt someone without their consent. It’s play, a show, an experience that’s a bit deeper and more involved than your ordinary sexual encounters. But it’s always for the enjoyment of both the dom and sub to fulfill their fantasies in a way that is always safe and consensual.

[k1nkyftm-princess]

This is so well written and an excellent reminder/introduction

[sillylittleparadox]

Rules

have always been a thing for me. I used to beg for them or even establish them myself and I became very dissatisfied when my Dom didn’t acknowledge them, follow through or was inconsistent. 

I’ve been struggling as to the “why” rules are so important to me but lately as I got rules that are in place 24/7, I started to understand that part of me more.

First thing is that I want to obey. A rule makes it so much simpler to stick to a healthy routine which makes me overly happy. I could establish one for my own and I’ve used to stick to these for quite a time so it’s not like I need a Dom to do this for me. But if a Dom does it, they get the credit. They took that responsibility seriously. I feel as if, I got shaped into that perfect doll. 

When I have a rule about what to eat, about what to wear, about how much to exercise, they decide how I look or feel. When I have a rule about when to touch or come, they decide how I feel and if I think. 

So ultimately when I look into a mirror, I see my Dom’s doing and the better I feel about what I see, the more I know that there is love and adoration put into me. I love, above everything, to feel his control and his ownership over me. 

Bruises remind me. The collar which I wear all the time at his place reminds me. The day collar which I wear 24/7 reminds me. Most of all, a look into the mirror reminds me. 

When I feel owned, I feel safe. When I feel restricted, I feel safe. So I let him shape me, toy with me and my mind, slap me around, and hit me and it makes me feel so cherished and loved that I could burst.

[innocentpuppyprincess]