Sir looking for her

In my 50s.. Looking for her

[sirlooking4u]

Just remember that someone might need a little reminder of how important they are to you, or reassurance how you feel about them.

[sirlooking4u]

The weather is getting warmer...

Sun is out...

Sundress and bikini season is on the way.

Make sure you are prepared....

[sirlooking4u]

Hopefully you are all having a great day...

If you ever need someone to talk to.. I'm here.

Just reach out.

[sirlooking4u]

This is a special message for a select few out there.

It you need to hear that you're a "good girl" from your partner...and you don't get that affirmation...

Either you aren't behaving well enough to earn the praise ..

Or...

There's a chance your partner doesn't know that you need to be assured that you are a "good girl"

Some Doms/Daddies know that their girl needs to hear it.. some don't.

Before you get upset with them or feel like they don't care... Make sure they know that you need the assurance.

If you've expressed your needs and they aren't being met...

You can either accept the dynamic as it is....

Let your partner know that things need to change..

Or end the relationship and find someone new.

Every little one out there deserves to be cared for.

Everyone has different needs and wants.

Make sure your on the same page.

[sirlooking4u]

Look. We're all here to have fun.

Explore. Sometimes explore kinks.

Nobody knows who's watching you or reading your blog.

I'm not encouraging it or supporting it . But we all know there are plenty of minors scrolling and posting blogs. Some admit there age...others hide it.

In this case age isn't the main factor... Neither is gender.

If you see someone posting casual pictures of themselves... And it gives away their location...

Tell them. Help look out for each other.

Age... Gender... Location doesn't matter in this case

Please help keep others safe.

[sirlooking4u]

When you meet someone new..

You should be able to tell them 10 things about you that matter.

5 can be of a sexual/kink nature....

5 should be normal things about you..things that define you.

If you can't do at least 5 of each... There's a reason why.

Either you're not comfortable sharing yourself with this person... Or you only want them in a limited capacity.

If you can only share the sexy stuff it's just a lust thing and may not last....

If you're only comfortable with the normal stuff .. you're giving off friendship vibes...which is fine.. just let the person know..

[sirlooking4u]

Thankfully the weather is getting nice. Outside again.

Less clothing.. more enjoyable views.

😍😅😍🤔🌞🤗😁

[sirlooking4u]

Conversation is key.

Talk to your partner.

Be open.

[sirlooking4u]

Normalize actual conversation.

If we can't have a normal non sexual conversation... Then there's no point in having a sexual one.

[sirlooking4u]

Why can't people be who they say they are.

[sirlooking4u]

If you want someone to be there for you....

You need to be there for them too.

[sirlooking4u]

If you are living in your parents basement and don't have your life together... You can't be a Dom or Master to anyone.

Get your own life together before you try to control someone else.

Now .. if said basement is an actual dungeon......

There might an exception.....

[sirlooking4u]

If your life is a mess and you seek someone to help take charge of your life.. to help things get on track..

You need to give that person control.

[sirlooking4u]

how big is your dick

Congratulations!

You're seriously the first person ever to send Me an ask .. and that's the first question...

Little girl. One doesn't just ask how big someone's ock is...

They need to deserve it first . And then can find out in person.

[sirlooking4u]

Morning routines...

Daily tasks lists...

Daily journal....

Requiring permission to play...

Requiring permission to finish....

Why think? That's why I'm here.

[sirlooking4u]

Ther world is yours....

The world was yours....

The world is Mine.

[sirlooking4u]

I know there is someone out there.

Someone who craves to be controlled.

Someone who like following rules.

Likes having daily tasks.

Asking permission to do things

Having someone to talk to... To learn from.

Someone to help teach... Train.. direct them.

Someone to share their thoughts.. desires.. needs.

Someone who wants a relationship... Not just fun.

If you're looking for this.. I'm looking for you.