THAT GIRL A.

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>just a personal archive/side blog

>not interested in nsfw stuff

>just me girblogging

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brushing brushing

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tumblr is too busy posting on tiktok instead of fixing the pedophila ring issue on this app

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tbh i loved aria with wesley, ezra's brother

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I always feel this pressure of being a strong and independent icon of womanhood, and without making it look my whole life is revolving around some guy. But loving someone, and being loved means so much to me. We always make fun of it and stuff. But isn't everything we do in life a way to be loved a little more?

—Before Sunrise, 1995

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—Fleabag, 2019

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We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything - what a waste!

—Call me by your name, 2017

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Women have minds and they have souls as well as just hearts. They’ve got ambition and they’ve got talent as well as just beauty. I am so sick of people saying that love is just all a woman is fit for. I’m so sick of it! But — I am so lonely.

—Little Women, 2019

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Vivamus, mea Lesbia, atque amemus,

rumoresque senum severiorum

omnes unius aestimemus assis!

Soles occidere et redire possunt;

nobis cum semel occidit brevis lux,

nox est perpetua una dormienda.

Da mi basia mille, deinde centum,

dein mille altera, dein secunda centum,

deinde usque altera mille, deinde centum;

dein, cum milia multa fecerīmus,

conturbabimus illa, ne sciamus,

aut ne quis malus invidere possit,

cum tantum sciat esse basiorum.

(Let us live, my Lesbia, and let us love,

and let us judge all the rumors of the old men

to be worth just one penny!

The suns are able to fall and rise:

When that brief light has fallen for us,

we must sleep a never ending night.

Give me a thousand kisses, then another hundred,

then another thousand, then a second hundred,

then yet another thousand more, then another hundred.

Then, when we have made many thousands,

we will mix them all up so that we don't know,

and so that no one can be jealous of us when he finds out

how many kisses we have shared).

—Catullo, Carme V

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I always feel this pressure of being a strong and independent icon of womanhood, and without making it look my whole life is revolving around some guy. But loving someone, and being loved means so much to me. We always make fun of it and stuff. But isn't everything we do in life a way to be loved a little more?

—Before Sunrise, 1995

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—Fleabag, 2019

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We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything - what a waste!

—Call me by your name, 2017

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Women have minds and they have souls as well as just hearts. They’ve got ambition and they’ve got talent as well as just beauty. I am so sick of people saying that love is just all a woman is fit for. I’m so sick of it! But — I am so lonely.

—Little Women, 2019

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Love has never been a popular movement. And no one's ever wanted, really, to be free. The world is held together, really it is held together, by the love and the passion of a very few people. Otherwise, of course, you can despair. Walk down the street of any city, any afternoon, and look around you. What you've got to remember is what you're looking at is also you. Everyone you're looking at is also you. You could be that person. You could be that monster, you could be that cop. And you have to decide, in yourself, not to be.

—Meeting the Man: James Baldwin in Paris, 1970

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I always feel this pressure of being a strong and independent icon of womanhood, and without making it look my whole life is revolving around some guy. But loving someone, and being loved means so much to me. We always make fun of it and stuff. But isn't everything we do in life a way to be loved a little more?

—Before Sunrise, 1995

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—Fleabag, 2019

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We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything - what a waste!

—Call me by your name, 2017

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Women have minds and they have souls as well as just hearts. They’ve got ambition and they’ve got talent as well as just beauty. I am so sick of people saying that love is just all a woman is fit for. I’m so sick of it! But — I am so lonely.

—Little Women, 2019

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I always feel this pressure of being a strong and independent icon of womanhood, and without making it look my whole life is revolving around some guy. But loving someone, and being loved means so much to me. We always make fun of it and stuff. But isn't everything we do in life a way to be loved a little more?

—Before Sunrise, 1995

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—Fleabag, 2019

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We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything - what a waste!

—Call me by your name, 2017

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I always feel this pressure of being a strong and independent icon of womanhood, and without making it look my whole life is revolving around some guy. But loving someone, and being loved means so much to me. We always make fun of it and stuff. But isn't everything we do in life a way to be loved a little more?

—Before Sunrise, 1995

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—Fleabag, 2019

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I always feel this pressure of being a strong and independent icon of womanhood, and without making it look my whole life is revolving around some guy. But loving someone, and being loved means so much to me. We always make fun of it and stuff. But isn't everything we do in life a way to be loved a little more?

—Before Sunrise, 1995

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trying to understand if it's clinical depression or just being in my 20s

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obsession is literally about how a man cannot accept that his crush isn't mutual and that he is a pathetic loser, and people still manage to call sarah a pick me, mind you she's one of the victims of his wish

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bear is an idiot bc if i had a one wish willow id ask to resuscitate my dead cats without any weird side effect

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what so many people (men) fail to understand is that girls who post nsfw pics of them on tumblr do not want their ugly ass, they want attention bc they didn't have any growing up, also posting urself like that online is dangerous.

plus it's very annoying when I look at my likes' accounts and it's just cringy porn blogs, so dumb and stupid, as that one article says, everyone is sexy, nobody is erotic.

everyone wants an easy mindless wank to strangers online, eroticism is a lost art. where's the eros, the art, where's the pathos?? there's no love nor respect, especially for women.

it's so annoying that i cannot even post a normal selfie on tumblr that thirsty idiots write me weird anons, losers.

saying "well that's tumblr" isn't the answer, ive had tumblr since i was a teen and still was smart enough not to get into weird stuff, and find normal content. tumblr isn't the issue itself bc nsfw blogs are termed 24/7 and pics get censored. grown men need to get normal and teen girls who post risky pics of themselves (basically actively grooming themselves) need to wake tf up, because they complain about sexism yet are here posting under some type of abusive/sexist kink tag.

sex based violence rates are getting higher and this is only making it worse, people forget how easily the human being is influenceable. it's a fact, and largely known, how porn is dangerous and violent towards women even if it's """pretend"""(it's not).

maybe stop with your porn addiction and you'll feel better about sex and yourself, and men should be ashamed and shamed more by society for preying on younger women and girls, even if 'barely legal' (how they like to say); they're quite literally energy vampires or some shit like that but like for youth. such weirdos.

im against both purity culture and hook up culture because they're two sides of the patriarchy, ugh just love and make love, not crush and fuck.

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you know what? my mistake for being on tumblr

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pouting nation