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Cute animals, witchcraft, aliens (and x-files!), and whatever I feel like. They/them/theirs, 25, pretty depressed. My name is Nyx and I just want to make friends.

[emaraofficial-blog]

Some of Dhabian’s many expressions! Which one is your favorite? ✨

✨ مجموعة من تعابير وجه شخصية ظبيان العديدة، أي التعابير أعجبتكم؟

[smittenstrawberry]

my life is a gays only event

hets go home

[body5000-deactivated20180929]

[boyoent]

aaaand we’re off !

[zackisontumblr]

as someone from the midwest i’m 200% sure i’ve said this before

[wasjopara]

*googles number i dont recognize calling me instead of answering*

[abipolarblog]

Boundaries

What is a Boundary?

“A boundary is a limit that promotes integrity. By the limits you set, you protect the integrity of your day, energy and spirit, the health of your relationships, the pursuits of your heart. Each day is shaped by your choices. When you violate your own boundaries or let another person violate them, stuffing spills out of your life”  – Where to Draw the Line, Anne Katherine

Defenses vs. Boundaries

·       A boundary lets positive things through and keeps harmful things out. A defense indiscriminately keeps things out.

·       Setting a boundary is a conscious and healthy way to protect ourselves from emotional harm. Being defensive can lead us into unhealthy and unproductive behavior.

·       Boundaries derive from love and self-worth. Defenses derive from fear and the belief that you are worthless.

Boundary Errors vs. Boundary Violations

A boundary error occurs when a person crosses a boundary accidentally out of ignorance e.g. Mark calls Elaine “Lainie” thinking that the Seinfeld reference is cute and funny, but Elaine has had lots of Seinfeld lovers try to call her that before and she hates it. Mark doesn’t know that Elaine hates being called Lainie. A boundary violation is when a person disregards us when we tell them that a boundary exists e.g. Elaine tells Mark that she doesn’t like Seinfeld and therefore hates being called Lainie, but Mark continues to do so anyway.

[thistherapylife]

Oh I like this quite a bit.

[rydell]

my fav con picture

[rydell]

Happy homestuck days fuckers here’s your yearly blast from 2012. Homestuck fandom you were a piece of work sometimes but undeniably had the BEST fucking con party presence. 

[queerstatic]

tell me something nice, hit me with those positive vibess

[eatsleepcrap]

the earliest recorded named cat lived over 3000 years ago in egypt and was called ‘nedjem’ which means sweetie

[queerstatic]

[eatsleepcrap]

the pet cat of prince thutmose was called ‘tai miuwette’ which means ‘little mewer’

[queerstatic]

[eatsleepcrap]

in medieval england so many cats were given the name ‘gilbert’ that the word ‘gyb’ came to mean ‘pet cat’

[th13f-of-sp4c3]

[windows-98]

[gahdamnpunk]

Flint. Still. Has. No. Clean. Water.

[gahdamnpunk]

Flint. Still. Has. No. Clean. Water.

[picsthatmakeyougohmm]

hmmm

[lesbeet]

hey if you’re not jewish and you’re making or reblogging all those “mark zuckerberg is really a robot/lizard” posts…….. don’t maybe

[lesbeet]

everyone can rb this and please do - i’m sure it’s not malicious on most people’s parts but it’s something i want to bring people’s attention to, these jokes often surround jews and bolster every antisemitic jokes and conspiracy theories!

[chubritza]

a confused florist

[chubritza]

what in carnation

[possumsblossom]

[chapter1mezzopiano]

@deadwooddross