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This used to be something I’d send him

Coz I enjoyed running things by him

ESPECIALLY when he has a different POV

Coz I knew we’d have an amazing convo

I miss my thought partner…

butterflikisses

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One of my favorite posts ever. You have so many sonic coins in you don’t you baby girl. Dada is gonna find out little one.

thoughtkick

“I wish there was some kind of button that I could push and it would allow me to unlove you. It would make things easier for me. I wouldn’t have spontaneous moments where I think about you and want to die. It would make the process of moving on faster. I wouldn’t ever be hurt by you again even if we are no longer together. I’d be happy. But that’s the thing once you love someone, you can’t unlove them no matter how hard you try.”

— Unknown

sketchywife2

“Once you love someone … you can’t I love them no matter how hard you try”

jimshortz

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sketchywife2

Ummm… yes please. 🤤🤤🤤

thememedaddy

sketchywife2

Sure.. it’s been 9 months since we last spoke and I still dream about him. 😞

theambitiouswoman

A lot of people are chasing connection not from a place of wholeness, but a place of lack. And when you’re chosen for what you represent rather than who you are, the love is conditional, unstable and ultimately unfulfilling

Wanting to be chosen intentionally not randomly, not out of desperation, not out of comfort, convenience, lack, insecurity, or as a placeholder is only possible when you’ve already chosen yourself first

When you’ve filled the emptiness within, you stop needing someone to validate your worth. You stop mistaking attention for love

You no longer tolerate being almost loved, halfway kept, or temporarily held because you know you’re not something to settle for, you’re something to rise to

And when you’re full within, you don’t chase or cling, you choose. Just like you want to be chosen. Wanting to be chosen intentionally not randomly, not out of desperation, not out of comfort, convenience, lack, insecurity, not as a placeholder is not asking too much. It’s asking for what’s real. And there’s nothing more honest than that

sketchywife2

Damn.

thoughtkick

“It sucks that we miss people like that. You think you’ve accepted that someone is out of your life, that you’ve grieved and its over, and then bam. One little thing, and you feel like you’ve lost that person all over again.”

— Rachel Hawkins

sketchywife2

The missing really come in waves… unpredictable… you think you’re fine… next thing you know you’re drowning because of a word… a word that means more than you think it does.