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Non-sexual things you do to drive men wild and make them happy? :)

Hi Advice Queen :)

The Non-sexual Arts I Perform on Men to Drive them Wild Are:

Treat them like they're Gods posing as men: I hold onto their every sentence and pretend to actually care. Men loveee having their ego's stroked and it's not a hard thing to do.

Give random compliments: The other day I told my man I loved his masculine eyebrows and I swear he's been smiling nonstop since. I always find a feature or trait about them to compliment and it makes them feel really, really good.

Play mind games: Call it manipulative but I like to play hot and cold to keep them on their toes and reinforce the fact that I hold all the cards. So I am sweet as honey on the phone then cold and distant over text. Works like a charm.

Write handwritten letters: It's always good to have something that stands out about yourself, and for me that's my weekly letter writing. They literally can't wait until the next one comes in and are genuinely touched by every note I send their way.

Random neck kisses: I always gotta keep it PG so I'll randomly come up behind while he's sitting, wrap my arms around his neck, and give it a soft kiss.

Make everything nonsexual, sexual: I moan slightly when I eat my food, I maintain intense eye contact during moments of silence, I wear flesh colored tank-tops when we're Facetiming, I put pheromones on top of my perfume. Basically, I work on those subconscious urges while doing nothing at all

Foot massages: Yes, I'm a very empowered woman but sometimes I choose to be submissive, get on my knees, pull out the foot cream, and give him a long massage. All men love being served and I can literally feel them melt into me when I massage their feet.

Leave him in a state of suspense: I always like to keep an element of surprise to keep things interesting (mostly for myself tbh).

Hint at the sexual: I'm always saying things like "God, I can't wait until I'm yours, completely" or "I'm buying a few new lingerie sets, what colors should I get?", or the classic "I dream't about you allll night".

Lovingly,

Elle

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maybe im missing something but why do you want to be financially dependent on a man? how is that a goal? this blog feels like genuinely one of the most anti-feminist blogs I’ve ever ever seen and it makes me really sad that so many girls are falling for this weird dated idea… i do not understand why you want to advise women to believe that just because we are women we deserve money from a man? why don’t we just make money for ourselves?

How to Depend on a Man for Money

I’m absolutely an anti-feminist blog because the feminism movement seems to ignore forget black and trans women specifically and centers their focus around mistreated cis white women. Read “Hood Feminism” by Mikki Kendall for further insight.

You’re missing a few crumbs of common sense, clearly. Nowhere on my blog do I encourage anyone to depend on a man for money however now I will:

Ask for Emergencies, Not Responsibilities

DON’T - “I need my phone bill/rent/car note paid”

DO- “My laptop broke/My phone screen broke at the gym/My dog won’t poop and the vet quoted me 5K”

Be Discreet About Your Income

DON’T- Be honest about your annual income, your pay rate, raises or outside income (from your parents, Financial Aid, etc.)

DO- “I make a comfortable amount/ Why?/ Not enough for this spoiled brat”

Your Main Complaint: “I Need a Getaway”

DON’T- hesitate with planning trips and making excuses for even a weekend vacay/ spend your own money traveling

DO- ask for him to cover “girls trip” expenses (even if you don’t have one…you need to cover your part of the Airbnb & activities)/ sign up for reward points (I will never encourage anyone to open a credit card however if you want to open a travel one and have him cover the monthly bill or become an authorized user on his)

Insist on Investments

DON’T- solely ask for shopping, gifts and overall frivolous shit.

DO- act like/insist that everything is an investment. Yourself. Your career. Your electronics. Everything is for the long term (and his benefit. For example, you want a boob job to feel more confident and take your confidence to a new level- including intimately).

When you do ask for gifts such as clothes, jewelry, shoes etc…make sure it’s for a reason such as getting good grades, completing a personal challenge (no smoking for example) or a miscellaneous treat yo’ self.

Refuse to be Reimbursed

DON’T- take any action without money upfront. Whether it’s traveling to see them or going to the store for them and they’ll pay you back.

DO- not move an inch until you can feel, hear and confirm the cash in hand (or bank account)

Make Your Self Care His Priority (Too)

DON’T- insist or directly ask for it. Stick to subtle hints. Activate your damsel in distress. Masculine figures naturally want to cater to you to rejuvenate yourself.

DO- become distant for a day or two and when they check on you “what’s wrong?/are you ok?/talk to me” communicate your need for self care time but struggling with detaching from your work/school responsibilities.

Pro Tip: Use keywords such as “overwhelmed” “stressed out” “burnt out”.

This is a perfect opportunity to throw in that you need a getaway…see above!

Men do not, will never hesitate asking you for anything. Pussè, a meal, bail money. If you’re interested in entertaining a man, you better make that man pay in many ways.

The only ones complaining are the ones who will give a limb for a man to spoil them or the broke boys who are out of my eyesight and tax bracket.

Dropping this gem before I dip:

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Three Big Girl Investments I’m Asking Him For

The girls in the femininity/hypergamous courses wouldn’t tell you what I would for FREE! Take notes and like ❤️ to save for later.

Disclaimer: I am not asking for anything I am not financially prepared to invest in myself if I am told “no”. These are all “Hoe” appropriate asks for the man I don’t want to marry but he’s cool for this chapter. These are all advanced asks and not suggested for anyone to use as reference if you are not educated nor prepared to do so.

A Gas Station/EV Charging Station

We are transitioning into tech based times and major car companies are producing electric vehicles which indeed need charging. Road trips for work, relocation or vacation isn’t going anywhere anytime soon.

I bet you wish you owned a gas station when the prices went up earlier this year. Gas prices in the 90’s were like $1 and NOW WE ARE AT SIX DOLLARS A FUCKING GALLON!

MY IDEA: A location right off a highway and preferably not surrounded by a chain of gas stations. I also want to be accessible for truckers whether it’s day or nighttime.

Male Dominated Business

A cigar lounge. A barbershop. A sports bar. One of the wisest things I’ve been advised as a woman is to invest in a male dominated business. Men who grow their hair need shape-ups, so I cannot wait to begin construction on a barbershop. Men are die hard loyal to their favorite pubs and sports bars (especially if their team is in the playoffs) so I want to profit off of that and have no shame.

Most strip clubs, bikini bars and burlesque clubs are owned by men. I want to flip the script for my personal satisfaction (and profit).

MY IDEA: I prefer to get my feet wet with a barbershop in order to gain hands on insight on the male consumer since the barbershop is where men vent and bond. I would secure a location in a neighborhood where I can secure enough black barbers both male and female.

A Franchise

At first I wasn’t interested in owning any franchise, however when I did further research I figured out how I plan on maximizing my investment. People are more willing to purchase something when they’re waiting for their flight/bus/train so I’m going to go that route.

MY IDEA: Maybe a Dunkin/Subway in a bus/train station. Amtrak isn’t going anywhere until we can teleport so I want to capitalize off of folks who want a coffee while waiting for their delayed train. I know someone pocketed big bucks off of me!!!

Egg Freezing (bonus)

This one is suggested for anyone who intends to become a mother. This costs around 10,000-20K according to this source with an average storage fee of $800 a year. I’m thinking long term and I want to pass on investments to my children. Even if you insist on not being a parent, you may want to save them just in case on someone else’s dime. Nothing against those who do not desire children because I commend anyone responsible enough to opt out of a responsibility they know they do not want. That’s smart.

Hope this inspired you in the slightest! Happy healing 🕯🧿

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🦋 LOVE & RESPECT YOURSELF ENOUGH TO WALK AWAY FROM A TOXIC, DEAD END RELATIONSHIP 🦋

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DATING 101 💬

The fastest way to find out if a man likes you

Create emergency situations (that’s reasonable) or if you’re in an emergency situation, PUT HIM TO THE TEST.

Examples:

• You’re not feeling good. Ask him to bring you a couple of items

• Car broke down / Flat tire

• You need to go to the airport & your ride bailed. Ask him to take you & drop you off

• You have to call off a date you & him planned because your period just started & you’re having bad cramps . Ask him to bring you a couple of items

A man who doesn’t mind going out of his way for you to make sure you’re safe & happy LIKES YOU. If he doesn’t come to your rescue or try to figure out a solution, HE DOESN’T LIKE YOU ENOUGH.

DROP 👏🏽 HIS 👏🏽 ASS 👏🏽

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How to manipulate men to become obsessed with you -

Toxic psychology edition with tangible steps #1

First of all try to identify your targets attachment style early on; this will give you a simple shortcut to his triggers and wounds to be used against him.

Easiest way to initially attract them is being bubbly, sunny and open - this demonstrates warmth and vulnerability which will allow them to lower their guard and allow you to observe personal information easily while he will associate happiness with you because it's contagious.

Listen very closely to what his values are and what he's looking for in life in general - this will allow you to morph into taylored dream girl of his fantasies (he won't listen to yours so just be ambiguous, it's your body language he remembers)

Ask who his favorite actor is. 95% of the time they will name an actress which can tell a lot about their preferences about female aesthetics, if you additionally ask what his favorite work by her is you'll have a movie where he finds her most attractive which will tell you potentially a lot about him, but what's most important is that he will respond positively when seeing similarities in you due to emotion driven association.

He's also likely to drop hints consciously or subconsciously of what type of women he prefers in general, never ask, just observe and implement.

Now is your time to neurohack him by attacking his conditioning, dreams and wounds. Patch up scenarios of his future dreams and insert you in there. Talk to him subtly about them in lighthearted manner. Planting these little images of potential future will grow and bloom in his subconsciousness like a seed. Make sure it's stuff he's really already dreamt of and not just told you to love bomb you.

Now start intermittent reinforcement. Be charming and excited, make what he talks about look like the most interesting, funny and important thing while smiling and laughing like you're in love with life. Then ghost out of nowhere right after good times or middle of a good texting conversation. He will be obsessively thinking what he's done wrong and the more he starts analyzing you the more space you have in his head and more neural pathways will be created around you.

Be a little ambiguous and mysterious about why you ghosted/went cold, preferably make up something completely absurd about him to make him question his own sanity but once you come back after a day or few make sure to be as sunny and dreamy as before, repeat this and you will successfully lock him in a dopamine-adrenaline loop where you will become his source of happy chemicals. When you're not there his stress hormones spike and he's ready to do anything to get his fix of you to make everything better again. Congratulations, you now have him under notable power & you can ask him for what you want and hurt his self esteem by gaslighting him into behaving correct to avoid the painful punishment cycle you've lured him into and he will want to please you.

Know that he will try to manipulate you as well and nothing he says can be taken as truth, instead when you recognize the manipulation play along with it to make him think he has some control over you with his little tricks - when these suddenly lose their power because you were simply acting he will lose peace from the stability he thought he had and be more desperate for you.

Lastly do not act like you're super interested in him, simply be energetic & charismatic and acknowledge him. Only show personal care towards him when he opens up about something vulnerable. He will need to feel like you're not necessarily available or into him. Don't tell too much about yourself, let his imagination fill the gaps with romanticized fantasies. Leave him confused to occupy his brain.

Happy hunting babes ♡

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Jewelry brands to invest in as a hypergamous woman

As a hypergamous woman it is imperative in my opinion that you invest in fine jewelry. Nothing holds greater value than quality jewelry pieces.

When a man queries me on my preferred choice of gifts, my immediate response is jewelry, and I always have a specific piece in mind seeing as I am always adding fine jewelry pieces to my wish list. I highly suggest that you create a yearly wish list of jewelry pieces that you would like to invest in as well, in order to use as a reference guide when queried on your preferred choice of gifts from men.

Building a collection of fine jewelry is a great asset ,take Elizabeth Taylor for example whose jewelry collection amassed a worth of $115.9 million ( based on the sales of the record breaking jewelry auction The Elizabeth Taylor Collection) Elizabeth was known for the extravagant jewelry that men would often adorn her with, her love of jewelry was no secret and any man in pursuit of her knew it was the key to gaining access to her affection. Building a jewelry collection of such great value is definitely something to aspire too.

Below I have listed my favorite jewelry brands that I feel create pieces worth investing in.

List of Jewelry brands:

Graff

When you want your jewels to be bigger than life as they can be, then Graff is a brand you can give your trust to because it wants its jewelry to be just that: big and beautiful. It had humble beginnings in England, when Laurence Graff founded his own company in 1960 after the jewelry shop he was working for closed its doors. Besides expecting the best and elaborate cuts on its stones, Graff is also famous for buying and resetting the Lesotho Promise diamond and the Wittelsbach-Graff diamond, among others. With the brand finding its gems on royalty such as Princess Diana as well as Monaco’s Princess Charlene, it also adheres to the Kimberley process, a certification that guarantees its stones are acquired without harming the social situation and the environment.

Boucheron

Boucheron is a brand for the person who appreciates international cultures, because besides its hometown of Paris, France, the brand has also drawn influences from other places such as Africa and Asia. This has been translated through the collection that uses combinations of the elements, and rare and exceptional stones all around the world. Boucheron has sourced his gems all over, allowing his creations to evoke universal emotions as well as awe and wonder. Started in 1858 by Frédéric Boucheron, the brand has been also recorded as the first to merge gold with bronze and ivory.

David Yurman

David Yurman is all-around American jewelry line, which namesake David founded with his wife Sybil Yurman in the 1980s. The duo are inspired by art as well as well architecture, which is evident in their collection. The bracelets with cable motif persist as the brand’s most famous pieces, but the design is also found in others such as necklaces and watches.

Piaget

Besides being a renowned luxury brand, Piaget has also set its mark by being a remarkable jewelry maker. Founded by Swiss Georges Piaget in 1874, Piaget is among the most prestigious brands in the world. The pieces in its collections are known for drawing inspiration from the glamour of Old Hollywood, featured even in today’s red carpet events. The designer was particularly moved by roses, which is apparent in its most famous creation, the Piaget Rose collection.

Van Cleef & Arpels

Van Cleef & Arpels may be a jeweler you’re familiar with if you’ve ever heard of its Mystery Set, which continues to astound and evoke wonder to this day. The French luxurious jewelry line was founded by Alfred Van Cleef and Estelle Arpels in 1896, and is known to showcase Old World elegance and class. The Mystery Set we mentioned before is a point of pride to the company because it is very intricate and wonderfully made that you can’t even discern how the stones are held up together. Patented in 1933, a Mystery Set piece takes up to 300 hours to make, so although it is still available today, only a few are released every year.

Chopard

Chopard may ring a bell for its luxury watches, but the Swiss brand is also known all over for its work with precious stones. Started by Louis-Ulysse Chopard in the 1860, it catered to women’s tastes by creating wristwatches and pocket watches especially designed for them. It was the sold to Karl Scheufele in 1963 whose family continues to run the line. The brand uses the finest materials in its pieces, often working with 18-karat gold and highly graded gems. Its Happy Diamonds line is a memorable collection for its art deco-inspired design and gems that give an illusion of twirling and prancing.

Harry Winston

Few people are deserving of the title “King of Diamonds” as Harry Winston. Creating a company he named after himself in 1932, he and his name has been associated with elegance and high style as he was often working with influential people and celebrities. Diamonds are prominent in his collection, thus the moniker, but the work on other stones can also be considered as fine art pieces. Although Winston has passed away a long time ago, his creations have lingered true to their claim of longevity, and his company continues to create timeless pieces.

Vanleles

VANLELES is the world’s first fine jewellery brand whose DNA is deeply steeped in its African heritage.The brand was conceived from a profound vision and desire to share the beauty and splendor of Africa’s precious gemstones and artfully translate them into magnificent fine jewellery. The vibrant culture, lush landscapes and riveting histories from the African continent serve as inspiration to VANLELES’ creations.Founded by the talented and visionary designer Vania Leles in 2011, the brand’s splendid and timeless creations are excellently crafted by the world’s most skilled jewellery makers

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Social Calendar:

Yacht Shows Worldwide

I plan out my social calendar on a regular basis as I believe networking and continually expanding your network is a huge part of success. Boat shows are an amazing place to network, I’ve connected with a lot of wealthy individuals at boat shows. I’ve compiled a list of all the boat shows around the world for you ladies, I’m sure you can find a boat show happening in your area to add to your social calendar. ✨

January

Boot Düsseldorf, Germany

New York Boat Show

February

Miami International Boat Show

March

Dubai International Boat Show

Palm Beach International Boat Show

April

Singapore Yacht Show

Thailand Yacht Show

Seatrade Cruise Global, Miami

MYBA Charter Show, Barcelona

Palma Super yacht Village

Croatia Boat Show

May

Mediterranean Yacht Show, Nafplion Greece

TYBA Yacht Charter Show, Bodrum Turkey

June

Newport Charter Yacht Show

August

Sydney International Boat Show

September

Cannes Yachting Festival

Southampton Boat Show

Genoa International Boat Show, Italy

Monaco Yacht Show

October

Abu Dhabi International Boat Show

Fort Lauderdale Boat Show

Barcelona International Boat Show

November

Qatar International Boat Show

December

Antigua Yacht Show

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My Fall & Winter Wardrobe Favorites! 🍂❄️

Coats/Jackets

Tall Khaki Maxi Belted Coat

This Olive Green Maxi Belted coat from PrettyLittleThing has been a favorite of mine during this season. It has great weight to it, feels luxurious and does an amazing job at keeping me warm. The belt is a great way to accentuate your figure in a form fitting way. The only con to this jacket for me is that the pockets are faux pockets so there's no where to stuff your hands if you're cold. This jacket is easy to pare with just about anything as you can dress it up or down depending on how you're feeling. I ordered mine in a size 6(medium) and find that it has a lot of room for movement.

Chocolate PU Contrast Coat

Another favorite of mine from PLT is this chocolate contrasted with faux leather trench coat that I ordered in a size six. Just like the Olive maxi belted coat this jacket is giving quality and luxury. As of 12/13/21 this jacket is currently sold out in all sizes on the PLT website but there is a good chance it may come back in stock as I waited a month after seeing that it was sold out for it to reappear on the site and sell out again fast!Upon receiving the jacket I was nervous that a running theme for PLT coats would be non existent pockets but unlike the Olive belted coat the pockets on this one are real! and they are deep leaving you with a lot of room for protecting your hands. Another detail that I love about the jacket are the tortoise buttons. We all know that Brown is just that color in fashion right now and with the unique contrast of the brown faux leather I knew I had to have this piece in my closet.

Cream Aviator Jacket

The classic Aviator style jacket is one of my favorites for the Fall & Winter seasons. This shade of cream on brown skin is so beautiful. I feel so radiant whenever I wear this color. The jacket has that edgy biker style while still being feminine, I love pairing this piece with other cream shaded clothing as well to give a monochromatic look.

Puffer Jackets

Whether it's cropped or long line puffer jackets are great for streetwear or athlessiure wear. They're a great option to throw on over something casual and great to pair with puffer style bags that have been a current fashion trend.

Shoes

Black Faux Leather Chelsea Boots

Chelsea style boots are back and it makes me so happy. Even thought they never really left I appreciate the love that they're getting now. Coming from a girl that used to faithfully wear the classic Doc Martins platform boot I love a chunky boot especially for the Fall and Winter to keep me going through those tough snow storms. These boots from PLT are amazing quality at a fraction of the price for a pair of Doc Martins. Chelsea boots are so versatile as they come in various styles short and long. If you plan on getting these definitely stay true to size. You can wear these boots with thick socks underneath and still have great room atop of your foot.

Faux Leather Heeled Boots

Talk about feeling Sexy and Feminine. These boots give just that. Shein has been mentioned a few times already but if you take your time, look at the reviews, listen to what people are saying about the product you can find great buys on there and these are definitely one! They are very comfy and sturdy for their pice point. I am so obsessed with these boots and now want them in every color, texture, etc.

Olive Coquette Ugg Slippers

We love a good comfy slipper for when we just wanna put something on but still keep it cute. These Ugg Coquette slippers also make as a great gift this Holiday Season! Ugg offers so many different styles of their slippers and boots there's something for everyone.

Bags

Telfar x Moose Knuckles Medium Puffer

This item is currently not available on the Telfar website but is available for resale on other sites such as Stockx, Grailed and Depop. I am so grateful that I was able to purchase this bag not once but twice on drop day and for anyone who has ever been through that high intense moment of trying to get a Telfar before it sells out, it's intense but so well worth it. I abosloutley love this bag, it definitely is a head turner whenever I go out. I love the Telfar brand and what they are bringing to the fashion industry, If you haven't already you can check out my Buy Black Series blog post that I did on the company and a step by step tutorial on how to Secure that Bag on drop day!

Buy Black Series: Telfar ✨

Secure That bag! TikTok✨

Taupe Quilted Clutch

This Quilted Clutch from the Charles and Keith company is a stunner and my oh my they are onto something. Charles & Keith is a great brand for my budgeting beauties out there that still wanna be boujee on a budget. I would most compare the quality and feel somewhere between H&M and Zara’s.Their bags offer premium quality while being more affordable then the higher end brands. The gold hardware on the back accents the taupe beautifully and the chain strap has good weight to it making it feel even more luxurious. They offer so many different styles of bags perfect for any occasion. This bag also comes in white, black and mauve. I might just have to get them all.

End Systemic Racism Tote

Unfortunately the End Systemic Racism tote bag by Brandon Blackwood is no longer available for purchase on the website but it is available for resale on websites such as Stockx and Depop. This bag is great for any season with the material being made of canvas so it is light and also has two longer straps on the inside which makes for a great crossbody bag. I am already waiting to gather looks together for the Summer of 22' with this bag in hand.

I hope ya'll enjoyed this look into my current favorites for this Fall & Winter! All links to the items if still available for purchase are in title 🧥🤎✨

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