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ed account/coquette aesthetic she/him

[skinnycoquettedreams]

REMINDER I AM AN ED ACCOUNT AND AESTHETIC ACCOUNT. if you follow me because of the aesthetic posts just remember you will also see my ED posts

[skinnycoquettedreams]

ugh i feel so gross. i ate grapes this morning and i had yogurt with strawberries and granola for lunch and i NEVER eat lunch. its so easy eating but the guilt after makes me sick :/

[skinnycoquettedreams]

feeling like actual shit after Christmas dinner :/

[skinnycoquettedreams]

my entire world is literally collapsing. my cat is missing, my dad and his gf are probably breaking up, im having the worst ana relapse, and i have to find a new therapist because my new insurance doesn't take my current therapist's company. i don't know what to do anymore

[theweightofbeingme]

DON’T MAKE COMMENTS ON CHILDREN’S WEIGHT

[milfoiil]

This is the fucking reason for my disorder

[skinnycoquettedreams]

fr tho thats is the most damaging thing to do to kids. don't forget to call the lines if you need help

[who-peed-in-your-cheerios]

Honestly one of the worst parts of an eating disorder is knowing otherwise, knowing better. Knowing it’s completely illogical, having that full sense of self awareness and still feeling completely controlled by it. That complete disconnect between facts, feelings and behaviours and being completely unable to consolidate it together.

[skinnycoquettedreams]

i am beyond greatful about the amount of followers and the community i am apart of on here. thank you guys💗 go treat yourself to a nice meal or snack you guys deserve it

[skinnycoquettedreams]

guys im so sorry i was inactive. its literally been like 2 months. i ate normally for like a month and then i gained like 5 pounds. my teacher accidentally triggered me today and im having a relaspe. ill update on loosing the 5 pounds i lost. i need motivation so please comment

[skinnycoquettedreams]

but why do i look really skinny? yesterday i looked like the biggest hippo ive ever seen

[skinnycoquettedreams]

oh my lord. ive been gone for so long i know. but i might be getting sent into recovery. my parents have finally realized something is wrong with me because i had a breakdown and yelled at my brother because he told me i ate alot. anyway so it turns out my dads gf used to be a rexie and was sent to recovery so hopefully she understands why i don't want to go. tomorrow im going to a soccer game with her and my dad so ill update if they say anything

[skinnycoquettedreams]

i gained weight. i can't believe this. i thought i was loosing but im just gaining.

[skinnycoquettedreams]

anyways so i ate breakfast and lunch :( i know my dads going to make me eat dinner too. so lets just call this a metabolism day

[skinnycoquettedreams]

im lost weight i just know it.

[skinnycoquettedreams]

OMG this morning i was wearing a tightish shirt and my mom almost asked me if i was anorexic. but instead she just told me to wear baggy clothes at my grandmas house because she would say something about my being "too skinny"

[skinnycoquettedreams]

today i had a high calorie day. i am going to my grandparents house tomorrow so im going to restrict very low. ill be there for like 3 days

[skinnycoquettedreams]

working on getting thin for the holidays!!! im going to go on a run today and restrict alot.

[pr1nceshawn]

Tips That Can Save Your Kid’s Life.

[hiddlesherethereeverywhere]

THIS IS IMPORTANT 

When I was a child, from the time I was about four and could understand things, my mom told me and my brother that we should have a secret word. That way, if we were ever in trouble or felt unsafe and we didn’t want the people around us to know we needed her to come get us, we could let her know. So she let us pick the word and my brother and I chose the phrase “peanut butter cups.” (I’m happy to share the phrase now since both my brother and I are adults now). 

I used the phrase twice in my life. Once, I was at a friends house when I eight years old. Her dad got really drunk and was throwing things against the wall. I was really scared and I didn’t want to draw attention to myself on the phone when I called my mom to come get me because I didn’t know if he would get more violent if I asked her to come get me. So I called her and was calm and after a couple minutes I asked “Hey mommy, did you get me those peanut butter cups from the store?” And she said “I’ll be right there.” And she came and got me within minutes. 

Second, I was a teenager spending the night at a friends house. Her brother and dad were drinking and they started talking about things that made me uncomfortable - ie: what they liked to do to women. My friend didn’t seem perturbed and said that was normal for them and that I shouldn’t worry. But I was worried because they were really drunk and I was 15 and the only ‘woman’ around that wasn’t related to them. I went in my friends room, told her I needed to call my mom and say goodnight. Before I hung up with her I asked “Next time we go to the store, can we get some peanut butters cups? I’ve been craving them.” And she came and got me, just like that. 

Two incidents, one as a young child, one years later as a teen. Don’t discredit this stuff, it fucking works. My brother used it a few times too. Let your child pick the word and no never, ever, ever, ever get mad at them for using it no matter what it is. 

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DO NOT SCROLL PAST THAT.

[honeybeehusky-blog]

Off topic, but very important! I was taught to yell “this is not my mom/dad.” A young kid freaking out in public is likely to be ignored out of embarrassment, but a kid telling you right out that they don’t know who is messing with them? That will turn heads.

[thisiseverydayracism]

SIGNAL BOOST

[wuh2k]

90% of all child molesters are members of the family, close family friends, or an adult in a trusted position of authority. All of this is important but one more thing:

Never instil an unwavering “respect for their elders” in your child, and never chastise them for “tattling” on or feeling uncomfortable around an older relative/family friend/teacher .etc.