// how to be happy? don’t expect a thing from anybody. I’ve created a bad habit in my life that I am totally ready to break 👋🏻 when people show you their true colours, when their true character shows and the mask falls off and you see who they really are? believe them. as simple as that. see them for who they are. I would say it’s a blessing and a curse, trying to always see the best in people, even when they’ve shown something else. but I make excuses for people disrespecting me, mistreating me, and overall just not being deserving of my energy. I make excuses and allow those bad vibes into my life, that’s 100% on me 🤦🏻♀️ don’t ever expect anybody to treat you with the same kindness that you do, just be kind. be honest. be loyal. if you’re treating someone with kindness and expecting something in return you’re doing business, not friendship. ** real friends will treat you right ** I don’t have to put anymore energy into people that aren’t really part of my tribe. now that doesn’t mean I disrespect them, or act hostile, it just means I accept that they aren’t meant to be part of my journey, & show them the exit. it’s been a realization of knowing your own worth, your own value. you really do show people how to treat you. honesty is a hard trait to come by these days, but the ones who are with me, the ones who get me, they tell me how it is. they are fiercely a part of my life. they know who they are. those who are reading this and don’t know where you fit in my life? you probably don’t. . . . #truthbombtuesday #transformation #timeforchange #levelup #mytribemyvibe #vibes #bye #realfriends #lifelessons #myjourney #honestyisthebestpolicy #goodvibesonly #nofakezone #✌🏻️