i got pulled aside at the bachelor party i was throwing for my friend tonight.
i got told that i’m being stupid for not being friends with someone.
listen that guy is a sexist and racist piece of garbage. when my soon to be ex wife stopped seeing him, then later, started seeing me he called her a slut and accused her of using him.
when she left me i didn’t even try to stop her really. which she did not interpret the way i intended. even though every part of me wished her to stay i just felt that if she was unhappy she should make her own decisions. i am not shitty enough to think that i know what’s best for someone, and i would have felt guilty if she only stayed because she felt like she had to for my sake.
even though she left i NEVER called her names like that or would accuse her of that. even after that whole youtube video debacle where she thought i was referencing her i still have nothing bad to say about her.
but everyone thinks i stopped being friends with that guy because of petty reasons like we share an ex. i think people forget constantly that i’m the one who set them up in the first place. i just decided it was time to stop making excuses for him.
he talks about women as if their garbage. he thinks that if he does things for them they owe him a relationship. he says the n word all the fucking time.
but sure you hang out with him. i won’t. but they’re gonna make me out to be the bad guy cause i won’t shake his hand. fuckin fine i guess i’m the bad guy again. i just have to be around him for this wedding and then he can go back to whatever hole he crawled out of and i can go back to never thinking about that garbage can again.