[sleepysunflowermuses]

yeah i’m finally working on updating things. even though i’m not even in the same fandoms i used to be in. hopefully this works out though because being in the rp community..... fun

[sleepysunflowermuses]

damn i haven’t been on here in a hot minute. might get back into the community if i can find the motivation.

[leneemusing]

misc sentence starters

“  i wish i knew how to talk about it.  ”   “  you don’t have to talk, we can just sit together.  ”   “  i don’t want to be alone anymore.  ”   “  i wish i could hate you.  ”  “  take a seat, we’re gonna be here a while.  ” “  i need you to trust me.  ”   “  i missed/miss you.  ”   “  she/he won’t listen to me.  ” “  let me do this for you. please.  ”   “  is there anything else you want to say to me?  ” “  tell me something happy.  ”   “  promise me.  ” “  i just want/wanted to help.  ”   “  let me explain.  ” “  i didn’t/don’t need you to understand, i just wanted/want you to support me.  ”   “  i’m on your side.  ” “  i’ve got your back, okay? ” “  please, tell me you have a plan.  ” “  stay with me tonight.  ” “  don’t go. please.  ”   “  i’ve been alone for so long i’m afraid i don’t know what it’s like not to be.  ”   “  talk to me.  ”   “  i did what i had to do.  ” “  we can’t keep going on like this.  ” “  i’m just tired.  ” “  i’m scared.  ” “  it’s okay to be afraid. fear can be good. use it.  ” “  it’s better to expect disappointment.  ” “  hope is dangerous.  ” “  i like seeing you smile.  ”   “  you look beautiful.  ”   “  be patient with her/him. they’re trying. ”   “  i’m trying my best and it’s not good enough. it’s never good enough. ” “  i’m starting to think i’m just fucked up.  ”   “  have a drink with me.  ” “  she/he is better off without me. but i guess that’s their choice.  ” “  you can’t dictate what’s best for someone else. ” “  can i help you?  ” “  i thought you’d like this.  ” “  do you wanna get out of here?  ” “  walk with me?  ” “  well, shit.  ”

[leneemusing]

more misc memes

“  change isn’t easy.  ” “  i just wanted to say i’m sorry.  ” “  i guess being angry was/is just easier than being sad.  ”  “  what did you want to tell me?  ” “  it was supposed to be simple.  ” “  you’ve got blood on your shirt.  ” “  you can stay with me.  ” “  what did you want to show me?  ” “  i miss ____ more than i thought i would.  ” “  i don’t like to talk about it, but i wanted you to know.  ” “  shut up. please.  ” “  fuck off.  ” “  hush, i’m trying to kiss you.  ” “  you’re lucky you’re cute.  ” “  i fucked up.  ” “  i just want to take it all back.  ” “  i can’t sleep.  ”  /  “  can’t sleep?  ” “  we should get a pet.  ” “  if you have something to say, spit it out.  ” “  i’m allowed to be angry.  ” “  she/he aint even that cute.  ” “  just hold me.  ” “  do you want me to go?  ”   “  i just need time.  ” “  i already made my decision, you’re not going to change that.  ”   “  nothing you can say will surprise me.  ” “  everyone leaves, eventually. either they move on or they die. they leave and i’m left behind.  ” “  death is a part of life. i accepted that a long time ago.  ” “  i don’t fear death. i fear anonymity.  ” “  listen to me, please.  ” “  i’m not even sure what to say to that.  ” “  that should probably shock me, but honestly it doesn’t.  ” “  am i supposed to care?  ” “  i do care.  ”   “  you make me happy.  ” “  you look beautiful like this.  ”   “  if this is your idea of fun, i don’t know what to say to you.  ” “  it terrifies me.  ”   “  just let me show you how i feel.  ”

[themusewhomuses]

about duplicates

[themusewhomuses]

themusewhomuses‌:

Duplicates are friends, not rivals.

Duplicates have the right to rp the same muse as you are.

Duplicates are not here to steal your friends/partners.

Duplicates bring in their own interpretation and uniqueness to their muse.

I do UNDERSTAND there are duplicates who were problematic, like stealing headcanons and ideas from their muns who are rping the same character they are. You have the absolute right to be wary, ignore them, and not befriend them. Though, for the most part, they’re all here to have fun and bring in their own style. And I am starting to notice people are leaving fandoms merely because there are muns who hates “competition”. 

                  Since when did rping become a contest to see who’s the best?

Like I said, you have the right of not wanting to associate or befriending with duplicates especially if you made it known in your rules. But throwing in the passive aggressive attitude and telling others not to interact with them, ostracizing them from the community is not the right way to do it if you feel insecure around them. There’s the block button and tumblr savior. 

Most importantly: You have the right to be insecure, but your mental illness is not a valid excuse to be mean.  

[fiiimbulvetr-a]

Be kind in the RPC in 2020

Be kind to veteran RPers. Especially if you are also one. You’ve both been doing this a long time. Long enough to develop your own ways of writing that work for you. You have spent your time differently and their differing writing style shows how unique each of your portrayals are. We all develop differently. No one is doing it “wrong”. 

Be kind to new RPers. Don’t chase new writers out of the community because they don’t immediately meet your standards. Don’t put them down because they’re learning. Don’t shun them because they haven’t learned to make their own icons, graphics or themes. If they make a mistake, help them to learn. Don’t isolate them for being the person we all were at one time. Your seniority is not an excuse to be rude or hurtful. No one has been at this “too long to be nice”. No one’s “too old to have patience”.

Be kind to RPers of all skill levels. Don’t mock those who use flowery language or purple prose in their threads. They are writing what makes them happy and if their partners are okay with it then what is the harm? Don’t mock RPers who need extra time to write long replies because they’re not used to writing. Don’t send hurtful anons to writers threading with popular blogs about how they “aren’t good enough” to write with their partners. That is for their partner to decide, not anyone else.

Be kind to RPers who have firm rules. They are that way for a reason. Maybe someone hurt them before and that’s why so many rules on their blogs are necessary. You don’t know. Don’t attack others for having a lot of rules. And be kind to RPers who are very lenient in their rules. Don’t take advantage of a person’s lack of hard boundaries. 

Be kind to RPers who ship your NOTPs. If you are against a ship and you see another RPer shipping it… You do not have to tell them how much you dislike the ship. You don’t have to tell them anything. Your personal preferences aren’t another RPer’s fault. As long as no laws are being broken in the writing of this ship, be kind and let others have fun in their own way. 

[catboy-supremacist]

Can I please add “be kind to RPers who have a different style from you”? I’ve witnessed a lot of toxicity over people using icons vs no icons, fonts vs no fonts etc. and it’s so unnecessary. Someone’s use of visual aids does not make them an elitist and someone’s lack of visual aids does not mean someone cares “less” about roleplaying than you. Roleplaying in past vs present or 1st vs 3rd person is also not indicative of talent. It’s unnecessary toxicity and helps no one

[fiiimbulvetr-a]

A good edition. Thank you!

[rpdepartment]

REBLOG if you’re willing to write canonXoc ships!!

[sleepysunflowermuses]

me: refreshes my dash

me: sees someone who has good ideas and neat headcanons for their muse follows me

me: wow....... didn’t know tumblr would do that

[rxgeant]

I FOUND THIS IN SOMEONE'S RULES, AND IT'S RELEVANT

I like to know my writing partner. This isn’t always necessary, and if you’re not the sort of person who tries to get chummy with their roleplaying buddies, that’s absolutely fine, but in my experience, the plots and characters that last the longest are the ones with the players that I can message at 3 in the morning with an idea without feeling like I’m bothering them. 

[oldmemesandhelpandthings-gone]

Send Me Your Assumptions About My Muse

and I’ll respond with “Correct”, “Nope”, or “Kinda”.

[oneinathousandmemes]

My muse lost their phone and your muse has found it. Send "😉" + a message your muse would leave for mine on their phone.

Bonus points if you change the lock screen, change the password, or leave more than one message!

[rpsourcedmemes]

We all make mistakes in RP, reblog if it’s okay for your partners to politely message you if you have missed one of their rules or made a mistake about their character’s information

[rpsourcedmemes]

Reblog if your partners don’t need to make excuses or feel like they need to hide from you if they’re not ready to reply to a thread. No one wants to be the person that takes the fun out of someone else’s experience.

[rpmemes-galore]

A small PSA that if a starter I write for you doesn’t work for whatever reason, you are absolutely welcome to ask for something different without having to worry about upsetting or offending me. I understand that sometimes you can’t find inspiration from a certain scenario, and that’s fine! I’m always more than happy to rewrite it for you, or even plot out a little more if need be to make sure its something you can work with! 

tl;dr :  you’ll never offend me by asking for a different starter. 

[rpsourcedmemes]

The IMs are a great way to plot threads and chat with partners. Sometimes though, we only have the energy for threads and only want to escape the real world for a bit. Reblog if you understand that sometimes your partners just aren’t prepared to talk sometimes and will be there for them when they are ready to talk again.

[sleepysunflowermuses]

man i love coming up with information for a character who has very little lore that i can remember off the top of my head and isn’t covered on the wiki page.

[noonymoon]

how do i come across? ♡

feel free to reblog and use for your own amusement ^-^ but pleeease send me an ask or anon as well, oki ?? thank youuu! have fun ♡♡♡

(´｡• ᵕ •｡`) – a little shy at first but has the most sweetest core

(ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧ – joyful and is always spreading the love around

o(≧▽≦)o – the total joker jester and up for a fight anytime

°˖✧◝(⁰▿⁰)◜✧˖° – kinda weird in a but a super precious way

｡ﾟ(TヮT)ﾟ｡  – complains too much but is secretely adorable

٩(｡•́‿•̀｡)۶ – still a kid inside and kind of awkward but nice

(≧◡≦) ♡ – mischievous to the max but with no bad intentions

(´• ω •`) ♡ – lolvely introvert with too much love to give

(〃°ω°〃) – always blushing because secretely naughty

ヽ(♡‿♡)ノ – likes everything and does too many things at once

♡ (￣З￣) – pretty laid back and relaxed with a big heart

(´♡‿♡`) – constantly crushing on sb. and pretty much crazy

(⌒_⌒;) – often embarassed but doesn’t take it negatively

(⁄ ⁄•⁄ω⁄•⁄ ⁄) – is a huge cuddler but doesn’t like to admit it

(⁄ ⁄>⁄ ▽ ⁄<⁄ ⁄) – always excited about their friends and pets

(ง ื▿ ื)ว – has the best ideas but sometimes being a bit naive

(￢_￢;) – is easily annoyed and shows it through sarcasm

(￣︿￣) – truly always bored but no energy to do sth against it

(」°ロ°)」 – over-uses the phrase oh my god and is a bit bizarre

(눈_눈) – smart and not pleased about anyones stupid bullshit

(￣ ￣|||) – actually never speaks their mind but is easily concerned

(ノ°益°)ノ – has aggressive tendencies but doesn’t mean to harm

ψ( ` ∇ ´ )ψ – straight up evil but you never know bc of the charme

(╥﹏╥) – wants too many things and has not enough money to do so

･ﾟ･(｡>ω<｡)･ﾟ･ – mostly throwing a fit when things don’t go their way

(｡T ω T｡) – pretty when they cry but you don’t wanna make ‘em cry

(ಥ﹏ಥ) – aware of their flaws but trying so hard to change

☆⌒(> _ <) – sometimes can’t believe how dumb people are

＼(〇_ｏ)／ – a real weirdo but they’re too cool to not enjoy them

〣( ºΔº )〣 – the paranoid one who always thinks bad things happen

┐(￣～￣)┌ – doesn’t care because their plan B is better than plan A

ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ – is always weirdly motivated and you don’t understand why

¯\_(ツ)_/¯ – really doesn’t give 2 cents about your shitty opinion

(・_・;) – doesn’t quite know what to say in awkward situations

(◎ ◎)ゞ – anxious and needs reassurance and protection always

(￢‿￢ ) – is up to no good but you can’t say no to their ideas

w(°ｏ°)w – admires everything others do but is actually admirable

☆⌒(≧▽​° ) – awesome but crazy all together, sometimes rly scary

| ʘ‿ʘ)╯ – is pretty quiet and reserved but actually enjoys people

(=^･ｪ･^=) – likes cats so much, they’re actually a cat themselves

ʕ •ᴥ• ʔ – loves you unconditionally and is tolerant and empathetic

∪＾ェ＾∪ – always happy to interact with you and brings you joy

／(˃ᆺ˂)＼ – doesn’t know how to deal with people but wants to

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) – you never know what they’re up to and it feels funny