When it comes to my kinky and sexual side, the main thing to know and understand is:
It's all about me being of service to someone.
I LOVE making someone feel good. I don't just mean good in a sexual way. I mean that in every way. Helping someone:
Cum
Explore a fantasy
Discover a new kink/part of themselves
Feel confident
Feel happy
All of those feel equally fulfilling to me. For my own mental health, I NEED a space where I can focus on making others feel good.
The people who meet me in person often describe me as cold, distant, and heartless. And it's true. I am borderline narcissistic in person. I say borderline because it is all a conscious choice to be that way and have people see me as such. It's, unfortunately, the only way I could ever safely flaunt my good looks the way I do and still be taken seriously in a professional setting.
With that dark part out of the way, Let's discuss the second most important aspect:
My Switch nature.
I am equally comfortable taking on a dominant or submissive role in any dynamic. However, I am not into cruelty or causing harm in any way. There is a big difference between engaging with any kink with the intent of making someone feel bad about themselves. And doing it because it makes them feel good. I hope you know which of the two I will go with by now.
Now that you understand those two aspects of me, Let's go over my BDSM test results (Taken 5/2/25):
My Dominant Style:
100% Brat tamer:
What can I say? I love a playful, witty sub who can give me a fun challenge and not give in so easily.
98% Rigger:
Tying someone up and having them helpless and at my mercy is just too much fun.
93% Dominant:
Nothing wrong with less kinky dominant things. Simply having someone who obeys is plenty of fun.
84% Primal (Hunter):
A bit darker, but I certainly don't mind hunting someone down to make them mine.
65% Master/Mistress:
A more formal and strict approach can be fun, especially for those who like punishments.
60% Sadist:
This one is interesting because I don't specifically enjoy inflicting pain for the sake of causing someone pain. I do love doing it when it clearly turns someone on, though.
54% Degrader:
The same applies to this. Degrading someone, for me, isn't about the act of degrading itself but about the fact that it turns the other person on.
52% Owner:
I am somewhat okay with owning someone as property and having them serve me like a toy. There are definitely specific nuances to it, though.
13% Daddy/Mommy:
Despite how low this is, I don't mind being called either. (I had a woman call me Daddy before, which was very interesting and fun). However, I am not much of a Caretaker.
My Submissive Style:
100% Brat:
I can be a very playful smartass who is very clever and witty and will make you think about what you say and how you say it.
100% Rope Bunny:
I love being tied up and being at my partner's mercy. I will absolutely be a big tease till I get tied up.
96% Submissive:
I have no problem with a less kinky approach and just being an obedient, good girl, either.
82% Primal (Prey):
A bit darker and definitely where the CNC kink comes from.
69% Degradee, 68% Masochist:
These ones are interesting because being degraded or having pain doesn't do much for me. It's more about someone being so frustrated that they just can't help themselves and need to put me in my place. If someone wanted to degrade me or give me pain just for the sake of doing it, that would be a no on my part.
64% Slave:
This one is more about enjoying the idea of being someone's fucktoy, and being used purely to make someone feel good sexually. But still being seen as a human and not purely an object.
19% Pet:
I am not sure about this. I think it's mainly because I am okay with the idea of being owned and taken care of in some way. But I don't want to be a pet in any form.
0% Little:
Pretty self-explanatory, I am not a little in any way.
General Stuff:
100% Non-monogamist:
I don't currently have any interest in being in a committed relationship. I also don't believe that one person can ever truly satisfy someone else, and I don't see any benefits in sacrificing one's fantasies or desires for the sake of being with only one person.
100% Voyeur:
Honestly, watching others have fun can be just as satisfying as participating, in my opinion.
100% Exhibitionist:
No surprise here, right?
100% Experimentalist:
I will absolutely try anything once with the right person.
18% Vanilla:
I can see the appeal of more normal sex and am not opposed to it every once in a while. But I do believe everyone has a kinky side, and helping them indulge in it would only mean I get to help them feel even more pleasure.
Disclaimer:
Despite how it might appear, I am actually very inexperienced when it comes to actual sexual experiences. So far, I've only been with three men and one woman. The only person I got to explore kinks with was that one woman, and it was more of submissive kinks. Which was absolutely amazing.
