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holy shit hi
Hi! what did your blog used to be? I'm afraid I don't recognize you
not a mutual but glad to know you're still alive!
thanks anon <3
i wonder if any of my old mutuals are still on here/follow me
anyways i'm still alive i guess
i wonder if any of my old mutuals are still on here/follow me
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yall heard butches discussing how being butch isnt just about appearance and took it and ran to the extreme with it and now theres blogs dedicated to posting anime girls wearing blouses and shorts sayin thats butch
before i get into it and someone tries to clown on this post theres always going to be space for androgynous women in the lesbian community and wanting to retain the actual meaning behind being butch is not somehow going to deprive you of anything.
anyways like,,, both the recent “soft butch” label and the increasing movement to label anyone who isnt a 50′s housewife as butch is honestly harmful to the label as a whole. When so much space is made to celebrate the same “thin white/fair skinned vaguely androgynous but acceptably feminine enough” figure the bulldaggers and the manly dykes and all of the butches who fall outside any of these constraints get pushed out to the fringes of a community that, lets face it, is already kind of on the fringe of mainstream lesbian culture. The constant separation of “soft butches” from butches who supposedly never have emotions or unmasculine hobbies shows exactly how much yall dont understand the very substance of the butch label.
yes, being butch is about being chivalrous and kind and providing for other women. But butch/femme culture is also specifically about women who are gnc in ways that are unacceptable to mainstream society, and the women who desire them because of their gender nonconformity
terfs/radfems don’t touch this
trans women who are a part of the butch/femme community are just as affected by all of the same issues here, and are important and valued members of my and many other lesbians social spaces
a lot of the lesbians that i personally know, myself included, don’t like being called q*eer because it feels like it’s somehow leaving our sexualities up for debate. it feels like people are scared of the finality of “lesbian.” if i’m a lesbian, that means no men, whatsoever. i love women and women-aligned people. but if i’m q*eer, that can leave so much to your imagination. maybe i like men, maybe i don’t. maybe it’s just my gender up for discussion, maybe it’s just that i don’t fit the status quo. going out of your way to call all lesbians q*eer instead of lesbians means that you don’t respect our right to the only identity that has ever truly felt like it’s fit us. i don’t want to be called q*eer for several reasons, but i especially don’t want to be called it OVER lesbian.
ideal butch aesthetic:
I want men to think I’m ugly & confusing women to think I’m hot and nonbinary folks to think I’m friend-shaped
I don’t want to go take pictures because that seems ghoulish but there’s an hour long line to get into the grocery store down the street and it’s been an hour long line all day.
I never wanna hear anyone bring up breadlines in defense of capitalism ever again.
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a butch/femme lit list
here’s a starter list for those who have asked!
odd girls and twilight lovers by lillian faderman
the persistent desire: a butch femme reader by joan nestle
stone butch blues by leslie feinberg (here)
s/he by minnie bruce pratt
crybaby butch by judith frank
boots of leather, slippers of gold by elizabeth lapovsky kennedy and madeline davis
keep in mind there may be terms we consider to be outdated in our current understandings of gender and sexuality, but these works still hold cultural and historical significance.
The root of the opioid crisis very much lies in the more broad "people living in physical and psychological agony with no other relief available" crisis
butch/femme couple dressed in matching outfits for a date. they’re having a picnic
*sticking my hands into my cat’s fur* Oh my god, did you make this? You are so talented.
Alexa Luciano, a homeless trans woman in Puerto Rico, was murdered the same day that a bunch of social media transmisogynists started spreading completely unfounded rumors about her using the women’s bathroom to peep on cis women, rumors that were started by some random cis woman who saw her in the bathroom at a McDonalds, who was so completely incapable of producing any evidence for her claims that the police dismissed her out of hand. Nonetheless, these unfounded accusations against Alexa spread like a wildfire on social media until some piece of shit men took it upon themselves to murder her, fueled by the hateful rhetoric of trans women as an immanent sexual threat to cis women that these social media rumor mills are always founded on.
Think of how your social media shit can literally destroy lives next time you try to place a moral demand on us to uncritically believe every transmisogynist rumor mill you come across, or the next time that you claim that cis women’s transmisogyny is just completely detached and unrelated to the most extreme examples of men’s violence, because what happened here clearly shows the opposite, and cis women are not innocent victims who should always be believed in this case, they have Alexa’s blood in their hands, every single one of them.
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i hate when someone says “don’t make jokes about rednecks and hillbillies” and some white 21 year old trying to be ‘woke’ says “haha… go ahead and cry your white tears sweatie (:”
no one thinks it’s a racial issue against white people. that’s not why people say to stop that shit. it’s an issue of classism. because the truth is that the majority of y’all who think you’re amazing activists just REALLY fucking hate appalachian people, and i know that because y’all think it’s funny to say “karma’s a bitch!” when something bad happens to an appalachian state.
you don’t care about the poverty in the appalachia and you don’t care about queer people and/or people of color who live in the appalachia. you don’t care about education in the appalachia and you don’t care that these low rates of education mean higher rates of poverty and child poverty, which persist over the years. rural children are twice as likely to live in areas with persistent poverty. you care that poverty stricken children are statistically less likely to not have timely immunizations, have higher delinquency rates, and have lower academic achievement — but only when we’re talking about urban areas outside of the appalachia.
people in our region die earlier than most. mortality rates are higher in the appalachia, and they’re even higher for people of color that live in the appalachia. suicide rates are higher than anywhere else in the country by 17% — it’s 31% higher in central appalachia, and in rural areas within the appalachia, it’s 27% higher than metro appalachia. cancer morality rate is 10% higher, and it’s 15% higher in rural appalachia than metro appalachia. COPD mortality rate is 27% higher, and 55% higher in rural appalachia than metro appalachia. injury mortality rate is 33% higher, and it’s 47% higher in rural appalachia than in metro appalachia. stroke mortality rate is 14% higher — and you guessed it’s, these rates are higher in rural areas vs metro areas by 8%. the rate of Years of Potential Life Lost, which measures premmature mortality from all causes of death, is 25% higher in appalachia, and 40% higher in rural vs metro areas.
the appalachia has an opioid epidemic. in 2015, our rate of death with drugs was 65% higher than the national average. 69% of those drug deaths were from opioids. these deaths have a connection to our poverty and education rates. the poorer you are, and the less educated you are, the more likely you are to die from an opioid death.
when i say “don’t make jokes about rednecks and hillbillies”, that doesn’t mean i think you’re being racist against white people (and again — the majority of people who claim this also happen to be white 🙄). i say that because you are perpetuating extremely toxic rhetoric about our region, you are promoting stigma, you are encouraging blatant classism, and you are furthering the idea that we somehow “deserve” it because our elected officials vote republican. it’s not cute. stop acting like none of us have the right to call you out on your classist bullshit. like i’m sorry if this comes off as too aggressive but i am sooooo sick of y’all thinking it’s funny that our region is suffering.
and before anyone asks me for resources and links: google exists. i did my research and you can do it too.
EDIT: https://www.arc.gov/assets/research_reports/Health_Disparities_in_Appalachia_Trends_in_Appalachian_Health.pdf here, since y’all are too fucking obnoxiously incapable of taking 2.3 seconds google and instead want to claim I pulled random numbers from my asshole
also here https://www.arc.gov/assets/research_reports/Health_Disparities_in_Appalachia_August_2017.pdf
a big problem with the people who say stuff like this is they don’t realize just how many “rednecks and hillbillies” are non-white. there are so many appalachian and southern POC that also suffer through these conditions but people like to cling to their idea that the only hicks are white hicks, so they couldnt care less if places like WV or KY just fell off the map, and to hell with who it is that’s actually hurting.
people also act like it’s only appalachian and southern whites that voted for trump and that vote republican and it’s not true - half of all white women voted for trump. the rich ones and the poor ones. it’s not a problem that’s tied specifically to southern and appalachian white people but it’s an easy scapegoat and allows people to not think about what they’re actually saying.
as long as they can say that it’s just them shitty racist white hicks that are suffering, then they don’t have to actually care about them. they can ignore them and not do anything to help them. like another person said in the notes, the teacher strike in WV is a better example of leftist organization than a whole lot of the people saying shit about hillbillies have ever done but they don’t care about that because, well, theyre just white hillbillies so what does it matter?
Too relevant, yet again: THE LEGACY OF SOCIAL DARWINISM IN APPALACHIAN SCHOLARSHIP
To paraphrase George Orwell, these self-ID’d socialists do not love the poor, they simply hate the rich.
Classism is a real bad look, y'all.
A lot of this also relates to the people of the ozarks, like in Oklahoma, which is the forced home of many indigenous nations.