Snowbunny Watching

Used to be SnowbunnysFantasies. I'm using this blog to follow and talk with people.

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Hello, World!

This is me tumbling down the rabbit hole again. My previous blog, Snowbunny’s Fantasies, got deleted, so I’ve made this one to follow and talk with people. I don’t expect to post much, so as not to anger the tumblr gods.

I’m a white girl with dark fantasies. Fantasies about racial differences and a society trying to heal the wounds of countless of years of injustice. I love talking about ideas, and I’m always on the lookout for intelligent people to inspire and get inspired by.

A word of warning, though: I’m in a loving relationship with my (white) boyfriend, who doesn’t need to know about the existence of this blog. My fantasies are fantasies only. I’m not looking to make them a reality, so don’t contact me if you want to meet up or want to offer what you think is “helpful advice” on how to make them real.

Age: Late twenties.

Appearance: Red hair, blue eyes, pale skin. Not particularly curvy.

Location: Northern Europe. To Americans, this means I’m on at weird times. Also, English isn’t my first language, so excuse grammar mistakes and quaint expressions you only hear in movies.

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Hi, I'm a white guy (25 years old) from the EU. I've been following your blog for a long time, you do a great job. I admit that in the next election I'm thinking about voting for a party that is pro-migration that helps Africanization of the EU. What do you think?

Go for it. Europe has for generations been extracting natural resources from African countries. It's time the African people came along.

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Do you ever masturbate to the image at the top of your Tumblr, the one focused on an interracial kiss? It’s just so freaking hot, the perfect introduction to the even hotter writing beneath ;-)

This one? It is a beautiful one, I agree. It isn't one I've played with myself to, though. I'm more of a video kinda girl.

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"An individual has not started living until he or she can rise above the narrow confines of his or her individualistic concerns to the broader concerns of all humanity."

- Martin Luther King

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"The time is always right to do what is right."

- Martin Luther King

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"No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite."

- Nelson Mandela

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I know you already had such posters, but them and your blog also in such a situation encourage me to rather introduce one of my crushes I went to school with since 6th grade to a black friend or acquaintance rather than try anything with her myself. We go to the same gym too and there are aerobics, twerking classes nearby. She does the aerobics besides the gym and mentioned how she thought about wanting to join a further dance class. Would you think it's a good idea to slightly mention to her how it's a cool dance or style, in hopes that she tries these things to hopefully attract the right kind of attention? Because it would be weird mentioning to black guys I know straight off that look, there is a girl you can date and they know almost nothing of her interests or what she likes

I love getting these super detailed asks from anons asking for advice in real life situations. Why do they think my advice is worth following? I'm just some person on the internet.

Anyway, go ahead, random asker. Encourage your crush to take up twerking in the hope that she attracts a Black man. I don't really know either of you, but I'm sure that would be a joyful experience for everyone involved.

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Have your ever heard of Snowwhitedk? She is a danish onlyfans creator who does interracial videos.

I think I've heard her name before. I don't have an OF account, though.

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That height post really got to me. 172cm white guy. Like, I feel I have no chances.

There there, random anon. I'm sure there's someone out there for you.

Just not this one. She's taken.

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Just putting a little two and two together. Your post about height plus the fact that you’re online at the same time as a certain 30-year-old, Black, Tall, Dominant man packing a 33cm/13in gives you away. No complaints. I hope you both enjoy each other’s company and your time together.     

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"We must learn to live together as brothers and sisters or we will perish together as fools."

- Martin Luther King

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"We may have come in different ships, but we're in the same boat now."

- Martin Luther King

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"It doesn't matter how strong your opinions are. If you don't use your power for positive change, you are indeed part of the problem."

- Coretta Scott King

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“The results on partner preferences are a bit discouraging if you’re a short man. In general, women were more likely than men to think that the man should be taller and they tended to not want to be in a relationship in which they were taller than their male partners. Men liked being taller than their partners, but they didn’t care about the height difference as much as women did.”

- Psychology Today

“According to the study data, the dominant reasons females cited for preferring a tall partner are matters of protection and femininity. “As the girl, I like to feel delicate and secure at the same time,” said a woman in the study who is 5 feet 3 inches tall. “Something just feels weird in thinking about looking ‘down’ into my man’s eyes. There is also something to be said about being able to wear shoes with high heels and still being shorter. I also want to be able to hug him with my arms reaching up and around his neck.”

- Rice University

“One study found that, on average, women’s satisfaction with their partner’s  actual height was greatest when he was 21cm taller than themselves.  Conversely, men’s satisfaction was greatest with a woman who was 8cm  shorter than them. Not only do women want taller men; they seem to  favour a bigger height difference than men. ... Besides the preference for height, women also tend to show a preference for indicators of dominance in men, such as physical strength and masculine facial features.“

- The Conversation

“Self-professed  "tall whore" Catherine, 26, says she finds tall men irresistible. ... Sarah, 31, is 5'4" and says she "can't feel an emotion" towards men under  6'3". ... Both Sarah and Catherine’s love of Tall Boys is understandable. Multiple studies have shown that height is one of the most appealing physical attributes a heterosexual man can possess.”

- Vice

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So I know this is mostly fantasy for you since you don't want to ruin your relationship (totally fair), but what is the closest you've gotten to actually doing it? An intimate conversation with a black man on here perhaps, or picking up a dating app to see what your options are, etc

I've talked to some Black men on here, but it's never actually gotten very intimate. I feel guilty when talking with them, and I think they can sense that and pull away.

I did talk to a white guy on here about his Black boxing buddy. Muscular, tattooed, a little rough around the edges. Not seeing anybody at the moment but definitely into white girls.

I would never go through with it, but at that moment I could definitely feel the temptation.

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How are you familiarising yourself with black/Afro culture?

It's shameful to admit, but I'm not really familiarizing myself with Black/Afro culture. Whatever little I know has come to me passively, like listening to R&B on the radio. It is not something I actively seek out.

The excuses come easily: I have a busy life, I don't have any Black friends to help me, yadda, yadda, yadda.

But the truth is that I just don't prioritize it.

That would change if I had a Black boyfriend.

He would scold me for not knowing enough about his culture.

He would make sure my Spotify was playing nothing but Black artists.

He would make sure that books like Ibram X. Kendi's How to be an Antiracist and Layla Saad's Me and White Supremacy were on my nightstand - and that I was reading them.

He would introduce me to Black women and encourage me to spend time with them. Even if it meant spending less time with my all-white friend group.

He would make sure I was in frequent attendance at Black Lives Matter rallies - in the back with the other white people.

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"I may not be the king anymore, but at least I can be the king's helper."

Does this mean that you have softened your stance on white men who like to see white women get it on with black men? ;)

You mean this post?

No, not really. I say the same thing I've always said: The new racial dynamics leave white guys without an obvious role to play, and it's tempting for them to retell the story in such a way that they're a key character. I never said that this was a retelling that either Black men or white girls wanted.