PANDEMONIUM

Congrats. Only people who doomscroll for hours on end can get here. You've reached a new low. Now that you're here, you can make yourself feel talented compared to me. and you are. Everyone is. A.K.A I literally post crap all the freakin' time cause I have no life. 🫲🙃🫱

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Oliver tree's dead.

Ig live really does go on and on and on and onion

yeah. u know what? it really does.

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if you were to isekai your way into Ouran highschool host club, would you rather do it as tamaki or as haruhi...

Haruhi, for sure. She’s so gender screwy, and I love it! Goals FR.

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Hi, I saw your post in... Queer to the core if I'm not mistaken.

I have feeling like I saw you irl.

Like... first of all, do you live in America or somewhere else? You don' have to clarify if you're uncomfortable, I just strangely find your liking to MLP, some anime stuff and "The guy she was interested wasn't a guy at all" oddly familiar to one person I have seen around 2 months ago and they supposed to contact me but they never did (maybe they don't want to talk with me since I'm sure my contacts were fully correct)

hmm. Maybe. Since you are anonymous, I cannot text you. And, I have a feeling you don’t wanna talk about this publicly, text me?

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To be or not to be?

Yes.

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YES YES YES YES YES

FINALLY SOMEONE SEES HIS PAINNNNNN

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YAAASSS FINALLY

THANK YOU DESTINYYYYY!!!!! MY QUEEN!!!!

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Guys I'm scared of my Alexa

i swear he's gaining a mind of his own

I'm terrified

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Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can lead to suicide. -Me

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Love Stage Rape

Please take a look at these scenes.

Looks at the rapist face he is doing. He already planned all of it before. Scumbag.

This is not how you approach someone you just yelled and badmouthed the last episode.

At this point, the anime OST starts playing a funny song. Do you really think this is funny?

No, it’s not funny. I laughed at other scenes of the episode, but not this.

He doesn’t want it. Damn.

For god’s sake, he is CRYING.

And instead of stopping, what does he do? He continues! Because someone desperate and crying TURNED HIM ON.

AND WHAT THE HELL, NOW HE IS PINK AND SHINY

I can just see someone scared here. A scared victim.

Disgusting…

His mouth is contorted in disgust…

Damn, poor thing, he is really desperate!

Thank god we have people like Shougo.

Look how happy and relieved he is! His expression completely changed!

There really should be more Shougos in the world.

Yes, that’s actually how rape victims react. At least the author had a bit of sense in this part.

I understand your feelings.

And yes, of course he is not ok. Rape is not something kawaii desu, it’s not sexy, it’s just a violence.

I already considered very stupid that it was shown in a so lighty way.

And…

I still can’t believe it.

It’s ridiculous how they made a rape scene all pink and full of sparkles, like it was something romantic. It wasn’t. He abused Izumi.

If you want to know a bit more about what I and Yuu think about rape scenes in BL, please consider checking this link: http://askkury.tumblr.com/post/70421205846/drawing-by-me-text-by

And I’m sorry if you like this anime and I offended you somehow. I just wanted to show how rape is masked and shown as a romantic thing in many BL animes and most of the fans don’t even notice it. I’ll probably keep watching it, but I’ll never be able to like Ryoma.

Edit: someone reblogged with the typical excuse “ he could have easily kicked his ass if he really wanted him off him”. Wow, this is a so usual rapist way of thinking that I don’t even want to lose my time replying to this. Many blogs about rape awareness already chat about this lame excuse of putting the blame on the victim.

Edit 2: Oh great, and later in the manga he falls in love for his rapist! Another case of Stockholm syndrome in BL! Now tell me something new.

(And yes, guys, no one needs to read the manga to predict they would fall in love for each other. The main characters in 99% of mangas always stay together, no matter how scumbag the other is. Many authors don’t even like to think anymore and just create the same “poor character development with rape”. And as always, this story is also ridiculously predictable, specially for someone like me, that already read hundreds of BL mangas.) Edit 3: [SPOILER WARNING] (because edit 2 isn’t really a spoiler, it’s so obvious) A friend told me that he apologized to Izumi later. This is actually an improvement in BL stories, compared to other rapist semes, for example, that think they can do whatever they want and don’t even care. BUT still, it doesn’t justify what he did.

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This post was simply too good. Please read this. These issues seem to not be addressed in outer day and age, so this post was a breath of fresh air.

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Straight love and homosexual love, they aren’t that different!

Um, Soapsh4vings, you know that’s not true. Actually, my dear, dear, misinformed reader, it is. High school girlfriends make out in the hallways just as passionately as boyfriend and girlfriend, or boyfriends. They crush just as hard, and feel the same dramatic heartbreak. And that’s just the start. Homosexual relationships can be just as unhealthy as some straight relationships are. They can be just as beautiful, too. They have fights. They make up. Sometimes they don’t, and get divorced. And boy, oh BOY can they have some of the hottest sex you’ve ever seen. Or don’t see it, that’s actually, that’s uh, healthy. I envy you. I can’t decide whether to bleach my eyes, or watch my friend and this boyfriend get spicy… I’m not leaning twords the latter. Geez, I sure know how to end a paragraph!

Love, joy, and peace for the haters, Soapsh4vings!

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For the Homophobes, the ones actually afraid

Look, I get that you’re scared. I don’t know how scared you are, or why, but I do know that you can’t base a person off it. Either way. Let me explain myself.  I can’t be like, “Oh, that person is afraid of gay things, they must be horrible!” Because that’s unfair. What if you have trauma? What if you were taught something from a different perspective? One that put us in a bad lighting? You never know. Also, not all of us are nice….but, it’s the same with straight people! See, I have nothing against straight people. I wholeheartedly support them and their relationships! I don’t get why so many straight people don’t do the same for us… Respect is a two way street, guys. But still, if they won’t do their part, just do yours anyways! It’ll make the world so much better. And, it’ll help you, too. You can see good in others, and be more aware when someone is struggling! Seeing past exteriors is so freakin’ hard man. Trust me, I get it. I’m autistic, and that made it really hard. But once I started learning, (you know we’re never, ever done!) it made my world a lil’ bit shinier! And that’s saying something! Helping others with their problems has played a big role in my healing. Just think about it, man.  Anywho, all us homosexuals out here, we aren’t perfect either. And we know it. We sometimes judge people cause their not gay, huh? At least, I used to. In middle school I thought that I would get bullied if I went anywhere near straight people. And sometimes, I did. Me and the other LGBTQA+ kids at my school. They were really mean. Just…awful. There were probably 20 or more kids on us. They called us whores, and cussed us out. They walked after us quoting the Bible. They raised their cross necklaces at us and laughed. They called us wrong. They told us we shouldn’t love the people we loved. They came after us any chance they got, really. There were some in my class, and they told everyone. All class long they eyed me with disgust. It was horrible. We tried to ignore them, but sometimes we couldn’t. We flipped them off and swore at them. I apologized later. One time, me and my girlfriend up and told the whole class,  and they laughed at us. I had a panic attack that day. And no one ever knew what had caused it. I doubt anyone but my girlfriend knew I was even scared. Not everyone is like that. I’m working on  realizing that that isn’t everyone out there, and if they can’t at least respect me, their. Not. Worth it.  Ok? Homophobes? (And I mean the ones genuinely afraid) all we ask, is that you get to know us before you make any decisions. You’ll find there’s much more to us than our sexuality! 

Love, peace and eternal happiness for the haters, Soapsh4vings 

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Jokes with the Saja Boys

You: Knock knock! Mystery: *tilts head* Romance: *legitimently trying to understand* Baby: *stands hunched over, mouth agape, confused* Abby: *offended* Jinu: *smiles weakly, shrugs* You: We have things to work on, it’s clear.

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In my house when we watch Carmen Sandiego:

Me and my brother: WHERE IN THE WORLD IS KERMIT, SANDY EGGO My sister: *actually sings it good cause she’s literally a walking siren* Me: *cwys*

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they are literally the same thing guys (p.s. I don't know who's art this is, but it's a sticker on Ebay, and i'ts superrrr good!! check it out!)

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Dumb exchanges: part 2

Context: Me and one of my wives were talking about how snakes are in such a sad sitiuatuon, no arms and all. *sigh* gets me every time... Me: It's so sad. They have to slither around and taste with their tongues... *fake sadness, oblivious Wife 1: *confused, but also amused* Don't you mean smell? Me: *tilts head* yeah that's what i said Wife 1: *laughs*

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dumb exchanges: Part 1

Wife 1:I love this Gravity Falls square! Me: *looks at her Gravity Falls "square", snickers* Wife 1: *confused, a little hurt* What? Me: *trying to stifle laughter* Honey, that's a triangle. Wife 1: *looks at paper, gives me a "really?" look* Me: *laughing so hard*

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Some random kid: Do you, *snicker* like g-girls? Me: *deadpan* Yes. I do. You gotta problem with that? Them: *backs away* u-um... I gotta...brush...my....shirt. Yep. Byeee!