Hi Miss Jewel, love Your blog! Quick question, if I may. Suppose you are in a shopping mall with an older subby male, who pays for all the things you want. Is there something you do, or something you wear, or something you require from him, to make it apparent that you are the one in charge? What could he do to delight you? Thanks!
Aw, I'm so thrilled you enjoy my blog. I also really love this question! Personally, what delights me the most is when men act “gentlemanly” (for lack of a better word). Examples would be holding my bags for me, opening doors, and compliments. Also, if we went to the food court (which I love mall food courts), they would pull out my chair for me and take my trash to the trash can after I am done.
What I would require of the other person differs based on our dynamic. Universal aspects would be being respectful to everyone and maintaining a good attitude. I am indecisive sometimes, so I would expect you to give your actual opinion if I asked you a question (ex: Which shirt do you think flatters me more?) An example of specific things depending on the dynamic would be wearing chastity devices, having a necklace with my initial, or walking a step behind me.
This is my quick answer, but I could honestly go on and on. :)