hello :)

20 ♡ she/her

[lemememeringue]

ngl I could do without experiencing the epic highs and lows of mental illness

[indiananature]

[themoonluvr-deactivated20241223]

one thing i have been trying to teach myself lately is that i am enough whenever. i am always, all the time enough. i am enough when i don’t like myself, i am enough when i don’t look presentable, i am enough when i’m not ready to face my demons. you don’t have to do certain things such as working out 5x a week, journal and meditate every night or be good at school to be enough and worthy of love. whatever state you are in right now is enough. you are deserving of a relationship, a good life and everything else at any given time.

[omegaverse]

Ordered truffle fries from a local italian place last night and im still thinking about how they fucked my mouth raw and left me begging for more

[nottodaycia]

Okay and how were the fries

[omegaverse]

They were alright

[kabaks]

i think we need to abolish subscriptions. im tired of remembering passwords and giving out my email. check out as guest, no you may not know my name. die

[snorlaxatives]

What do you think of girls with glasses??

i’m glad they can see

[millika]

[srrybabe]

oh to lay on top of someone and hug them like a teddy bear and just sleep like that

[lauratraseylikepaccoons]

"You are so quiet" bro i daydream 80% of my time

[torracat]

Do u ever have an inside joke with urself

[mostpeachy]

I am tired and I want to hold hands

[naturaekos]

[oak23]

Not to sound like a 90s shallow prep, but how you dress can affect your self esteem, and putting energy into wearing things you actively like and projecting an ideal of yourself through fashion instead of seeing clothes as things you have to put on out of obligation helps.

It also can give you a sense of control over your appearance that you otherwise wouldn’t have lmao

[oak23]

I bought a cape because of this

[michaelmilkers]

this post is written in a humorous tone but this is the realest shit.

two years ago i wore baggy sweatpants and flip flops every day because i was depressed but then decided eh to hell with it and bought some black edgy emo clothes bc thats how i always wanted to dress but never got a chance to and it was only then that i realized that the sweatpants flip flops look was just keeping me in my depression funk. i didnt like the way i looked and i didnt identify with the clothes i was wearing and it only made me feel worse.

i then went through my entire wardrobe and got rid of everything that made me feel that way.

now i have multiple outfit possibilities requiring different levels of effort but on days where putting on clothes just seems like a project i just have to put on black jeans and a band t-shirt and i can still feel good about the way i look which is a really good way to start off my day.

i can not recommend this approach to clothing enough.

[spreading-therapy]

This is soo true. When I was a freshman and sophomore, I didn’t put effort into my clothes because why would I? They are just clothes. However, by junior year I started to put more effort into my closet. I found my style and started putting together outfits that I really liked. Did embracing dark academia cure my depression? Of course not. Did wearing clothes that made me feel good help improve my mood a bit, allowing me to work on bettering myself? Absolutely. Clothes are cool Wear what makes you happy! Sure, you don’t have to dress up every single day, but just having one or two outfits you really like can really help

[cheesies]

[sleepyurl]

imagine someone thinking of you and buying you flowers

[constellatedlove]

there’s something so incredibly soft about the phrase “this made me think of you.” or, “this reminded me of you.” like!!!! being known is scary but then people see fragments of you in the world around them and can’t help but share that love and i think that’s beautiful.

[foggysuggestion]

can you just run your fingers through my hair until i fall asleep pls ok thanks