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Let’s create a “Masters of the Air” playlist together.

🎶 ✈️ When you get this, list 5 songs you like to listen that remind you of Masters of the Air (MOTA) and publish them. Then send this ask to 10 of your favorite followers (positivity is cool) (don't forget to tag @onyxsboxes so i can add your replies to the playlist) ✈️ 🎶

You can include more or fewer songs (as you prefer), I'll collect all the replies and put them together in a playlist that I'll share during the MOTA Advent (I'll update it as I receive replies, so no rush and no pressure).

oh…umm

*frantically runs to my playlists* (yes I have multiple)

Human - Rag’n’Bone Man - mota as a whole

Glimpse of Us - Joji - Clegan specifically

At Last - Cyndi Lauper - Clegan specifically

But Daddy I Love Him - Taylor Swift - Brenny specifically

Dancing With Your Ghost - Sasha Alex Sloan - Curt/Bucky serially

See You Later (ten years) - Jenna Raine - Clegan

Way Down We Go - KALEO - mota as a whole

I realize this is all over the place but these are the ones that aren’t my OC specific either.

thank you for the ask 🥺💕

@onyxsboxes

#mama answers #mota playlist

brimstonebxtch

#softmamareacts #I feel called out #*big breath*#I’m just gonna go back into my cave now #*kicks rock on way inside*

mielnah-deactivated20220722

this blog is my diary it's my sketchbook it's stuff on my bedroom wall it's a pdf it's an unpublished novel it's a collage. it's all of these things

bestyouuniveristy

I know it’s not fucking easy, I know it hurts. You’re sitting there overthinking, a million and one questions running through your head. Unable to sleep, creating different scenarios in your mind, while making a mental list of regrets but you can’t keep blaming yourself for someone else’s inability to provide the type of love you deserve. Tonight is just like any other night, difficult as hell but you’ll do what you’ve always done. You’ll get over it. You’ll get through it. You’ll be fine.

byrneing

today my therapist told me that sometimes negative feelings like guilt, anxiety, self loathing, etc are like the hiccups. they’re uncomfortable, we don’t like them, there’s no way to turn them off; they can even be incapacitating for a while. we don’t always know where they came from or when they’ll go away, so sometimes instead of focusing on why we feel a certain way we need to get better at recognizing its temporary nature, keeping perspective, and enduring discomfort. i feel like a lot of self-improvement rhetoric is about pinpointing specific causes for negative thoughts/behaviors so you can eradicate them, but people with chronic mental illness really need to work on allowing themselves to experience these feelings without going into a downward spiral.

honoriaw

thank you for this

I want to think on this

I think this may help

softcore-revolutionary

Lol I conveniently have hiccups now

queerpontmercy

my therapist often reminds me that “why do i feel like this?” can sometimes be a dangerous question to ask yourself alone and leave you digging through all the times you’ve felt guilty/rejected/ashamed before. it’s easy to spiral that way if you’re not careful. with practice, i’ve started asking myself “what do i need to get through this?” the answers to that one are a bit more useful in the moment, and the shift has also helped me be kinder to myself when these feelings come up.

puppiestotherescue

catasters

spot the difference (and yes that’s a real tie on my chubbers.)

#dwight schrute #look a like #silly kitty

bebx

if you’re looking for a sign to stay alive, this is it

scowlowl

what the fuck is wrong with you?

Please be more specific and resubmit with the proper paperwork.

dreamgrlarchive

dear black women:

you are allowed to be soft, delicate and dependent. allow yourself to receive and be taken care of. you are worth it.

listenbabygirl-deactivated20201

All women.

dreamgrlarchive

no sweetheart. BLACK women. black women are pressured to live in the “strong independent black woman who don’t need no man” *insert finger wave and neck roll* persona and it’s unfair. we want to be doted on, taken care of, protected, like women of other races. we want to be swept off our feet and catered to for our every whim. we don’t want to be the front runners and providers in our relationships. yet we’ve been responsible for this for far too long. this is not a “woman’s” problem. it’s the black woman’s problem.