-pretty boy blue-

-shaun | 22 | transboy- in a committed and happy relationship with his fiance, E, and his boyfriend M. loves gorillaz, gardening, cosplay and stephen king ❀❀❀

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Movie night with the babes!! Nachos and "This Island, Earth" on #Svengoolie 👽😱

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What I mean when I say "toxic monogamy culture"

the normalization of jealousy as an indicator of love

the idea that a sufficiently intense love is enough to overcome any practical incompatibilities

the idea that you should meet your partner’s every need, and if you don’t, either you’re inadequate or they’re too needy

the idea that a sufficiently intense love should cause you to cease to be attracted to anyone else

the idea that commitment is synonymous with exclusivity

the idea that marriage and children are the only valid teleological justifications for being committed to a relationship

the idea that your insecurities are always your partner’s responsibility to tip-toe around and never your responsibility to work on

the idea that your value to a partner is directly proportional to the amount of time and energy they spend on you, and it is in zero-sum competition with everything else they value in life

the idea that being of value to a partner should always make up a large chunk of how you value yourself

[whospilledthebongwater]

This is so fucking important

[jisook86]

Wonder Woman premiere and birthday on the same day!!!

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ya boi back at it again w that Gay Shit™

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we got a kitten!! say hello to dulce 😊💕

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PLEASE HELP??

My fiance Eveliina and I are considering moving from Canada to Finland but I have no idea what the cost and resources to transition are like over there… I’m just beginning to learn what my options are to get testosterone and top surgery here in British Columbia and I don’t want to risk giving up my chance to get ftm medical assistance in a new country.

Are there any transgender Finns on tumblr who might be able to give me some advice? I would really appreciate it 😓

Kiitos, Shaun

[pipistrellus]

you know when you really really like someone bc of who THEY are but you also really really REALLY like them bc of what they unlock in YOU, like, they dont CREATE new facets of yourself or whatever but there’s those parts of you that are easier… to access… bc of this person…

like maybe its easier to connect with certain interests you have or talk about certain aspects of yourself or maybe its easier to be serious with that person, or easier to be silly, or easier to be kind to yourself, or whatever, when youre around that person… maybe there’s things you forgot were in there and then youre spending time with someone and its like rummagining around the attic! WOW! THAT’S STILL IN THERE, HUH