Caregivers, listen up!
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Sometimes your Little needs to be Little when you’re not in the right headspace to properly care for them. It sucks, but it happens. And it’s okay!
Instead of just shrugging your shoulders and saying, “Oh well!” there are some things you can do ahead of time to prepare for these situations!
🦊 Have a space set up for Little entertainment purposes! Colouring books, picture books, and some Little-approved snacks like animal crackers and juice boxes can last a long time!
🦊 Set up Kids Netflix or a movie somewhere it won’t bother you, like a laptop or tablet with headphones if your Little is going to be in the same room as you, or quietly on a tv if you’re planning to be in different rooms.
🦊 If you need a break during the day, send your Little for a nap, or take one yourself, or both! Everyone knows Littles need nap time (even if we hate it sometimes), and caregivers often need naps too. Plus, I’m pretty sure that’s the whole reason naptime even exists - so Bigs can get a break!
🦊 If you’re in a long distance situation, calmly explain to your Little that you aren’t able to care for them properly right now, and ask to postpone any video chat or call that might be taking place, or find a way to compromise. We may be needy, but most Littles are pretty understanding about their Caregiver’s needs, too.
🦊 If you’re in a long distance situation, you could each watch the same movie while on the phone, so that it’s like you’re hanging out together, but your Little will hopefully be distracted enough to not be too dependant! Disney and Pixar movies are great for people of all ages, so one of those might be best.
🦊 Remember to be patient with your Little. Age regression isn’t always controllable; it’s not our fault if we need to be Little when you need us to be Big. Make sure that your Little knows that they’re loved no matter what!
Hopefully this helps!
Kisses 😘
~Fox 🦊
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