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Agree or disagree "The brain us the body's largest sex organ."
Disagree. Itâs the bodyâs only sex organ.
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Good Morning, I really enjoy your blog! Appreciate that it is intellectually interesting, arousing and not pornographic. And, of course, I am curious about the woman behind the cartoon image of the glasses wearing brunette with the key around her neck. Do the physical and long distance keyholding relationships with multiple men comprise your intimate relations or do you have personal relations with men (?woman) that do not involve chastity? I apologize for my anonymity. D
I do have many relationships with women and men. The relationship of friendship. But, yes, I also have relations with women and men. Let me break it down. I think this will be helpful to us all.
Friendship
Guys, a girl needs friends. I know you donât. Or if you do, your definition of friendship is making a late-night taco run and playing Xbox until 3:00 AM whenever your buddy happens to be in town, then having no contact for the next four months. But a girl needs a different kind of friendship. She needs someone she can talk to regularly, even if just online. She needs someone who she can trust with her secrets and in whom she will confide gratuitously. She needs someone who sees life through the same lenses, even if itâs only sometimes. She needs someone who can give the hard feedback but in a way that is kind, reassuring and constructive. Some of these fiends are going to be guys, but most will be gals. Iâm speaking in generalities and projecting my own needs on my whole gender. Oh well! But for those of you who are always looking to help your ladies hereâs a tip: give them space to have their own friends and friendships. Trust me. Your caged cock will thank you.
I have some pretty amazing friends! Some Iâve grown up with, some are from my school days, some have lived with me and some live across the ocean. Iâd say itâs about half and half guys and girls.
I recently went camping in Joshua Tree and geyser hunting in Yellowstone with some of my closest pals. If you were at Newport last weekend you might have seen our bonfire on the beach (or Dockweiler last month). I love to do things and go places with by bosom friends but most of all I love to talk. I think my favorite part of our Yellowstone trip was staying up talking and snuggling on the couch until I could hardly keep my eyes open.
Romance
Stereotypical woman here: I need romance. I absorb it like tree leaves absorb sunlight. Looking forward to a romantic interlude motivates and energizes me. Reliving it over and over in my mind brings me joy. Most of my romance is with men which is the primary reason I call myself straight. This is where all my chastity play fits. Looking into those suffering eyes and adding more days is a form of romance to me. Holding your hand as we stroll along the boardwalk, knowing your heard and your cock are mine, is the pinnacle of courtly love.
I do also have romantic relationships with men that I donât lock up. A boyfriend now and then. But when a boyfriend gets too curious and starts wanting to know more and more about what I do with so many chaste guys, well, they usually end up locked. I do have hope of finding a man who is not destined for that fate. Not that there is anything wrong with being caged. Itâs just that I think Iâm a little bit exceptional in that department and I tend to, ahem, destroy my toys. Oops!
Love
I love everyone. Sounds stupid but I do. I think I can even find a tiny warm spot for that murderer on death row or that evil dictator. It doesnât mean I approve, condone or even sympathize. I think I love like a child. Simply.
Sex (and Kinky Sex)
I have way more offers for sex from locked men that even you can imagine. (I know, you can imagine quite a lot.) I do like sex. I enjoy when a man goes down on me, when he lifts me in his strong arms, when he thrusts into me and keeps up a steady pace for a long luxuriously sweaty and loud session. No, not all of my chaste men get this privilege. Not even close. Not even close to close. But there are a few lucky ones. Intercourse makes me feel alive, beautiful, healthy, strong and passionate.
Pegging is a pastime of mine that never gets old. I like bondage, me being the warden of course. Whether itâs silk ties or hemp rope, I know my knots. Sensual massage is a favorite. I have a drawer full of toys, most of them gifts. Thatâs right above my entire cabinet of more toys. I have a little thing for sexually charged situations in public places and out in nature. And letâs not forget erotic hypnosis, the kinkiest kink of them all.
Lovemaking
I reserve lovemaking for women, almost exclusively now days. Lovemaking, as distinct from sex, is an all consuming passion that engulfs me. I usually play a more aggressive role in lovemaking. (Hmm, is âpredatoryâ too strong of a word?) Lovemaking is psychological and often begins hours or days before the main event as passions simmer and boil over. Lovemaking involves cuddling for hours, light pecks as well as passionate necking. I use my tongue, lips and fingertips to explore and find ways to make her squeal that even she didnât know about. My main goals are to bring pleasure and climax over and over.
My Problem
I sometimes have a problem blurring the lines between these types of relationships. My biggest sin is too easily moving between friendship and lovemaking then back again. I have no problem with it all but not everyone is like me, Itâs not uncommon for a friend to say, âWhat? But weâre just friends, right?â then say, âHow are you doing that? It feels so incredible! Never stop!â then say âWhat do you mean weâre friends? I thought you loved me! I was planning our lesbian wedding!â I really should learn my session.
What types of relationships do you have?
What's the longest you've kept one of your boys tied to the bed?
I love this question. You boys always want the âlongestâ stats. Iâm sorry I donât have an actual absolute number for you but I very much enjoy leaving men trussed up and tucked away somewhere cozy for long enough that I completely forget about them. When my phone reminder chimes and I realize itâs been two or three or four hours (depending on the type of bondage) I get a little tingly feeling all over. I adore the sensation of remembering I have a guy waiting somewhere for me, counting the seconds, thinking only of me and when I will return to free him while I can barely remember he exists.
Let me tell you one of my guilty pleasures. Take a guy who has been locked in chastity long enough to make him nice and desperate. Dripping. Take some strong hemp rope and truss his legs and one arm to the corners of the bed. With the second arm, tie it so that he can reach his penis but not his face. Remind him that he does not have permission to touch his cock and even the slightest brush will lead to months and months of chastity as punishment. Put earbuds in is hears playing white noise. Take a thick, black bolt of fabric and wrap his face so he has no chance of peeking. Now, the fun part. Remove the chastity cageâŠand walk away.
I can come and go as I please, doing my thing. Talking on the phone, writing, visiting with friends. As the hours tick by I love watching his fingers inch closer and closer to his cock knowing how frustrating it must be to have no barrier to touching. Knowing that he has no idea if I am watching or not. Knowing that he doesnât dare cheat and touch his cock but also knowing that every second he is weighing his odds of being caught. Knowing that he wonât touch. Watching the precum slide out and down his cock. Knowing that if I were to let him speak he would beg me to lock him back up and remove the temptation that grows and grows with every second.
I wonder, how many hours could you last?
Dear Ms Agni can you tell everyone about Locktober coming soon? Spread the word of this sissy challenge for all that dont know :) I Luv YOUR blog :))
Absolutely! I am very much a fan of Locktober. If it were up to me, every month would be Locktober. Or was that Chastember? Gune? Fapuary? May-I? No-vember? Keycember? Aww, forget it. Iâd just keep you locked up all the time.
But back to Locktober. For those of you who donât know, itâs a special time of year when anyone who is even a little curious about chastity is invited, nay challenged, to take it to the next level. Ideally youâd lock up on October 1st and stay locked all month long. (The sneaky, dirty trick, of course, is that by the end of the month your brain is so mushy from dopamine that youâre hooked on chastity for life.)
But we understand that not everyone is sufficiently acclimated to those lengths of denial or cage-wearing. We also understand that not all of you have keyholders yet (tsk tsk). So if you look around on tumblr or twitter for the hashtag #locktober you can find various online domeâs offering âgames.â Games are a fun and exciting way to get caged and teased and have some social support to help you stay locked all month.
A couple of dommeâs Iâve seen offering locktober fun are Adreena Angela (locktober) and Goddess Summer (locktober).
Hurry up, boys! The hour of the cage is almost upon us!
Hi, ever wondered if the guys at Kleenex see decreased sales in oktober and ask themselves what the fuck is happening? #locktober
Yeah, itâs a bummer for them. Times are tough all around in locktober. Take the guys who sell laundry detergent. The dirty socks in the laundry basket donât need nearly as much soap to cum clean. Sperm banks shut their doors, fertility clinics close down. But the saddest is the cum eaters who have to go hungry all month. Poor lads.
UGHH
God. I find the idea of you controlling the keys to my penis intoxicating. The thought of you sleeping with a woman and having an orgasm while I drip just mind boggling and a preoccupation of my last serval months. Is there help or am I head to a permanent chastity spiral...?
You certainly sound like permanent chastity material to me. Do you feel like youâre on a greased ledge with no handholds, slowly sliding toward the drop-off and nothing you do can slow you down? Because thatâs how you sound. Does that make your heart leap and your dick rise? Just a little?
HOW SHOULD IT MAKE MY DICK RISE? HOW WOULD THAT PHYSICALLY HAPPEN.
There are a tons of Tumblrs out there (for now anyway) that have massive amounts of cruel chastity pictures and videos. Filthy, sexy stuff that should be super exciting. But, I always find your text based posts more arousing. Why do you think that is?
Idk, perhaps because those memes and captions are made by men and I provide the perspective of a woman who is into chastity play? Or maybe because the mere picture of a dick in a cage or a woman wearing a key necklace doesnât capture the angst, the frustration, the sheer helplessness and desperation that come with actually losing access to your dick. Or perhaps itâs because those caps are made by men who wank to chastity fantasies but havenât actually lived them. Everything I share is 100% from my own experiences (with just a little polish added) unless I indicate otherwise. Or perhaps I have an uncanny ability to see past your social façade and into the deepest corners of your mind where dark things lurk that you donât fully understand. Maybe you canât look away because youâre morbidly fascinated with what I might pull out of your head next.
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WRITERS >
PEOPLE WHO UNDERSTAND THE HUMAN PSYCHE >>>>>>>
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i love when i'm with an emotionally intelligent switch. i love when im with someone who feels the push and pull of our words, who can see the rope of dominance and submission tug back and forth, until one of us gives in. and then, once under, playing with the domme's mind. making them guess their power, forcing them to be firm in their belief, searching for a crack into the submissive side we each know we have. tryung to fight the submission in ourselves to get back on top.
FUCK. IM HORNY. and.... i can't do anything about it. take a guess why.
Hallo Agni, great blog. I have been reading your blog for a while. My girlfriend put in chastity in 22sd and promised to let me out in the Christmas morning for a gift for her self. It is 26th now and she is saying that she wants to open it later. What is really suprising to me is that I started to enjoy it, yet this is my first time and i have never went so long with out coming. Is there a way to get satisfaction with being unlocked?
Merry Christmas to you! It sounds like your girlfriend has given you the gift of chastity this year. I hope youâre enjoying your present, the present that continues to give as long as you donât unwrap it.
You can certainly achieve satisfaction without being unlocked. Every time you think of her before thinking of yourself youâll feel a little burst of joy inside. Every time she congratulates you on a cleaning job well done your soul will smile. Every time you make her orgasm you will feel an internal release unmatched by the ejaculation of your past. That, my friend, is true satisfaction.
i absolutely cannot believe i have been obsessed with chastity for so long and haven't seen this blog...
Do you think that 18 years is too soon to start chastity? Some other keyholders told me that they didnât want to lock me because of my age, what do you think?
Hmm. Hmmmmmmm.
Hmmmmmmmmmmm.
Thatâs a tough one. 18 is certainly the very lowest you would want to go. Personally, I would wait until youâve done at least 3 of the following:
1) Turned 21
2) Had a girlfriend for at least 3 months
3) Had sex at least a few times and orgasmed from sex at least once
4) Have an in-person keyholder who is excited about locking you up but also cares about you and your wellbeing
That last one is the most important. Itâs sort of a wild card that can substitute for any of the others.
Donât rush into chastity too young. You have the rest of your life to struggle against a cage and wish and wish and wish you could cum one more time. Donât let sexy times interfere with your childhood (which ends in your early 20âČs). You only get to live that once. Donât waste it!
I just think my true purpose should've been to be the shy quiet nerd that all the kinky girls in class turn into their cute and stupid girlfriend. Or they at least bully me into joining the cheerleading team and spitroast me in the locker room after practice and under the bleachers during games
LITERALLY THOUGHT ABOUT THIS AND WISHED TO CHANGE WHO I WAS
Hey I spoke to my therapist and he said getting fucked so hard I can't think the bad thoughts anymore is actually part of my treatment plan so I'd really appreciate it if you could accommodate that and just bend me over whenever thanks đ
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i love when a tgirl is just so absolutely pathetic. like of course i want to yank you around on a leash babygirl look at you, you need this. i want to see your adorable little face when i smash my fist into your guts. i want to hear your whines and whimpers when i'm stepping on you while you're on the ground. I wouldn't want you getting up even though im pulling at your leash so insistently. soo pathetic
IM GETTING HARD IN AN UBER, THIS IS NOT THE TIME OR PLACE
actually jk it's always the time and place
Busy with hobby gf x "Can i eat you out while you do that?" bf
have you thought about trans women in a normal way today
do you communicate safety to your trans women friends.
when she gets upset do you lash back and isolate her, or do you talk normally and work your problems out.
does she have a double standard against her in your friend group? is she allowed to be loud and angry and express her emotions as much as everyone else? or is she told to be quiet and stop interrupting when everyone else does the same thing.
ask yourself these questions and call it out when you see it, cuz chances are nobody else will have her back when she's got her back against the wall
reblog this version instead of leaving some comment about how you wanna fuck us please
I need to have my head in a pretty girl's lap right now while she softly pets my hair and reads one of her favorite books to me.
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