fucking imagine we lived in a world without an ingrained "us vs them" mentality and a need to punch down on someone to feel better. there'd be way less problems that way. but we don't so i get to bitch about syscourse once again
"omg you get to be plural without trauma but i went through hell and back and all i got was this stupid disorder so i fucking hate you" get a goddamn grip & maybe stop treating your headmates like theyre burdens before they actually kill you. be a shitty and abusive enough host and FAAFO. those are fucking people and people tend to react accordingly when they are treated like problems and burdens.
also nontraumagenic systems dont have it """easier""" miraculously because their systems didn't originate from trauma. you want an easier time with your plurality? start treating your headmates like they're people and maybe you'll make some progress.
the amount of sysmeds we see complain about how being plural is awful while their entire blog is full of self hate and hatred for their headmates is certainly not just 1.
its not gonna fix all your problems, but you know, it might make the whole being plural thing less dogshit
