Because This Is My First Life
Last month, I just finished this drama despite of being bombarded with my workload.*LOL* At first, I decided not to start watching dramas that haven’t finish yet because it gives me an unsatisfactory clip hanging and impatiently waiting for the next episode which will come up on the next week schedule. BUT, this drama became an exemption, from watching their previews I got hooked and I can’t control myself patiently waiting for the next episode. HAHAHA
And now, I will tell you why I can’t get hold myself on watching this drama:
THE CONCEPT OF THE DRAMA IS VERY REALISTIC
Let’s put some rest to the fantasy themes and over flowered cliche stories. This drama tackles about the current issue where most of us *especially on their early 30′s*. Being on thirty, there are so much things that you must have to consider. Stable career, to own a house and getting married. It has been our norm that going on 30 is a very crucial part on our lives, no more teenage years, no more building up our career and no more twee-tums love story. But for some people, being 30 is just the beginning of their own life, they begin to realize what’s missing and what’s there to look forward for the rest of their lives. They begin to make decisions just for themselves and not for other people’s preference. This is how the story evolves to the main character, Yoon Ji-ho, who quit her job and packed up her bags away from her family and decided to have her own life independently. But that’s not what happened, due to the reality that owning a house in South Korea is a very big issue.
2. THE CHARACTERS DEPICTS DIFFERENT VIEWS ON LIFE
Kudos to the writers who wrote this epic and realistic love story. The story not only focused on its main characters but also, to the people around them. The different characters reflect on how society sees love, career and marriage nowadays. Let me introduce you each characters and their point of view:
This is Nam Se Hee, 38 years old. He led a very boring life. But for him, he’s having a happy life at the moment,watching a soccer game and drinking beer along with his cat. He is a house-poor and he is a picky perfectionist and very practical person. He sees his job as his source of income to pay off his mortgage loan and having a housemate as an additional income. He didn’t believe in love, because according to him, to be in love once is enough for a lifetime.He’s a brokenhearted guy who also didn’t believe in marriage, he believed it’s just an agreement for the two persons who met up their needs on each other, there’s no love involved.
This is Yoon Ji-Ho, 30 years old. Single since birth. She was an assistant scriptwriter on some dramas, who later quit her job for 10 years because of mistreatment. She supports her family and bought a house in Seoul but her brother got his girlfriend pregnant which led her move out and gave the house to his brother despite she’s the one who bought it. Having no job and no house to sleep in, she met Nam Se Hee. They both agreed to marry each other just to fill up their needs. Se Hee, who is pressured by her mother to get married also needs a housemate, and Yoon Ji-Ho, who needs a house to stay and sleep with, are such a perfect combination to solve their problems. She value her career as her passion but because of cruel reality, she gave up her dream and set aside her career. She believes in love as a NBSB, she fantasies love like what she writes on the scripts. She also believes in marriage and giving it to the person she loves, BUT with her current situation,her point of view became just like Nam Se Hee, just a give and take.
This is Woo Su-ji, 30 years old, one of the two best friends of Ji Hoo. She was the coolest among the three of them. She has a stable but shitty job, who always sexually harassing her. She got the brains, height and also boobs. Though she has the nasty attitude, she has a warm heart when it comes to her friends. She dreams to be a CEO on her own business but got stuck up in a shitty corporate job, where everyone thinks that it’s a dream job and pays you a lot. It’s true that even if they pay you a lot, it doesn’t mean they can treat you like a shit. She doesn’t believe in love, she’s a liberated woman and she sleeps with anyone with no strings attached. She don’t want to get married, because that means, she can’t support her sick mother and also she got a trauma from her father who left them.
This is Ma Sang Goo, 38 years old. CEO of the company Se Hee worked in. He is slightly dumb person but also has a warm heart. He wanted to settle down and get his own family but he isn’t lucky on women. Not until he met Su-ji, whom he one-night stand once and they met again as a common friend of Se Hee and Ji-ho.
And this is Yang Ho-rang, 30 years old. She is bubbly and energetic person. Among these three girls I’ve mentioned, she was the only one who got luck in romance. Now, this is a loud shout out to those have a long-term relationship out there! They have been dating for 7 years with her boyfriend and already living on the same room. She’s dreaming about getting married since in her childhood years, she’s a big fan of wedding ceremonies and ready to start her own family.
And lastly, Sim Won-seok, 28 years old. He is Yang Ho-rang’s boyfriend for 7 years. Despite of a product of good university in Seoul, he’s struggling on sustaining his own business and end up with an unstable source of income. He was still an immature boy and not ready for marriage. They have an apposite view of marriage and family of Ho-rang but all in all, they stood for each other all the time.
3. IT’S ALL ABOUT THE CHEMISTRY
OVERFLOWING CHEMISTRY! <3
I love how the producers got these two on the main roles. They really has a place on heart (well, Dukseon and Taek of Reply 1988 are still my #1). They shared a really good chemistry. The story was too cute for my weak heart~
4. THE LINES AND METAPHORS
This is what I like for a certain drama, on how about the writer creates a good quote about real life. There are so many lines that will pierced in to your heart. Some are encouragement but mostly are the lines that will really hurt you. The writer uses a metaphor on how Ji-hoo looked at other people especially the “Room 19″. The lines reflects and will surely relatable to you.
5. VALUES THE FRIENDSHIP
These three girls are inseparable. You can really tell that their friendship is genuine. You will miss your friendship out there.
6. IT HAS A MWEOTHHYY CAT~
And lastly, let’s take a moment of appreciation on this kitty. It’s so adorable and this is the reason why I love cats now!
BONUS:
Watch this eye-candy guy!










