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[spankingmyhusband]

On Sunday"s I like to get dressed up while giving my husband his maintenance spanking. My accordion pleated skirt is very comfortable, not to tight. My bow silk blouse is a nice combination of comfort with my skirt and makes for a nice feminine attire.

When I wear this outfit many Sundays my husband is expected to take me out to the restaurant of my choice. But only before my husband is over my pleated skirt for a good lecture and feels the back of my hand and hairbrush on his pantied/ bare bottom.

After agreeing to improve and be a good husband for the week we will go out and have brunch. Very much like the feel of the pleaded skirt. It's so symbolic of me being in charge in a wife lead marriage.

Lynda

[maid2deny]

Thank you so much for this description Ma'am. I too enjoy the feminine power of this wardrobe combination. Those who know me know that caring for her garments, and especially ironing the many, many pleats of a skirt like this brings me deeply into sub space reliving my time spent over her knee and in awe of her power over me. One can never deny the appeal of this combination even as it denies me any hope of seeing the more explicit features of my partners body. May it never go out of style.

[spankingmyhusband]

Thank you so much for your kind post and I am glad that you understand your position and enjoy serving in your relationship.

Lynda

[beautiful-when-she-s-angry-too]

Extraordinary Ordinary Women #23-17-3

[spankingmyhusband]

We have now had a successful loving marriage for over 20 years. I am head of household and we both consensually agreed, when we were dating that we wanted to live a marriage with me in charge.

My husband wanted a strict wife and I was more than willing to accept that role. During our marriage I have enforced rules that need to be followed or I will discipline my husband ( punishment spankings). My husband during the years probably averages 2-3 punishment spankings a month not including a weekly maintenance spanking.

You would think this would be enough spankings wouldn't you? Well every once in awhile my husband will be a brat and purposely do something to earn and want a spanking. Why after 20 years can't he ask me for one? The male mind can be complicated and they say we women are hard to analyze. Really!

Well about 4 months ago I needed to go to the pharmacy and I told my husband I would be home in a half hour. I specifically told him I wanted the dishes done. It's a small chore but one he does every night and he knows in our marriage he is to obey me at all times.

Well I came home and the dishes were not touched.

"Why haven't you started on the dishes Matthew? "I want a explanation!

Matthew was quite not saying a word.

"Well you know when you disobey a order what that means I said."

Matthew answered " You will give me a spanking Lynda".

"I answered" Yes you are right " You obviously want a spanking and I will not disappoint you"My dear."Go get" My chair and My Jokari paddle."

Matthew obeyed.

As I sat down on my designated Spanking chair I removed my husband belt buckle of his pants. He stood before me in his little panties waiting for his correction.

"After 20 years of marriage you can't ask me for a spanking! You purposely didn't do the dishes. " I am not happy with you Matthew ( pointing my finger at him). "Across my knee! ( pulling my husband by the arm across my knee).

"Mommy going to blister your behind" ! ( Always use the term "Mommy when I am about or spanking Matthew). I raised the paddle and proceeded to deliver a lengthy spanking which lasted 7 full minutes which I timed . I spanked Matthew to tears. Putting the paddle down my husband behind was a crimson to purple in some places.

I started hand spanking Matthew. Scolding while I did so. "When ( Spank!) You ( Spank!) want ( (Spank!) A ( Spank!) Spanking ( Spanking!) . "You ask for one " . Do you understand me "

I alternating slaps on his bottom cheeks for a few minutes. Spanking him by hand after a severe paddling had Matthew kicking and carrying on like a child.

Letting him up from my lap and giving him a hug and a little slap on his panties which I never took off told him to "To Get To work on the Dishes.

Words of advice ladies if you spank your husband don't hesitate to spank him hard if he purposely misbehaves. Show him you will not tolerate this behavior. Raise your Paddle high !

Lynda

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[beautiful-when-she-s-angry-too]

Extraordinary Ordinary Women #23-17-3

[spankingmyhusband]

We have now had a successful loving marriage for over 20 years. I am head of household and we both consensually agreed, when we were dating that we wanted to live a marriage with me in charge.

My husband wanted a strict wife and I was more than willing to accept that role. During our marriage I have enforced rules that need to be followed or I will discipline my husband ( punishment spankings). My husband during the years probably averages 2-3 punishment spankings a month not including a weekly maintenance spanking.

You would think this would be enough spankings wouldn't you? Well every once in awhile my husband will be a brat and purposely do something to earn and want a spanking. Why after 20 years can't he ask me for one? The male mind can be complicated and they say we women are hard to analyze. Really!

Well about 4 months ago I needed to go to the pharmacy and I told my husband I would be home in a half hour. I specifically told him I wanted the dishes done. It's a small chore but one he does every night and he knows in our marriage he is to obey me at all times.

Well I came home and the dishes were not touched.

"Why haven't you started on the dishes Matthew? "I want a explanation!

Matthew was quite not saying a word.

"Well you know when you disobey a order what that means I said."

Matthew answered " You will give me a spanking Lynda".

"I answered" Yes you are right " You obviously want a spanking and I will not disappoint you"My dear."Go get" My chair and My Jokari paddle."

Matthew obeyed.

As I sat down on my designated Spanking chair I removed my husband belt buckle of his pants. He stood before me in his little panties waiting for his correction.

"After 20 years of marriage you can't ask me for a spanking! You purposely didn't do the dishes. " I am not happy with you Matthew ( pointing my finger at him). "Across my knee! ( pulling my husband by the arm across my knee).

"Mommy going to blister your behind" ! ( Always use the term "Mommy when I am about or spanking Matthew). I raised the paddle and proceeded to deliver a lengthy spanking which lasted 7 full minutes which I timed . I spanked Matthew to tears. Putting the paddle down my husband behind was a crimson to purple in some places.

I started hand spanking Matthew. Scolding while I did so. "When ( Spank!) You ( Spank!) want ( (Spank!) A ( Spank!) Spanking ( Spanking!) . "You ask for one " . Do you understand me "

I alternating slaps on his bottom cheeks for a few minutes. Spanking him by hand after a severe paddling had Matthew kicking and carrying on like a child.

Letting him up from my lap and giving him a hug and a little slap on his panties which I never took off told him to "To Get To work on the Dishes.

Words of advice ladies if you spank your husband don't hesitate to spank him hard if he purposely misbehaves. Show him you will not tolerate this behavior. Raise your Paddle high !

Lynda

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[servicepet]

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[spankingmyhusband]

Asking Permission

About 3 months ago on a Saturday my husband asked me about going to watch sports with his Friends. Well it was the middle of the month and I had permitted my husband to go how with his friends once all ready that month, during the week. ( My husband is permitted to go out once a month.) Saturday has always been chores day for my husband doing the housework and running errands for me.

Well we had a short difference of opinion when I said no to his request to go out with his friends. I have not permitted my husband to go with his friends on any Saturday in 20 years.

"I said honey you know you must complete your chores today."

"He answered me saying"Why can't I go with my friends ". "It's not fair ! ( Stomping his feet).

"I said don't you raise your voice to me and act like a child". "Do you want a Spanking Young Man ?

"No why can't I go . "You go out with your girlfriends almost every Saturday.

"I can't believe you said that Matthew? You know I won't tolerate your sassing me anymore." Go bring "Mommy chair." You have earned a spanking Matty .

Well my husband started pleading " No not a spanking"

"Yes Matty go bring "Mommy chair and be quick about." I am going to spank you with my hand. " I didn't ask for my paddle." But if you want a paddling I can accommodate you."

Well he did bring the chair. I removed his little panties and turned him over my knee. Resting one hand on his back and the other on his bare bottom.

" You know better than talk to me the way you did."Mommy is ashamed of you and I am going to give you a hard spanking.( I always use and my husband always refers to me as "Mommy when I am giving a spanking.)

I raised my hand alternating spanking his bottom cheeks. I didn't start spanking him hard. I wanted this to be a long spanking.

"I scolded" Saturday is chores day Matty! You know that ." Don't you ever bring up me going out with my friends on Saturday ever again." "I should call my girlfriends up and have them come over and watch this spanking."

Now I had his attention. "Please I am sorry." Don't invite them over.

Matthew bottom checks bounced under my stinging palm. As I changed my rhythm slapping harder and not forgetting his sit spots.

Are( Swat!) you ( Smack!) going (swat!) to (Smack!) be a good husband today? "

"Yes ( Ow!) Smack ( Ow!). Smack. I will do my chores and be good the rest of the day." I promise.

My husband bottom was full of red splotches where my hand had painted a red glow to his bare behind.

"Asking him "honey would you like to continue this conversation with one of my paddles.

"No "Mommy that was a long hard spanking spanking. "I apologize."

"I said Matt I hope you learned your lesson. " Remember you are still getting your maintenance spanking tomorrow."

Matthew replied "Yes I know." I deserved this Spanking."

"Good you know who is in charge don't you."

"Matthew said "Yes I do.

In a wife led marriage such as ours a husband time needs to managed properly. Permission must be granted for any outside activities. It should be instilled to the husband that chores and errands are of high priority. And disagreement on when chores are to be done should be addressed firmly and swiftly.With a long discussion with the husband over the knee.

Lynda

[lovehonourandobey]

[her-word-is-law]

And that is all.

[femalesupremacyartsimages]

Of course She is the head of the house. And owner of this thick headed male.

[lumasoc]

[spankingmyhusband]

Does your husband forget to run a errand? Repeated forgetfulness needs to be corrected immediately.

1) I have repeatedly told my husband to make a list whether it's going to the store or doing a errand on the way home from work.

2) I absolutely will not forgive my husband until I have administered a good hard spanking.

Well recently I told my husband to pick up my dress from the dry cleaners,it was important that I had it the next day.Well this was the second time in a month he did not run a errand for me properly. He came home from work without my dress.

This post is a depiction of the spanking I gave my husband with a paddle. The paddle I used is quite similar and I it was a long spanking ( between commercials of my half hour I paddled him and scolded.

Hopefully this won't happen again soon. My husband apologized and I forgave him .

Lynda

[spanked2realtears]

"Yes please ma'am. Until my knees buckle."

[spankingmyhusband]

My First Implement

When I was dating my husband it didn't take long in our relationship that I found out 1) He wanted a strict future wife 2) He had a interested in spanking.

Well after a good week of spanking him across my knee by hand. My girlfriend brought to my attention that I needed a nice implement. So I brought the subject up and said "honey if you're really serious about this spanking thing". "You will purchase me a good implement so I can really warm your little behind."

"He said yes dear."I will bring you a implement tonight after work."

"Don't be late"!

I wondered during the day,what it would be. The fact that I really wanted to give him a hard spanking for not moving into my rented condo and I was going to live with him in a motel room until we were married had me fired up .

So 5 :00 came and he came to my condo, which I was moving out in a few days and he had this big bag.( obviously with my weapon of destruction in it) . He handed it to me and I pulled out this long school paddle.

"So I see you are serious about spanking aren't you."Well I am not happy with you about this motel situation and you are going to pay dearly."

(Smirking) Would you please remove your trousers dear". You can keep your little panties on. Because I am going to warm the seat of those panties." Those nylon panties will give you little protection from this paddle.)

"Yes dear I understand why you are upset with me, but after we are married we will move out of the motel."

"No more talking."You take what you have coming "

The school paddle felt good in my hand." "I swung that paddle like a baseball bat and my current husband got 20 hard cracks right on the seat of his panties. Pulling his panties down cupping his bare cheeks with my hands his bottom was on 🔥. I then delivered another 10 swats with all my weight behind each crack.

End result a very teary eyed red/purple behind. "

"There's a lot more spankings coming to you at the motel." Pull your panties back up compose yourself and thank me and take me out to dinner.

"Yes dear".

Seeing this photo reminded me of my first spanking I administered to my husband with my first implement.

Lynda

[bumznblowz]

[spankingmyhusband]

Shopping disagreement

Does your husband or boyfriend complain about the money you spend when you go grocery, clothes or accessories shopping?Well when this occurs I put a stop to it .

1) A good long scolding. It's not his place to question your shopping habits. In our household I control the finances, so there should be no complaining. Also reminding him that maybe he should be a better breadwinner. Put him on defense!

2) Bring out your hairbrush. Yes he knows what that means. I like to tap the brush against my hand. He probably will plead that he doesn't want to be punished. But yes you tell him that he questioned your buying habits and you want to continue this discussion across your knee. ( As you bare his bottom) and then turn him over your knee.

3) Slow hairbrush spanking. Raising your hairbrush start to spank him taking your time to let each swat sink in. Alternating bottom checks and not to forget his sit spots.

Don't you ever young man question ( "Mommy" term use when I spank my husband) buy habits. Scolding as I deliver a good spanking for 5 minutes. Putting the hairbrush down. ( husband is teary eyed). But his punishment is far from over.

4) Hand spanking. A spanking by hand is quite painful after a hairbrushing. And yes he needs to feel his wife's/ mommy 😭 hand on his already sore behind. Yes to impress on him that we will not discuss my spending of money in the near future.

"You will not forget this spanking for awhile."

Raising my palm and delivering a barge of fast stinging spanks.( I most admit I was not mad anymore but was enjoying this). Another 5 minutes of spanking leaves my husband with rosey round checks and upper thighs with red imprints from my spanking hand.

5) Aftercare.Giving this effective spanking it's time for a apology and little hugging from me. As I pat his bottom I told him he was forgiven.I did spare him corner time. At bedtime I did apply aloe vera cream.

Lynda

[spankingmyhusband]

would you be interested in mentoring my wife and I with this dynamic?

Well I appreciate you asking me to mentor you however, but not at the present time.

[spankingmyhusband]

I spent ten years with exactly the same routine that you describ, A weekly maintenance spanking and punishment as necessary. The maintenance could be enhanced for minor infractions. Anyway I sort of grew out of it and wanted to at least discuss the situation when a major health crisis in her family split us up. We were not married. I think your one month offer is a good thing but I would urge you to keep the lines of communication open.

As head of household and disciplinarian to my husband our weekly maintenance activity is beneficial for both of us. First I reinforce who is in charge and my husband acknowledges that by receiving a good talking to and discuss minor infractions. It's a good way to communicate between me and my husband. It's sounds like your maintenance activity worked for both of you especially since it was done over a 10 year period.

[spankingmyhusband]

I see that your husband calls you, “mommy” some. Would you consider putting him in diapers for acting childish?

When my husband is to receive discipline from me , he does address me has "Mommy". Where I do use age regression on my husband I don't use diapers or abdl. However my discipline is maternal in nature. He does wear panty briefs and his pajamas are feminine or boyish . Early bedtime I use when he is acting childish.

[thistimeiwantyouto]

…doesn’t work that way, sweetheart…

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[spankingmyhusband]

Well before we were married my husband wanted a wife who would administer spankings. I agreed to my husband wishes and he said that l could stay at home and not go to work, but I would be the Head of household.

Well during our marriage my husband complains about not wanting to be spanked anymore. He receives a maintenance spanking once a week and punishment spankings when he needs one.

"I always repeat to him "dear" if you don't want to be spanked do not misbehave." Also if you can go one month "dear without a punishment spanking I will discontinue your maintenance spankings.

Well my husband has yet to not earn a punishment spanking in a month. So I don't see that trend changing.

Advice for husbands be careful what you wished for.

Lynda

[motsdezebre]

[spankingmyhusband]

A few months ago my husband broke one of my rules. I absolutely will not tolerate him swearing. He was watching a basketball game and was swearing.

So immediately I turned the TV off, grabbed him by the ear and escorted him to the bedroom. Where I bared his bottom and delivered a hard spanking, with the combination of my hand and purple 💜 wooden paddle. ( As I sat on the bed and my husband over my knee).

Yes he did receive a early bedtime with a very sore bottom. When he acts childish then I treat him like one and he knows I can be a strict wife/ mommy.

Lynda

[spankingmyhusband]

How do you handle it with children and other relatives? Who knows besides you two? After twenty years I would imagine that the secret could be out here and there.

That's a good question. We don't have any children. I have 2 sisters who know that I am head of household. My husband has no brothers or sisters. One of my best friends who was a part -time dom and her friends know and I have girlfriends who know.

[cutiespankingai]

Discover the power of a good spanking 😈 Boohoohoo 😭 #Humiliation

[spankingmyhusband]

Yes my favorite way to giving my husband a spanking is with my hand over my knee. I feel that it absolutely shows my love and bonding with my husband. Where yes it's very shaming for him it's quite satisfying for me and shows who is in charge in our marriage.

My husband weekly maintenance spankings always includes a hand spanking and most punishment spankings do include a spanking with my hand . My husband always kisses my hand after a spanking,teary eyed always thanks me for his correction.

While I am sure I am in a small minority of women who prefer spanking with the hand. I think it's a important part of discipline. But having a good collection of spanking implements is also important.

Lynda

[cutiespankingai]

Ready for a little discipline? 😈 Are you up for a spanking? 🍑🖐️

[spankingmyhusband]

When I starting dating my husband. There were times when I gave my husband 2 spankings in a day but not three. But we did rent a cabin where I would give my husband a full weekend of bottom warmings ( boot camp).

The way I handled the situation when I had to give multiple spankings in a day , which was infrequent when we were dating or early marriage. Was to give 2 maintenance spankings in a week instead of one, his behavior and desire to be spanked halted in a hurry. One good maintenance spanking in a week decreases punishment spankings.

Lynda

[beautiful-when-she-s-angry-too]

Loving Wives #23-1-1

[spankingmyhusband]

Our 10th year wedding anniversary was spent in the great outdoors. We stayed at a lodge in the mountains for the weekend end Saturday through Monday. Well it was beautiful as we walked along the river and it was great to get out of the city. Because it was winter it was cold with a little snow ❄️ on the ground.

The second day was Sunday and I think my husband thought that I wouldn't give him his maintenance spanking, being away from home. However when I asked him to pack the pruning shears before we left home I think he got a little suspicious.

Well I said "Honey would you bring the pruning shears."Matthew was quite but answered a beligured "Yes dear". Well we walked for a mile and I said.

Me "You know what today is honey"

Matthew "Why yes it's Sunday."

Me"What do you get every Sunday back home my little"Snookums"

Matthew "But yes we are on our anniversary. "And we are not home "

Me "Are you arguing with"Mommy ( he knows that when I use the term "Mommy he is in for a spanking). "You know I just about had to twist your arm to come up here."

Matthew "Well we came didn't we ."

Me( Sarcastically) "I am sorry you had to miss your football games . Matthew""That's okay dear .

Me (Pointing with my glove hand) "You see those willow trees start cutting me some switches. "You have never had a switching before and I have never given a switching.

Matthew ( didn't argue). I am done dear." Here are 4 switches.

Me "Follow me my little Snookums" ( Grabbing Matthew hand leading him to a big log so I could sit down).

Matthew "It cold can't we do this back at the lodge."

Me ( joking) "Snookums I plan on warming you up .( Taking his trousers off. There was no one for at least a mile. ) Across my knee! Well I was wearing tight silhouette leather gloves 🧤 and they were perfect for spanking my husband. Matthew reacted to every slow smack on his white panties.

Matthew Ouch! Ow that stings.!

After seeing that is bottom was quite red from my gloved hand. I wasn't surprised because each time my gloved hand landed there was a echo in the woods. I then proceeded to lead Matthew to a nearby tree and told him to bend over.

Matthew "Go easy on me It's our anniversary and that was a hard Spanking.

Me ( Agreeable) Ok you can keep your panties on. I announced that I was going to give him 25 good cuts with the switches. I told him that I would count each one and I expected to him to stay bent over and thank me after each one .

The first 15 swats with just a flick of my wrist was producing red welts which you could see through his transparent panties.

Matthew (pleading) This is terrible." Can't we stop"

Well I reached back and gave him the last 10 harder right on the seat of his panties. (Panties were ripped. Well I told him that was enough as I pulled his trousers up.

Me (Consoling) It's over Snookums ."You were sure brave."(Patting his behind.) Mommy will rub some lotion on your bottom tonight.As he was sniffing holding his bottom.

I had a very well behaved husband for the week. It's funny what a little switching will.

Lynda