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Dear me,

I’m gettting depressed again... I’m scared if I don’t do something about this I’ll go to wanting to hurt myself again.

I need to take control.

“There’s so much more to life than finding someone who will want you, or being sad over someone who doesn’t. There’s a lot of wonderful time to be spent discovering yourself without hoping someone will fall in love with you along the way, and it doesn’t need to be painful or empty. You need to fill yourself up with love. Not anyone else. Become a whole being on your own. Go on adventures, fall asleep in the woods with friends, wander around the city at night, sit in a coffee shop on your own, write on bathroom stalls, leave notes in library books, dress up for yourself, give to others, smile a lot. Do all things with love, but don’t romanticize life like you can’t survive without it. Live for yourself and be happy on your own. It isn’t any less beautiful, I promise.”

— Emery Allen (via alunit)

earth

Siargao Island, Philippines @

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ahdor

the reality of self harm is scars that last your whole life. stitches that itch and scars that burn. burns that need skin grafts and cuts that become infected. the reality of self harm isn’t my partner kissing my scars, it is my partner blaming themselves for a new wound or not saying something to stop me or recoiling at my bare body because I have done so much damage in such a short time. there isn’t a romantic scar on my body. there isn’t a way to hide this from anyone anymore. the self harm reality is not blending in with a crowd. it is standing out at your most vulnerable point and not being able to hide it. don’t think that you can start a powerful coping mechanism like self harm and get out of it unscathed, it is an addiction and something you need serious help to get out of.

naramdil

replying to brown boys like “beta are you sick because I am about to put the maar in bimaar 😊😊😊”

one-and-only-beauty

hplyrikz

“When someone is crying, of course, the noble thing to do is to comfort them. But if someone is trying to hide their tears, it may also be noble to pretend you do not notice them.”

— Lemony Snicket (via hplyrikz)

Clear your mind here

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Why didn’t you marry again? I didn't find you. Otherwise I would have marry you…Anjali, we get born once, we die once, we love once and we get married…Only once. Why didn’t you marry? I didn’t find you, did I?

20 Years of Kuch Kuch Hota Hai (16/10/98 - 16/10/18)