Sparkling Sugar

Lots of sugar and spice | twenty something

[sparklingsugar-nyc]

Hello ladies! Anyone still sugaring in this wild world? Any luck on dating apps? would love to hear recent stories of success!

xoxo

[365daysofbarbie]

[tkkatherineblog]

Inst @dennielias

[candysucrey-deactivated20200111]

Prince Harry renounced on royal blood for his wife while some of you are still paying for your own drinks. I really want y'all to do better

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[sparklingsugar-nyc]

When vanilla life and sugar life collide

I went to a very nice restaurant with my current SD last night. The night was going par for the course. Ordering lots of food, but just taking a few bites of everything, drinks flowing, me laughing at his stupid jokes. We are leaving the restaurant, it is pretty crowded, we walked by the bar and who is sitting at the bar.... my current vanilla boo with his friend. I was completely mortified. My current SD is on the more attractive side, he’s in good shape, but he is 55+. I give my vanilla boo a big hug and I’m like “Omg hey! Are you stalking me?” with a cute smile and laugh. He laughs too and keeps looking at my SD who is standing behind me off to the side a bit. The friend senses the awkwardness and goes, hi I’m ___ nice to meet you. I just go nice to meet you too and don’t introduce myself because my vanilla boo knows me by my real name and my SD by a different name. lmao. The friend was very confused. We then exchange pleasantries and said bye. My SD was completely unfazed and just stood off to the side. I played the entire thing off totally fine. But on the inside, I was freaking out. It is too soon to say whether or not my vanilla guy was completely weirded out or not. We shall see. 

Has this happened to anyone? When you are out with a SD/client/sponsor and you run into someone from your vanilla life? Would love to hear how you handled it!

[sugarabg]

I don’t get men lol

They flaunt their wealth in order to impress me but when I am interested in them because of their wealth they are upset. What.

[fashionemerald-deactivated20210]

Dress x fur

[driflloon]

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[bimbocracy]

i talk to men for the same reason people go to the circus. i want to witness something that completely defies logic! i want to show up expecting absurdity and *still* be totally amazed by the extent to which it’s delivered. i want to be entertained! 

[pedalfar]

[catwalkcats]

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[sparklingsugar-nyc]

Went on my first POT date from SA in a long time. I realized that I can basically have a good time with anyone as long as I’ve had a few drinks and keep a positive mindset. 😂 not the healthiest thing to say but your girl needs a drink to losen up. We went to Toa Uptown which I feel like is a classic sugar baby spot.

At the end of the night we started talking about compensation for an “arrangemet”. Anytime a man from SA is talking about an arrangement he means PPM. Of course it was super low ($400) and I countered with a number I was comfortable with and he’s like who is that horny to pay girls that much. Lol. I got him to come up $300 but I still wasn’t okay with that and said I would give him a few days to think about it. I think he will offer a little more and then it will be okay. Keep the standards and compensation high babies.

[omalley-the-evil-ai-deactivated]

We're all just out here being bad bitches, making money, and trying not to die.

[vvond]

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[sparklingsugar-nyc]

I’ve been out here tumbling around like a forgotten tumbleweed in the wild wild west of being single. It has been driving me crazy. I thrive when I have multiple men that are obsessed with me. I have had awful luck lately in both vanilla and sugar relationships. Definitely have been too in my feelings and not making moves to change that. 

First off: I need to take a break from vanilla dating. I have been dating high caliber men ( CEOs, professional athletes, doctors, etc.) but overall are exhausting to keep putting in effort just for them to be too busy/always traveling. And then I am getting way too caught up in these dudes and romanticizing them.

Second: Focus on my health. I have been eating whatever I want which is usually cheeseburgers and french fries. I also have not worked out in so long. I just feel better when I work out consistently. 

Third: Start saying no to things that don’t serve me. My weeknights fill up quickly with social obligations that are mentally exhausting. No Jenny, I do not want to go to your sketch comedy night. 

[rontieremodeled-deactivated2023]

I’m currently in the process of rebranding my entire life. What you see right now is nothing compared to the life that I am getting ready to manifest.