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lovemysub-deactivated20250527

Friendly reminder:

-If you aren’t sure if you have consent, then you don’t have consent.

-If they didn’t consent at first but relented after you badgered them, you don’t have consent.

-If they didn’t consent when they were sober but now they’re intoxicated and not resisting, you don’t have consent.

Consent is clear, enthusiastic, and informed. Always.

-LMS

#no means no

plannedparenthood

In communities where women have access to contraceptives, children stay in school longer, and entire families are healthier, wealthier and far better equipped to break the cycle of poverty.

Melinda Gates via National Geographic (via plannedparenthood)

rallyforbernie

This is what Republicans try to demonize for political gain. Think about it.

speculumwrangler

This is what our family recently went through.

#save the aca

#womensmarch #pussy fights back

wilwheaton

Do not ever forget this.

speculumwrangler

Pussy fights back

wilwheaton

speculumwrangler

I've always ❤️ Carrie Fisher

I'm J. The other three lumps are dogs. #needabiggerbed #dogsofinsta

#dogsofinsta #needabiggerbed

chicklikemeblog

Playboy’s catcall flowchart.

fenchurchdent-blog

I’m reblogging Playboy. Somebody stop me.

thebicker

Even Playboy wants men to stop screaming at women on the street. When the pinnacle of female objectification is telling you you’re being a sexist pig, maybe for real you’re being a sexist pig. (I mean, women have been telling you you’re a sexist pig for catcalling for a long time, but then again, they’re *women* so their opinions don’t count. Now a magazine for men has acknowledged it so LISTEN UP.)

silverblueroses-blog

Even Playboy wants men to stop screaming at women on the street. That needed to be repeated. Even Playboy.

livesoundgirl

Forever. 💖

speculumwrangler

Gonna miss them

maeril

Hi everyone! This is an illustrated guide I made as part of my co-admining work at The Middle Eastern Feminist on Facebook! It will be published there shortly. The technique that is displayed here is a genuine one used in psychology - I forgot the name and couldn’t find it again so if you know about it, feel free to tell me! Some could say: “Yes but you can use that technique for instances of harassment other than Islamophobic attacks!”, and my reply is: Sure! Please do so, it also works for other “types” of harassment of a lone person in a public space!! However I’m focusing on protecting Muslims here, as they have been very specific targets lately, and as a French Middle Eastern woman, I wanted to try and do something to raise awareness on how to help when such things happen before our eyes - that way one cannot say they “didn’t know what to do”! I’d like to insist on two things: 1) Do not, in any way, interact with the attacker. You must absolutely ignore them and focus entirely on the person being attacked! 2) Please make sure to always respect the wishes of the person you’re helping: whether they want you to leave quickly afterwards, or not! If you’re in a hurry escort them to a place where someone else can take over - call one of their friends, or one of yours, of if they want to, the police. It all depends on how they feel! For my fellow French-speakers: I will translate it in French and post it on my page as soon as I can :) Please don’t hesitate to share this guide as it could push a lot of people to overcome bystander syndrome!! Lots of love and stay safe! PS: I you repost this cartoon of mine on twitter or instagram, please add me in the post so I can see it, with @itsmaeril :)

profeminist

This is a great strategy for all types of harassment, please share!!!

I don’t usually call for a Signal Boost, but FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS GOOD, SIGNAL BOOST THE HELL OUT OF THIS POST!!!!

undercovertacobell

You can make a donation to Planned Parenthood in Mike Pence’s name and he’ll receive the certificate of the donation.

Office of Governor Mike Pence State House Room 206 Indianapolis, IN 46204-2797

bespokecats

I kinda want to do this

laughterkey

If you have Trump voters in your family and you’re not sure what to get them for the holidays, a donation in their name to the charity of your choosing would be lovely. PP or the ACLU, perhaps?

speculumwrangler

Done.

wilwheaton

Wil, we just gave the nuclear codes to a guy whose Twitter account had to be taken away. What. Even.

I know. America is fucked.

speculumwrangler

We've been punk'd, right?

#where's Ashton Kutcher?

m-u-n-c-h-y

George Takei getting me thru this election

eugeniedanglars

reminder that george takei’s family survived an honest-to-god internment camp set up by the us government because of their race. if he says we can survive whatever a trump presidency throws at us, i believe him.

iamatinyowl

The problem is that even if Trump loses all of the people who support him still exist and are still out there creating the social climate that allowed him to get this far in the first place.

queeranne

Someone put it into words. It’s terrifying.

kitchenwitchknits

The best analogy for this situation that I’ve heard:

Imagine that you and four of your friends are trying to decide on something to do. Three of you vote to go to the movies, and the other two vote to kill a puppy. Even though you ultimately end up going to the movies, you still have to deal with the fact that two of your friends are 100% down with killing a puppy.