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Just gonna leave this here as a sticky for now:

if you dm me and just say "hi" or any iteration of this as a no effort starter to a convo, I will just block you from now on.

I'm not awfully active here anyway but I am glad to see the occasional dm here if you look for a convo!

But no one ain't got time to cater to you with attention.

Oh and I will also block anyone who sends me pics of themselves? Especially if they are like weight gain progression pics and then posting random big people with their head cropped off.

That's cringe. I also do not rate anyone here and I will never encourage anyone here unasked to gain weight. You gotta resolve that one with yourself, don't chase strangers attention.

Thank you for your time 😌

#my dm's recently got really wild and I never been cringing like this before.#imagine getting a whole ass resume for the last 25 years why they would make a good fat person??#no thanks oh god #anyway sticky post #sticky post

Hope you’re doing well, you fluffy duck

Doing excellent, anon <3

feederem-deactivated20260111

If tumblr keeps recommending the shitty AI art of fat boys I’m going to burn the whole place down. I want real fat boys. Not fake ones that exploited incredible human artists.

spikebhm

😌😌😌 mmmh, pizza does a body good!

So, so good ... 🤤🤤

#weight gain #bhm #bhm weight gain #getting fatter #stuffer #fatty #feedist #chubby belly #belly play #belly button

spikebhm

👀 Jesus christ, what a couple of years can do to you 🐷

spikebhm

Man, those gains check out 👀🔥✨

#weight gain #bhm #bhm weight gain #getting fatter #stuffer #fatty #feedist #chubby belly #belly play #belly button

spikebhm

Wow I sure was small back then 👀👀👀👀

Couple of comparison shots 🙈 for good measure!

spikebhm

Aaaah I’m so big 😆☺😶👀

#weight gain #bhm #bhm weight gain #getting fatter #stuffer #fatty #feedist #chubby belly #belly play #belly button

spikebhm

Any time you reference the audience as nerd, my knees go weak. I can only imagine the scenario where you, this overfed, embarrassed fatty, just throw your weight and appetite around and flaunt how big you’ve grown

It's honestly what you can expect from me! I'm big into using my size to get what I want and use it in all the ways you can imagine, to make you feel small and squished against my constantly growing body 😏🤫💗

I mean look, nerd. I've gotten so soft because of YOU and your constant oogling. I know what gets you off, don't kid around! 😏

#ask spike #weight gain #bhm #bhm weight gain #getting fatter #stuffer #fatty #feedist #chubby belly #belly play #belly button

spikebhm

👀😳 Oh boy.

#weight gain #bhm #bhm weight gain #getting fatter #stuffer #fatty #feedist #chubby belly #belly play #belly button

spikebhm

*boing*

#weight gain #bhm #bhm weight gain #getting fatter #stuffer #fatty #feedist #chubby belly #belly play #belly button

verytinybun

What is this Blessa account and why does it sound line a targeted scam?

feederka

i want to sit next to you like this and watch you struggle to move from all the food that i forced you to eat ✨

eat up bby 🦋

#dom feeder #feedee encouragement #feeding kink #female feedist #fat #feeding time #feedee feeder #funnel feeding #feeding you fatter

asoftgoth

oooofff 🥵🥵🥵

#Oh my goodness gracious #Perfection

giantffa-deactivated20241107

Yo can we get some green flags for feeders 😭

Green Flags for Feeders 💚

🟢UNDERSTANDS AND EMPHASIZES THE IMPORTANCE OF CONSENT.

🟢 Knows the difference between “feedism” and “feederism”

🟢 Understands and respects boundaries and hard limits. Will not (without consent) push you further than you are truly comfortable with and will not get mad/angry when you use safe words during play

🟢 Has a willingness to establish safe words and other protocols to ensure you stay comfortable and safe during play

🟢 Has done research and understands the complexity of size discrimination and fat politics

🟢 Is a vocal advocate for the rights and equality of fat folks and other marginalized groups

🟢 When planning dates and outings, they take the time to plan the most comfortable route and accommodations for their larger partner. (restaurants with space and no booths, travel accommodations like taking uber instead of walking, buying extra seats on airplanes, etc)

🟢 Worships your growing body but also adores you and your body outside of the context of kink.

🟢 Sees you as a person first and not a sex toy. Values your opinions, hobbies, perspective. Appreciates your humanity and makes you YOU.

🟢 Constantly shows you how appreciative they are of your choice to participate in this kink

🟢 Values and protects the trust you have placed in them. (not sharing private photos, not using language that makes you self conscious, etc)

🟢 Occasionally pays for meals/stuffing sessions. And/or contributes to your meals and gain when possible.

🟢 Understands that being an online feeder/encourager does not by default offer the same privilege and authority as being an irl feeder/encourager. (There’s only so much you can realistically demand for through a screen)

🟢 Is aware of trendy plus size brands and clothing options that will accommodate their partner’s size

🟢 Follows fat people on social media (not to fetishize but to have a diverse social media experience)

🟢 HAS IRL FAT FRIENDS

🟢 Respects the limits to your gain and will not pressure you to gain more (without consent)

🟢 Stays aware and respectful of teasing and comments made about your gain in relation to your gender expression. Avoids triggering language and gender based teasing when there is no consent

🟢 Respects sex workers

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There’s tons more so please feel free to add folks!