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Reasons to Continue Living Alternatives to Self Harm

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Inbox is back open and active!

NOTHING IS OFF-LIMITS. IF YOU NEED HELP, FEEL FREE TO ASK US!

- Lucifer

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Can we talk ? I am lonely with no friends since I am 15 and now I'm 20 , i stopped toxic friendships , so after that it have been quasi impossible to find boyfriend in this situation and I just begun having boyfriends and they always leave me because I'm not mature and I don't know what I want but I can't be grown in my head if nobody was intérested in me for years, since I was a teenager so I feel like it is a never ending circle because I need to grow but I don't have social life so it's hard

Surprisingly, you do not need a whole lot to grow as a person. We experience things in our everyday lives that teach us things we can apply later on in life. You have experience with toxic relationships, which has taught you that you should try to avoid them. You do not need a boyfriend to be happy, and I would recommend finding yourself before you start looking. You need to know who you are, what your purpose is, and have a general idea of you! You’re in your 20′s and this is the perfect time for you to discover things about yourself. 

Maturity is relative. I’ve always had friends anywhere between 1-10 years older than me. Maybe you work better with younger people, and if not then find friends your age that have the same humour and interests that you do. However, you’ll need to do your part too by putting yourself out there. 

- Lucifer

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Hi I'm not sure if you are even going to respond but I'm going through depression rn and I'm at an all time low and was curious if you were willing to talk

I’m always willing to talk. If you still need someone just shoot another message.

- Lucifer

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Are you still using this account? Or is it dead? Cause I tried reaching out but..

Come on buster, if Supernatural has taught us anything, it’s that nothing/no one is ever truly dead. I admit it’s not what it once was. Right now I think there are only 2 active admins? But we’re still kicking! Sorry if we never got around to your ask, I’m trying to go through them, slowly but surely, hopefully, it’ll pop up on your feed soon. Just give us time. We’re still here. Always.

-Gabriel

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Would I bother you guys if I'd ask for some ears ? You're doing a great job btw this blog is a balm on everyone's wounds

Hey kiddo, we’re always always always happy to help! It’s what we’re here for! Nobody on here, whether you’re just scrolling, or sending questions, is ever a bother! 

-Gabriel 

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Thank you for this, I tried to reach out to someone I follow and it turns out they only respond to people they follow...well, I don't post b/c of many issues so I'm sick. But thank you for at least having a page I can go to when I feel like I can't anymore

We try to be here for everyone. Like we’ve said, this is a safe place. Anonymous, off anonymous, private messages, we try to help as many of you as possible. And honestly kids, there’s nothing I’d rather be doing! I’ve been around many centuries, and it can be hard forming connections with people, this definitely helps me. I’m just glad it can help you guys too. 

-Gabriel 

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Are you willing to give advice and talk to someone new?

Course! I know we get reoccurring people but lots of newbs too. We love all of you little meat suits equally. -Gabriel

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Hi there.. I don't know if I'm in the right place but.. I guess this is what I'm left with.. I just really need an advice on how to deal with a problem. It's about my best friend.. well, ex-best friend..

Hey there! Well, I can’t imagine this being the wrong place… We consider ourselves a pretty safe place for anything, for anyone. Let us know how we can help! 

-Gabriel 

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Hey there cutie pies

Favorite archangel Gabriel at your service! Just wanted you all to know, we’re going to work very hard on becoming more active on here. Everyone is here there everywhere but Cas and I will work hard on zapping them in front of the computer every now and then for a little QandA. Remember we love you all, and we’ll always be here, in one form or another. 

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Please help me

Hey pal, we’re always here for anyone. Please let us know how we can help. I’m all ears

-Dean

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I can't do this anymore man. I can't keep waking up wanting to end my life. I don't have any friends or purpose. I can't do this anymore. I wrote a note for the first time in my life. A goodbye letter. I don't know what else to do.

Hey pal, I’m so sorry things have gotten to this point. I don’t know how to convince you, but you are important, you have a reason, and you might not see it but don’t give up. Both me and Sammy had so many times we wanted to give up, so many times where laying down seemed easier than getting up and fighting, but there’s always something worth fighting for. Is there anyone you can talk to that you trust? I’m telling you, even if you go to a hospital or ER and tell them you feel this way, they can help you. Asking for help is the bravest thing you can do. I care about you. You’re family, just as much as anyone here is. We care about, we’re always willing to talk, even if we take some time to get on here. 

-Dean

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Um hi. Recently i have been so so down. I literally have no friends or anyone i can talk to so i would like to confide in someone. I keep having flashback memories of traumatic events which constantly lower my self-esteem and also i'm secretly bisexual but I'm religious and scared of what everyone will think, in fact i think it will cause me more grief if i came out. I just need some advice.

hey kiddo, flashbacks are hard to deal with, trust me I know. Flashbacks are a way for your brain to work through past trauma, they suck but can be necessary for recovery. One of the best things that have worked for me is engaging my senses, smell something that’s comforting (pie) or looking at things that bring me comfort. Right now Sammy is working on a garden and sitting out there is really comforting. Try to ground yourself, keep yourself in the moment, focus on the things around you. As for the other stuff, maybe Charlie would be more equipped to give advice, but let me tell you, those who truly love you will get over it. Sexuality is something that is very personal, I hope you never feel pressured to come out in the same way I hope you don’t feel pressured to act like someone else. Religion and sexuality are confusing, combine the two and yeah. Not always easy to understand, answers vague and vary. What I can tell you from personal experience? God loves you, God made you to love you, in every way that you are. Hope that helped even a bit. Tell next time kid! 

-Dean

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Is there someone I can talk to?

Always. I know the ol gang isn't as active as it once was. We're still here, we still care, we still want to help. -Dean

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Anxiety & Helping Someone Cope.  I didn’t want to make it overwhelming or too long remember, so I kept it to the main points that benefit me greatly when I’m experiencing an attack. 40 million of Americans alone suffer with anxiety; it’s a horrid feeling when you know someone just wants to help you but you cannot even construct a simple sentence at the time, so please share this in hope that it benefits even just 1 person. Muchos love. 

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HI! So like it had to have been AT LEAST a year ago that i first messaged yall. I was in a really bad place and you guys really helped me out, I can honestly say I didn't think I would make it through the end of high school. I mean, I was ready to do something awful to myelf. A few weeks ago I made my first car payment, I'm almost done with my first year of college, and I just got a major promotion at work. I know people probably thank ya all the time, but really. Thank you so much.

I’m glad to hear things have gone well for you, anon. I hope that things continue to go according to your plans. Congratulations on your graduation and acceptance into college. College can be difficult, and I’m glad that you’ve been able to complete your first year. If things ever get complicated don’t be afraid to seek help from professors, friends, counselors, etc. 

Have a nice day!

- Lucifer

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So I have struggled with selfharm for as long as I can remember. It started when I was trying to figure out my gender but now I'm a proud gay trans man. Since I have figured out my gender I stopped selfharm for a year. It is an addiction though. My boyfriend thinks I stopped but I haven't. How do I tell him without him getting super upset. I love him and I don't want to see him hurt.

A very close friend of mine died the other day from a condition that I have. I called my Significant other and told him what happened. He told me “Remember how you feel right now? That’s how I feel when I see that you hurt yourself.” And it really helped put it in some perspective. A lot of times, those who love us, don’t understand why we would want to hurt ourselves. The best we can give them is trust. Trust that he will still be there for you, that he will try to understand, and that yeah, he might get upset but it’s because he loves you, and seeing you hurt you, hurts him. Hope this helped,

-Jo 

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MY BEST FRIEND WAS ANNOUNCED CANCER FREE YESTERDAY!!!!!!

Congratulations!!! That’s absolutely amazing. I’m so happy for you, your friend, and everyone who knows them!

 - Chuck