Why so many Tumblrs!?

Hi, my name is Indigo and this is my umpteenth Tumblr. Lvl 27, Non-binary Trans and Genderfluid, (They/She/He) I am also Pansexual and Ace-Flux. I am a gothic/goth with a huge geeky side.

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By the way..... your friendly neighborhood geek goth just came out as pansexual ace-flux a month ago.

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My sexual and romantic orientation is like an onion as it has many layers to it. I realized that I am a panromantic abrosexual ace-flux. (Even though my sexual orientation is very fluid, I can be romantically attracted to any gender identity.)

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I had a rough week and it nearly killed me. I don't want to go into detail about what happened. But just know that I'm going to be okay. (Selfie for attention.)

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The Chainsmokers - Something Just Like This (Punk Goes Pop Style) "Pop P...

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genderfluid culture is being called the same pronouns as before you came out because you said “anything is fine” when they asked

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So true! You wouldn't believe how many times I get referred to as she/her.

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Genderfluid culture is “if the cis find out we can shapeshift they’re going to tell the church”

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Sounds about right lol.

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Had a few puffs of weed and now I am doing good.

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happy world goth day to,

nu goths, trad goths, baby bats, experienced goths, goths who are just now starting out, goths who have been in the scene for years, goths in a setting where they can’t dress the way they want, goths who have been called posers bc of their dress, lgbtq goths, goths in religion, goths of color, goths who can’t figure out how to do eyeliner

I hope y’all have a lovely day, you’re doing great and I love you <3

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I know that World Goth Day isn’t until May. (It’s November.) But I felt like reblogging this in advance for next year.

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Martin Hsu Cute Goth Fairies for Mighty Fine Apparel / Hot Topic Style Guide art. 

Martin Hsu was also the creator of Ruby Gloom for Mighty Fine – I’m guessing these are around the same time (2002). 

Licensed graphic apparel industry deep cuts is my new fascination (being that I’m in the same industry. Only I don’t get to design cute original fairy characters.)

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That's so adorable!

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I'm a little more put together today despite my hair being an abhorrent mess.

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Decided to upload some photos of me from when I was in the motel. I don’t usually wear a lot of makeup but I was kinda feeling myself at the moment so I decided to put it on.

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I took this picture on Halloween/Samhain. Yeah, I know that I looked rough; considering the situation I am in right now.... But I know that everything is going to be okay.

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🧶 🕷️ 🎸/🧶 🕷️ 🎸/🧶 🕷️ 🎸

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Oh how I love Emily the Strange!!! I used to have an Emily the Strange jacket a few years ago and I really miss it. :’(

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I love this!!! So cute!!! 

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Unpopular opinion but telling someone they identify as the wrong identity is not nearly as helpful as you think it is and it’s really creepy. I’ve seen so many posts of ace women talking about their experiences where the notes are filled with people telling them they’re probably a lesbian. I’ve seen posts made by gnc cis people where tons of people tell them they’re probably trans, because only trans people have complicated relationships with gender, cis people ALWAYS love to fit into society’s expected gender roles.

Even if the person you are addressing ends up identifying differently later, that is their journey and they need to take it on their own timeline. A stranger telling them that they way they feel about themselves is wrong is not going to help. If anything, getting told by a bunch of strangers to identify a certain way will make them want to explore other identities even less. If a person truly is x identity, but aren’t ready to come to terms with that, people pushing them is only going to make it worse.

Do people really not see how inappropriate that is?