Synastry Overlays Series Mars (🍇)
Mars in the 1st house overlay: The Hungry lovers
💋Jacques Greene - afterglow💋.
•Now this pairing from the very start will feel like gravity navigating the two of you on a crash course straight towards one another at blinding speed. Mars in this case takes on the energy of Aries-they have an almost insatiable desire for the house person but one of a very blunt and surface level enigma. They find the house person erotic in a very Arian sense and even in a platonic relationship this does add quite a bit of a physical undertone to their interactions. Mars can be more forethought and straightforward when it comes to the house person than they would any other person. They can find themselves craving more raw touch from the house person than they normally would anyone else. And similarly to the 8th house influence due to the nature of mars and Aries the mars persons libido tends to sky rocket here when around the house person. The house person takes on the energy of mars-becoming more in-tune with their own physical attributes their own physical body so to speak. Everything becomes skin to skin and full on for the house person. A desire to seduce and or devour the mars person becomes present. Sex here is very aggressive and abrasive as if both have been strapped down with iron chains unable to act on their desires. Usually for better or worse their is an magnified sexual influence in the partnership.
Mars in the 2nd house overlay: Insatiably stable
🧣Little dragon - only you🧣
That look, that look you gave
Would you let ‘em slumber
•I often would see much of the old archetype of planets falling in someone’s 2nd house having to do with how you affect them in terms of their finances and how you better increase or deplete what ever ability they have to gain in this area. Albeit this is true, the second house is also responsible for our self worth, it’s responsible for our desire for touch and our own value in security and what makes us feel this security. Mars here is EXTREMELY profound and places an immense intensity on these matters. The mars person in a sense gains very Tauren attributes when dealing with the house person. They’re both patient and sturdy often more than they’d be with anyone else. They are far more cautious and deeply sentimental towards the house person. I’m a sense they treat the house person as if the house person belonged to them and no one else. Mars can be extremely sexually aroused and attracted to the house persons physical body but not in the way of the 1st house-this is more in a deeply emotional sense. The way the house person is and the way they act is extremely comforting to the mars person and the mars person as a result is often touching and seeking deep intimacy of a sensual nature with the house person as a means to feel secure and to please the house person since this is a earth house. The house person acts as Venus here and despite the inclination they actually tend to take on the more masculine role here be it female or male. The house person is often unconsciously protective of the mars person—refusing to let any harm come their way. The house person is also fiercely loyal as well as easily possessive of the mars person physically and emotionally and can even adopt bull like tendencies when it comes to outsiders coming around mars. The house person craves mars touch and often lures mars in as an attempt to get this sensual touch. The house person takes sex with mars very seriously and since this is the house of Taurus sex often happens constantly and in deep long sessions. Touch and pacing is often the theme. The house person tends to hold off on touching mars back until they feel comfortable as often the house person feels the touch VERY intensely.
Mars in the 3rd house overlay: Are we flirting or fighting?
🐞Frank gamble - J’adore ft abra cabera🐞
Know what you see before you understand
You know in your heart before you know in your head
No reason to keep it hidden anymore”
•This overlay generates a high level of friction. The third house and mars together breeds a lot of mischievous energy. The mars person can develop a very gemini like way of pursuing the house person even if they have a mars in a more “feel things” type of sigh like Pisces. Mars tends to have a more blunt and even at times nervous energy towards the house person. The house person in a sense “intimidates” them but in a cute/endearing way! Mars finds the house person both delicate and mysterious like a puzzle without the pieces. The house person stimulates the mars person with practically anything—they just have a very electric effect on the mars person for better or worse. The mars person in most cases especially in the beginning can sense this and tends to do all in their power to maintain a detached persona towards the house person to control the pace in a sense. The house person can be very curious in a mercurial like way about the mars person-often wanting to know it all. The house person usually is since this is a mars overlay we’re talking about here is often aroused by mars mind and how they process the world around them. The mars person can be a bit intense and aggressive when speaking the the house person and the house person can be rather sensitive to this. That being said mars is often very careful with the house person and is constantly adapting for them-while as time progresses the house person gains more courage to speak their mind. Sex here is very “hands on” the mars person can find themselves craving oral sex a lot more than they normally would and both partners will be very energetic sexually constantly moving from position to position. Talking and or dirty taking and speaking in different languages whilst having sex is another manifestation.
Mars in the 4th house overlay: The defensive tango
🐌Mansionair - speak easy🐌
“Can we keep the dialogue
We are falling out of touch
•This overlay similarly to if Pluto was here is more on the overwhelming side of things. The mars person can take on very cancerian qualities, often becoming more undercut and indirect when it comes to the house person. They can feel caged in and seemingly emotionally flustered when it comes to the house person. Their emotions seem to come out sporadically and their desire for the house person fluctuates between sexual and emotional constantly with the emotional desire outweighing the other. Mars can and is very proactive of the house person often taking whatever action necessary to be an emotional wall for the house person whenever need be. The house person is often very lunar with the mars person! Usually nurturing and allowing a safe heaven for the mars person to express their deepest feelings. A lot of the energy for both parties is poured into cuddling and making things comfy. That being said arguments can be heated due to their emotional tendency and old defense mechanisms rooted towards the sign on the house persons 4th house tend to color the relationship for better or worse and both parties will find themselves acting out old patterns from previous episodes in their lives seemingly without their knowing. Sex here is often very intimate and a very private act-you’ll never know when these two are going at it and they love it that way.
Mars in the 5th house overlay: The glass castle ego
🐅Glass animals - life itself🐅
“Come back down to my knees
Gotta get back, gotta get free
Come back down to my knees
Be like them, lean back and breathe…”
•This overlay is normally a very physical overlay. And if it’s not wanted it can be a bit of a nuance for the people involved. Mars usually becomes like a Leo, seeking admiration and praise from the house person no matter how shy the Person. They start to crave the sole attention of the house person wether they realize it or not something in them starts to crave that excitement and fire from the house person. They often become more flamboyant and extravagant in the presence of the house person—seeking to live a bit reckless and make more bold and at times silly decisions in regards to the house person. The house person is often a flattered school boy/girl by mars and often either finds them childish or obnoxiously sweet. The house person often feels a strong desire for the mars person finding them “their type” in a sexual sense. In some cases the house person can even find that their ego is more prevalent when dealing with the mars person. The mars persons drive and sexuality is both alluring and sexy to them and the often find themselves deeply drawn to mars because of this. Mars tends to be more “me me me” during sex with the house person but only because the house person turns them on in such a way-whilst the house person becomes themselves through sex with the mars person! I’ll tell you now sex between these two is loud. Possessive tendencies in true fixed house fashion run very deeply here.
Mars in the 6th house overlay: Submission or Prolonged courting
“With all I’ve done and all I say
I’ve been loving you in a different way
Tried to explain, you wash away the pain
Things were never gonna stay the same”
•ah the 6th house! The house of our daily persona-the respective day to day! The office and the guy you see everyday when you’re walking down the street for your morning jogs. The mars person here in a sense becomes a Virgo-far more observant than a action taker. Far more cat and mouse than outright pursuing the object of their desires. The mars person can be more somber around the house person-often seeing them as someone they have to live up to in a way. The mars person can become easily embarrassed and flustered by the house person! Often it knowing what actions to take to win them over but also in a sense feeling awkward about expressing their more intimate desires! Mars will often be better at speaking through actions than words to the house person. The house person will see through mars plenty of times! They tend to find mars a bit of the shy type and depending on the interaction in most cases the house person finds this very comforting! Due to how genuine and grounded the mars persons approach to romance is! They can find themselves opening up and even relaxing easier around mars and finding it relatively easy to leave things in mars hands! The house person fosters a very deep but slow burning desire for the mars person. The mars person tends to seek to please the house person at all cost sexually while the house person seeks to be pleased in totality. A give in take in sex that’s very as they say “earthy” this can show two people who have a natural sexual chemistry. Also not to be vulgar but this is an anal house both literally and metaphorically so do with that what you will.
Mars in the 7th house overlay: Nostalgia with you
👥SG Lewis - Times we had👥
“What if I never came around the bend
And walked straight into you
Nothin’ like a play to shut that down”
•the overlay here produces some veg romantic and warm nature’s sexual attraction between two people. Mars often takes on libra traits towards the house person! Often taking a calmer more flirty approach when it comes to their interactions. Mars often becomes
Far more diplomatic and even more compromising towards the desires of the house person often wanting to do and be anything possible to please the house person best they can. A huge level of romance plays here and mars often finds themselves shooting for the perfect atmosphere when with the house person often finding them both charming and someone that arouses their more hopeless Romantic side. The house person who becomes the higher waves of venus is immensely found of the mars person! Often finding their energies easy to blend with and even sexually alluring. Both enjoy spending time together in a peaceful manner and may even prefer more gentle sex when with one another! Both can be deeply into pleasing one another! And since this is libras house stimulation of the pelvic - butt region is often a theme.
Mars in the 8th house overlay: The angel v demon dynamo
🕷The Neighborhood - Heaven🕷
“There’s something 'bout you baby
There’s something 'bout the way
Ya got me shaking like a seizure
No mistaking that I need ya”
•ah the 8th house, to say that having this mars overlay is overwhelming would be a understatement! Be it platonic or sexual this can create a very intense undertone to the interactions. The mars person no matter how airy or how earthy their mars gets dropped into a dark pit that is the 8th house. Energies that lie deep and hidden beneath the nook and crannies of the mars person get dragged out to the surface and since this is mars a vast slew of intense sexual desires can be on the forefront and for some this can be both invasive and overwhelming. Mars often(unconsciously) finds themselves drawn to the house person, constantly observing and intensely infatuated and even caught up in the house person and what they do. Mars often expresses this intense need to touch and physically be around the house person via burst of anger or random aggression. The mars person can take on a very intense energy around the house person that others will pick up on but the sheer depth is something that’ll always only exists between the house person and mars. The house person often is the person receiving mars in a heavy way but often holds the level of restraint since they embody Pluto. The house person often feels like the damsel- endlessly caught by mars and his/her strong energy. The house person feels sexy and even in a sense mesmerized by mars and its raw desire. The house person in a sense becomes the moth while mars becomes the blazing flame. Sex between these two if ever allowed is a frighting sight something that can easily become addictive and something that can easily freeze hell over. Mars often takes on a very aggressive and passionate role sexually whilst the house person can in a sense become very wild, like the maiden finally free of her vail. Since this is the house of taboo having a mars overlay here often can show an attraction that’s wrong in some way or like the two of you shouldn’t feel the way you should for one another.
Mars in the 9th house overlay: The optimistic train
Take a load off your back
We can wait for the… oooh”
•oh boy now this is a friendly and bubbly place for mars! These two often have an easy going chemistry with a bit of the wild and jump the gun sort of tendency! Mars usually takes on more sagittarian traits than they normally would! They become far more straight forward than they would when not around the house person. They want a good time and see it in the house person! The house person almost becomes their version of a bountiful experience in the form of a human being. They can be quite insatiable for the house persons energy and even find the wild and more blunt style of the house person to be sexy so to speak! They can find themselves easily drawn and spiritually connected to the house person! The house person often takes on Jupiter’s energy and loves the more optimistic and childish nature of Mars! Theirs a tendency for both to be slightly arrogant and yes believe it or not despite Jupiter and sag influence their is a tendency for both to be ignorant towards one another as well! That being said they have a lot of energy and are deeply connected both physically and spiritually! Mars tends to crave sex with the house person anywhere they can get it but the fun of it is that it’s always on a whim rather than something thought out! The house person usually has a happy go lucky approach about sex with mars! Lubricants and oils! With a touch of outdoors and office scenes.
Mars in the 10th house overlay: Grouchy foreplay
🐜Alexandra savior - Frankie 🐜
“Babe, you got your villains’ car
You got your sleeves rolled up
• its a more cold and detached sort of chemistry here. A meeting between to equally unfocused souls who don’t readily know they want anything at all from one another. This is the 10th house of status after all. Their is a huge focus on security here being that this is an earth house and even more on the slow build up. Being the opposite of the 4th house their is still a focus on the emotional/stability spectrum as far as intimacy is concerned! Mars takes on Capricorn traits often having a more rigid and somber approach to the house person. Mars can seem a bit uninterested and unbothered by the house person to an untrained eye but if one were to really look into mars they would see that the seriousness emitting from mars isn’t discontent it’s merely admiration and care. Mars wants to impress the house person-to captivate them, to earn them. Mars isn’t looking for quickies with the house person and sure as hell isn’t looking to waste time. Mars is earnestly bent on savoring every moment quiet, loud, every second. The house person sees mars as a mature and sincere lover and often finds themselves leaving their walls up around mars more than they would anyone else. They crave mars stability but fear it as well. Their can be a tug of war of openly expressed v. held completely out of sight. The two can seem very intense around one another to outsiders but they had a very earthy and deeply passionate sexual chemistry and one that is hard earned. Mars often holds off on sex with the house person but can be quite the gregarious beast once they get the-chance. The house person often keeps mars at bay but once they do decide to give it up they can play around with the control and restriction theme sexually and both tend to last long periods sexually with one another.
Mars in the 11th house overlay: Friends without the friends part
“I think this bridge is burning down
I think my heart has just been bleedin’ slowly
It’s first I’m all you’re thinking 'bout
And then you try to act like you don’t know me”
•the final fixed house operates a bit strangely in a mars overly! Despite this being an air house we are dealing with a sexual planet and at that we are dealing with Aquarius and Uranus! This for starters is a very turbulent chemistry produced between two people! Mars takes on very Aquarian traits often being more detached in how they pursue the house person! They can think things out whilst simultaneously stepping out of their normal comfort zone! They often find themselves aroused by the house persons inaccessibility! It can seem like the house person is always slightly out of their reach. But that being said the mars person flys between off and on attraction when it comes to the house person! Some moments being all over them while others they treat them like a buddy! This is often a friends with benefits position because of the hot and cold vibes! The house person is often intrigued by mars rebel nature! But the house person often embodies the Uranian energy which often causes them to disappear and reappear at odd times in the pairing! They can desire to experiment with mars but also find themselves drawn to the more friendlier and easy flow aspect of their dealings with the mars person. Both love the freedom presented with one another and how it always feels like they’re not tied down. Sex here is often full of spark and can have a very star struck quality to it! Mars usually despite their detached nature wants a long term connection with the house person and vice versa! One thing I noticed is this is usually a couple that started out as friends!
Mars in the 12th house overlay: The worst case of Deja vu
•mars in the 12th house overlay can feel extremely cosmic when you let it! But it can also feel so uncomfortable if you’re not ready to let someone in on such a level. Much like venus in the 12th mars in this house can point to a sexually intimate and or in the case of platonic/familial bonds a connection in which both parties fought together and in some cases even were involved in a close bond be it one forged in violence or one formed from having to protect one another from the worldly circumstances of your past life. Mars can take on Pisces like traits and often finds themselves reacting to things in unrecognizable ways. This is the house of kismet after all so mars in a sense can act out patterns seemingly from another time. They can have a odd fear of the house person yet find themselves drawn to mars in some cases it’s in a sexual manner whilst others it’s in a more spiritually disconnected way. Mars seeks union with the house person but also seeks sanctum away from the intense energy of the house person! Mars often feels easily drained and even more submissive to the house person often easily detecting the motives of the house person before even they do. The house person often finds themselves wanting to protect mars, seeing the more fragile and weaker aspect of mars threw energy alone. The house person can act out their 12th house more around the mars person but can be unsettled by this. Their is a huge sensitivity and receptivity presented here but it’s something that requires a lot of time to get the hang of and is not for the front of heart! From what I’ve noticed these two much like with venus normally don’t get involved in one another’s lives permanently unless it’s familial! But in the case of romance sex is often out of reach in some way or delayed! If it does take place I’ve seen that the two are inseparable after the act and you can always tell! Their eyes change and it’s the most ominous thing but I’ll say this sex here is often a blur. Something felt but not seen.
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