Hi... I need an advice... I'm 18,virgin, woman's and I even never kissed someone before... Yes it's true.... Now I started to want to masturbate myself... Some advice?
The best advice I can give you regarding wanting to begin masturbating would be to start slow. Give yourself time to relax. Have your favorite meal, take a shower, wear your most comfortable clothes, do whatever it is you can do to make yourself completely at ease. Then wait until the house is completely empty or as close as it can be so there is no interruptions or fear of interruptions. Get comfortable in bed. Something that I find helps me is to just put lotion on myself, just so everything is soft and smooth. Additionally I find that it makes it easier to work myself up from that point as youāre already stripped down and relaxed. Hereās where things will start heating up. Go slow, breathe, and just start exploring. See what feels good for you, everyone is different so donāt be discouraged if some things donāt work as well on you as they do with others. Close your eyes. Start feeling up and down your body, the different curves, the different crevasses. With your eyes still closed, (it helps you focus on what youāre feeling) try feeling your breasts, feel your nipples, feel down in between your legs. A safe place to begin would be the clitoris. Rubbing it in a figure 8 always gets me going. But donāt be afraid to try going inside, just donāt force it. You want this whole thing to be as natural as possible, if you feel it, go for it, if not donāt worry, try again later or try again next time. Now back to the clitoris. Donāt be afraid to change it up on that little sucker every now and again. However, if it starts feeling really good, keep at it, switching it up at this point could throw you off the path. Keep in mind for some people, solely clit action can be too much at first, and if that is the case, donāt worry there are plenty of way to enjoy treating yourself. Now if you do go inside, keep in mind, again, everyone is different, so experiment with yourself, explore. There is another holy grail to be found besides your clit, the fabled g-spot. If you do go looking for this sucker, keep in mind that its not as deep as you might think. A couple inches max from the opening of your vagina, typically on the uppermost wall. Once you get yourself into a good rhythm, youāll know. Keep at it moving to places both inside, and out until you feel the sweet release youāve been working towards. Itās really something, let me tell ya.Hopefully I didnāt make this sound too intimidating. I promise, getting to know yourself better sexually is one of the biggest favors you can do for yourself in the long run. Not to mention masturbation can help relieve stress, lowers the risk of heart disease (google that shit), releases endorphins which can help promote deeper, healthier sleep, and improve overall vagina health; not to mention itās a lot of fun. ;)
Another thing, please, PLEASE donāt feel guilty for masturbating. Donāt do that to yourself no matter the reason. Masturbation is as natural as bringing air into your lungs and should be regarded as such. There should be no shame in loving yourself.
Sorry for making this so long but one last thing. It doesnāt matter that youāre a virgin, it doesnāt matter that you have yet to kiss anyone. These things will happen when they will and not a day sooner. So thereās no sense worrying about them. All things will come in time, including you. ;)Ā
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