[starlitsnowdin]

* heya. i’m sans. sans the skeleton. i use he/it, but i don’t mind what pronouns you use for me.

* i decided to remake an advice blog i had years ago, but make it a bit better. you can still ask me for advice, but this time, i want to help with school, try and cheer you all up with silly art and jokes… anything you’d like. even if you’d just like to talk to me or tell me something, i don’t mind.

* if you’d like for an ask to be posted privately, please let me know. or add this emoji ( 🌼 ) to your ask, to let me know without saying such.

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[ the previous blog was inspired by @papyrussuggestions , and honestly this blog still is.

i wanted to make a relaxed blog, where everyone could treat me as a character that makes them happy, sans. i am willing to try and help with anything as him, so feel free to drop an ask with whatever!

this isn’t a roleplay blog, but roleplay asks are fine, as long as you don’t start a roleplay thread

main blog is: @knightsdelta ]

[starlitsnowdin]

* it’s alright to celebrate the little things. even if it’s something as seemingly small as getting out of bed, you have a right to be proud of yourself.

[starlitsnowdin]

Hey Sans, uhmm do you have any ways to stop hair pulling? Like better coping/stress mechanisms??

It's kinda at the point where you can physically see my hair being less dense and I need help😥

* if you have access to fidget toys and/or stress balls, i believe those can help. if it doesn’t, or you don’t have access, perhaps you could wear a beanie you can hide your hair in, and try and distract yourself with other activities. exercise, drawing/painting if you’re into that, video games, and crosswords are a few suggestions i thought of at the top of my head.

* i wish you luck, bud. i know how difficult it can be, but i believe in you.

[starlitsnowdin]

* it’s okay to be confused on life. you don’t have to have everything figured out.

[starlitsnowdin]

* it’s okay to not be okay, and it’s okay to ask for help. but it’s okay to not want help, too. everyone heals at their own pace, and if you feel like you don’t need help at the moment, that’s completely alright.

[starlitsnowdin]

* since it’s pride month, i thought i should make a post relating to it.

* don’t be ashamed to be yourself. whether you’re unlabeled, closeted, use labels not many people know, or are otherwise straight (asexual alloromantic, straight trans, etc.), you and your identity are valid.

* happy pride month! don’t be afraid to be you. and if you’re in a situation or country where pride is unsafe or illegal, you’re just as valid as the rest of us. keep your head up, and stay safe. i believe in you all, and wish you all luck.