Resist that oppression (manifestation reassurance).
It's okay to manifest to resist oppression. It's okay to manifest to give yourself a better life. It's okay to worry about yourself. It isn't selfish. It isn't bad, and you are not wrong for putting your life and freedom above everything else.
A lot of people manifest to escape familial trauma, and I wanted to chat about that a bit in this post. Familial trauma is not spoken about enough because people believe that families always want the best for their kids and can do no wrong. Families always get a free pass for abuse and mistreatment, and victims of said abuse and mistreatment are expected to tolerate this. This is oppression.
Toxic families make kids feel like they owe the families just for existing. Like they're supposed to forever be in service to these families just because they were brought into the world. These families raise people pleasers who grow up to be exhausted and chase people who will perpetuate the cycle of mistreatment and abuse.
I know what this is like, and my heart goes out to all the people who can relate. Manifesting is and can 100% be your way out. Even if you don't believe what I'm about to say, I promise it is 100% true:
You do not owe your family anything for being BORN. You did not ask to be here. You do not owe them your life. You don't owe them having a specific hobby, beliefs, sexual orientation, gender identity, career path, degree, et cetera. Your feelings are valid and your experiences are real. You are your OWN person, not an extension of your parents.
You. are. your. own. person. You are allowed to be your own person. You are not your parents, and you are not an extension of your parents. You are not an extension of your family. The right people will see you as your own person and not an extension of your family. You do not "represent your family." You are YOU. You are your own person. You do your own things. You represent yourself.
You do not have to make your oppressors look good. You aren't making them look bad by exposing the way they've treated you. They're making themselves look bad. If they didn't want to look bad, they should've acted better.
You are allowed to leave, you can manifest your escape regardless of your age. You do not have to stay in an abusive/toxic situation. You are not obligated to tolerate it for any reason. You are not obligated.
You should not be chasing your parents for a relationship; it is THEIR job to have a relationship with you. You are their CHILD. It's not your job to fix a bridge you didn't burn. If they ruined the relationship by abusing you, traumatizing you, refusing to change/improve, they burned the bridge and you don't have to fix it.
Take Vivian Jenna Wilson and Elon Musk as an example. Just because your parent created you, doesn't mean there is true family. You don't owe them shit. Being born just makes you biologically related. It's just science that you happen to share the same DNA. It literally means nothing else. (The way people manipulate scientific facts to control people is INSANE btw. Pls beware).
YOU ARE ALLOWED TO LEAVE. You are allowed to be free. It's okay to release the shame.
Manifest freedom for yourself. Manifest a house to yourself. Manifest a car to yourself. Manifest a found family. Manifest a new family. Manifest pets. Manifest a lover, manifest a friend group. Manifest the love and care you've always deserved. Manifest whatever you need. Your life is YOURS. You have a right to live for yourself and nobody else.
You can do this and you WILL do this. You don't need belief. You will believe it one day. And even if you don't, it won't matter because you don't need belief in the first place. You don't need to visualize, you don't need to work out all the details, you don't need to have it all figured out. You don't need to feel specific emotions, you don't need to get rid of all your doubts, you don't need you don't need to do anything except KNOW that it's all said and done.
You will have the life you deserve. Your life belongs to YOU. <3
I love you all!!!!! xoxox