Cyberbullying is the electronic posting of mean-spirited or harassing messages about someone often done anonymously. It is a repeated behavior with intent to hurt or harm, frustrate, anger, scare, or depress the victim. We believe this definition fits what is happening to us, S, and all members on our website due to a different Tumblr blog right now. We have received all of your concerned messages, and we are listening. We appreciate your support and hear your frustration; it is why after considerable thought, we feel the need to speak up, not so much for us, but for all of you who are being attacked for having different opinions. As you know, we do not want to engage in the drama, and we have asked each of you not to engage in it either. We appreciate that you have respected our wishes and have not brought the mess to our site. We know that because we have not engaged with the blog, we must be in her head, and that is why she has become obsessed with our site and apparently has absolutely nothing better to do with her time then to talk about this site and all of you. She must not have any real tea, or that would be the focus of her blog instead of us!
Just take a step back and think logically for only a few minutes about all the crap she has posted and the conversations y'all have had on our website. She claimed we share IPs and email addresses and use them to hunt people down on Instagram to find their real identity. Do you realize how asinine that sounds? An IP address is not your social security number or your Instagram username. It is related to your browser and can be seen by every web server you visit and to everyone you email. It really is not related to your privacy and can be pretty easily found if you have been online for a while. As many of you know, people on Talk-Sports posted IPs of posters all the time, yet it doesn’t tell you anything more than a general country or city that person may be online in, but if they use a VPN or another router, that’s not even accurate. It does not tell us or anyone else who you really are. It’s even hard for the FBI and police to use that info to find out who you are. All that being said, we don’t even look at your IPs, and we only posted 1 IP address and that Tumblr blog and all her haters know it. We only did it to prove we didn’t knowingly ban a particular person and only found out she was inadvertently banned when her fake friend account got banned after violating board rules after she was warned. We also almost immediately deleted the post with that IP too, but of course, that won’t fit their narrative and web of lies. You are still 100% anonymous on our site unless you choose to tell people who you are!
We do not pick and choose what gets posted in each thread, that is entirely up to each of you as long as you follow board rules and stay on each thread’s topic. You are the ones that drive the discussion in the threads, not us. We do not ban people or delete comments that disagree with us. Just take a look at all the pages, and you will see that. We’ve only banned a few people after a warning for violating board rules, and some of them had multiple accounts. Also, there are still several members on here who outright said they don’t believe S and guess what they are still members unless they requested to have their accounts deleted or chose to delete it themselves. Unlike Tumblr, where the blogger has sole control over which comments and asks, they want to post and can and primarily do only post things to fit their narrative, we can’t do that here. You don’t have to wait for someone else’s decision to express your opinions because it happens in real-time. Yes, we did ask you not to talk about the Tumblr hate anymore because when it was discussed, it took the board entirely off topic and started unnecessary drama on our site that we don’t want any part of, and that was our right. If you honestly think that Tumblr blog posts every ask, she gets and isn’t picking and choosing and probably even making fake asks to suit her narrative, you are incredibly naïve.
As you can tell, the blogs who said legal action was being taken against us were lying or we would have taken the site down. We told you we have nothing to hide and aren’t going anywhere, so we don’t know why this new blog thinks the things she says might make us shut this site down or make everyone leave. In fact, she is giving us a lot of free advertisement as our membership level increases every day. The screenshots allegedly from Tyler on a different blog were 100% fake, and if you have followed Tyler for any amount of time, you know this. If you think their follow up screenshot of Tyler telling someone else, they are real, when he gets thousands of messages a day, but just so happened to see those and replied, you are not thinking clearly.
Have we gotten things wrong sometimes, of course, we have, we are human, and sometimes we jumped the gun on things and misspoke. But you know what is different about us is we are not afraid to admit that and we own our mistakes. We can also admit there are still some things we posted that may not be true because our source was lied to, and we don’t know the full extent of those lies. We know some of you don’t believe our source was legit, and we respect your opinion and understand why you feel that way. We know our source, have more information than most of you, and we not only believe her, we stand by her. That being said, we will never try to force anyone to conform to our opinions. We believe in free speech and want everyone to feel this is a safe place to share their views. That being said, we continue to expect everyone to be respectful and follow the board rules.
Now, we know this post will not change the attacks, and hate that blog will continue to post because there is no rationalizing with her or her fellow haters. The funny thing in all of this is they could all easily delete their accounts and ignore us completely since they think our site is so awful, but notice they never do. In fact, they take some pictures and videos that are posted here as well as conversations started here over there. They do find value in our site, and those of you who continue to post there or that wouldn’t occur. We don’t own the Stars or Seguin discussions, and we never created the site to compete with any Tumblr blog. We still feel both platforms are valuable and meet different needs, and we know people have different preferences. Why that seems to be such a hard concept for some is beyond us. We would like to say this is the last time we will ever have to make a statement like this, but that is entirely up to all of you. Again, if you have a problem with anything on our site, you should be a mature adult and talk to us directly. If you have ideas to improve our website or any concerns, please share them with us directly. If you hate us and our site, that is fine too; we just ask you to delete your membership, and if you can’t figure out how, then message us because we would be more than happy to do it for you!!
*As always, we ask that you do not send asks to that blog to defend us or on our behalf, in any way, because that only makes things worse. We ask that you ignore them, just like we ask that that blog ignore us.