my state of mind is diverse and unequal

its always been you, sorry submissions are very welcome 💗

[starei]

if ur kind then ur hot i don't make the rules

[slfcare]

you can never please everybody. when you stand up for yourself, there will be people who think you’re overreacting or being a jerk. when you try your best to be kind to everyone you meet, there will be people who think you’re being fake or that you desperately want to be liked. you won’t ever be able to be the best version of yourself if you live for other people, because that ‘best version’ is entirely subjective and therefore impossible to embody. be your personal best, your personal favorite, and you’ll attract people who will see you that way as well.

[slfcare]

nobody is irrelevant. nobody is invisible. your neighbors know your name and see you set off to school or work or the backyard everyday, sometimes with a spring in your step and sometimes with hunched over shoulders. there was this one time some stranger pointed you out to their friends and said “that’s the haircut I want” or “I have that shirt, too” or “they go to my school”. someone has admired the way you carry yourself or gave a presentation or even the way you’re so polite when you first meet a person. you’ve made comments or jokes that have stuck in minds of overhearers and eavesdroppers. when old classmates of yours think back to kindergarten or fourth grade or sophomore year they remember you and have an opinion of you. you’ve made recommendations of songs and restaurants and even cookie brands and actually introduced people to their all-time favorites. the cashier at the grocery store knows exactly what laundry detergent your household uses, or even if you don’t do your laundry at all.

you can never be irrelevant. there’s pieces of you everywhere, in a dozen lives, in a hundred dreams, in a million memories. maybe it’s true that you don’t have any friends, and you have a sucky relationship with your family or no family at all and no-one ever checks up on you, and you’re really very lonely, but that doesn’t determine your worth. you do. and so do the billions of small attributions you’ve already made to the world, both long-term and short-term. so thank you.

[recoversuggestions]

friendly reminder that you didn’t waste your year. any moments of happiness or comfort, any small accomplishments, they all matter. this has been a really hard year, and simply surviving is something to be proud of. 

[starei]

oh to be called "my love" by your favourite person in the whole world

[slfcare]

this pandemic will end and you’ll claim the window seat in your favorite cafe, stand in a crowd at a concert, visit a museum and make crappy art in the park. sometimes things feel like they’ll go on forever, sometimes bad things feel heavier than good things, sometimes life feels like it’s slowing down and all you’re doing is waiting for the full stop— but just because this hopelessness is all that you’re feeling right now, doesn’t mean that it’s all there is. there’s always more and you will experience that, and you will feel alive again.

[yearnfulsuggestion]

i wonder what you look like when you’re sleepy - i can’t wait to see how peaceful you look when you’re dreaming.

[sophsmagotes]

things I want but will never ask for:

- you to text me first - blowing up my phone bc you miss me - forehead kisses - back rubs - hugs from behind - calling me “your girl” - sending me songs that make you think of me - playing with my hair while I fall asleep - “did you remember to…” texts - holding my hand all the time - morning sex - reassurance that you love me - dancing in the kitchen - late night talks about life - silly pictures - breakfast dates

[cutedatesuggestions]

you kiss me so sweetly, and no one has ever kissed me sweetly before, and i realize how much i have been missing all these years. your love is something entirely new

[affectionsuggestion]

The sound of your laugh does things to me in my heart

[wishfulsuggestions]

it’s okay if you don’t have everything together right now. it’s okay if you’re feeling lost. you’ll get there in the end. 

[wishfulsuggestions]

I love how you encourage me to be better and do more. it makes me feel important and special.

[fallen-in-love-suggestion]

I’m,,, so gay for you

[inlovesuggest]

your smile > everything else

[babybluesuggest]

i swear i’m going to give you the best goddamn hug you’ve ever had as soon as i can

[renewedsuggestion]

no more “I love you, but”

“I love you but you’re being crazy”

“I love you but I don’t wanna deal with you”

time for “I love you and”

“I love you and I wanna understand where you’re coming from”

“I love you and I think we should take a minute to cool down and come back fresh”

I love you. Full stop.

[ratt-pois0n]

I love it when you tell me I’m cute.