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Tired of fighting for you

When you try to tell him how you feel but then you get made out to look like the bad guy for ruining his mood. When you’re not happy about something he did, all of a sudden it’s your fault. Because only you can control your happiness. Like you’re supposed to turn a blind eye on all the wrong things to stay happy.

Wtf.

#personal #are all relationships like this?#relationship problems

I’m so exhausted. I’m tired of pretending that everything is okay. I’m tired of pretending to be happy just so that you can feel good and that you can feel like you did nothing wrong. I’m so tired of looking the like bad guy in every situation and apologizing every time so you can move on and be happy.

I’m fucking tired.

#personal #are all relationships like this?

What I needed to hear from you:

I’m sorry that I didn’t take our time together seriously. I’ll be more mindful next time and respect your time. Making sure you’re okay instead of just assuming.

I’m sorry I didn’t realize I was ignoring you, you’re important to me. Next time I’ll make sure to let you know if I’m busy and get back to you when I can so that you’re not left hanging.

I’m new at this and we’re working through it together.

What I got:

Well I didn’t know you felt that way. And now you’re giving me an ultimatum to choose between you and my friends. I guess I just won’t play video games anymore. I’ll just stop. I’m bad at balancing my time this is all new to me.

I just want you happy all I want to do is make everyone happy I don’t have time for myself. There’s you there’s my friends. I guess I just won’t play with them anymore.

What ends up happening:

Me apologizing multiple times for acting like a possessive gf. Me diffusing the situation by saying that it’s not a big deal at the end of the day and nothing is wrong. Me saying that I’ll just readjust my expectations in this relationship. And him saying “that’s what I needed to hear”

I’m not happy.

#personal #boyfriend #me trying to explain my feelings to my bf and him getting all defensive to the point where we start fighting #i’m sad

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Notes to him -

I know you probably think that these FT calls don’t mean anything but they mean everything to me. I wish you would try harder. You say you think of me all the time but I don’t feel it. Action speaks louder than words. I’ve been through this before and I’m not wasting my time with someone who doesn’t reciprocate.

Make time for me. Choose to make time for me.

That’s all I ask.

#boyfriend #personal #problems #i hate that i love him

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A traditionally dressed Muslim woman was set on fire in NYC.

A woman dressed in traditional Muslim clothing was set on fire by an attacker Saturday night in Midtown Manhattan, the New York Daily News reports. Her blouse caught fire, but she was able to put it out herself and is reportedly physically unharmed after the attack.

The suspect allegedly lit the woman’s shirt on fire as she stood outside the Valentino store on Fifth Avenue shortly after 9 p.m., the Daily News reports, before walking away from the scene without speaking to her.

The NYPD Hate Crimes Task Force is reportedly investigating the attack to determine if it was an anti-Muslim hate crime. This comes after two Muslim women and their children were attacked in Brooklyn just last week.