I hope Iām not annoying you by asking so much but, do you think you can do some headcannons of Jigen,Goemon,Zenigata and Lupin with an Autistic Fem!SO? Like they stim, have a Special Interest and then handling the S/O in a situation where they become over stimulated leading to a panic attack. Iād be happy if you did these because I myself am mildly autistic, but you donāt have to if you donāt want too
I really have no idea about Autism but I will do my best to answer this. ^^ā Please forgive me if it should be a bit off since I am going with the facts I think I know and nothing too special.
- he has absolutely no problem with it and loves to watch his s/o when they are off to their little own world
- he will try to read everything about their Special Interest and likes to discuss things over with them, even outside of the interest. He is genuinely interested in their point of view about any heist plans or anything else
- he is a quick learner and knows when to distract his s/o or when to leave them alone. He makes sure he always has something for them in his pockets to distract themself.
- often he just throws his jacket over their head when they are over stimulated so they can hide under it, black out sight and the best part: It smells of him and is still warm like a light hug
- he needs a bit more time to get what this means. His s/o is normal besides that, right? And everyone is a bit crazy, right?? He needs to learn that sometimes his āsimpleā way of thinking is not the right thing.
- but to be honest, he wouldnāt really change it. He even sometimes makes jokes about his s/oās ability to hyperfocus and he doesnāt mean it in a bad way. So his s/o would need a bit more humor to work with that behaviour.
- besides that? Heās understanding. If there really is a stressful situaton, heās the first to protect his s/o and keep them out ouf harm and calm them down it thereās an anxiety attack
- depending on the interests, he might be interested in working with them. What if his s/o is a genius at mathbecause they simpy understand the world of numbers? Heās proud of them and wants to learn from them.
- heās careful about it. There shouldnāt be too many problems or else he will lose interest. He is willing to work with his s/o but heās not a therapy dog.
- he might be a bit stricter with themĀ since he generally knows about the world of psychicological problems but to him itās a bit strange and he often bites his tongue in order not to tell his s/o to suck it up and behave like a normal person
- of course he will try to help his s/o during an anxiety attack but he isnāt really helpful at all. He needs to read and talk a lot about it in order to be able to understand that Autism is just a different wired brain.
- there will be a lot of trial and error and it needs time, but when he finally understands, he will be the most caring. Often he sees an anxiety attack rising before his s/o knows it.
- his pockets are full with things for his s/o to stimulate themself with. Itās an absurd wide range of fidget spinners, tissues, paper, pens and he even has a polished stone that sparkles. He is a bit messy about his pockets and normally his s/o just gets a few things pushed into their hands to choose from
- he has no idea about it and heās not really willing to read about it. He wants to talk with his s/o about THEIR special problems because he knows that every person is different.
- as long as heās number one priority, he doesnāt care if his s/o thinks in a different way or seems slow or weird because of that. Heās happy to spend the day with them, holding hands and eating ice cream.
- he will ask his partner what he should do in an emergency situation like an anxiety attack and will act accordingly. He knows the feeling of being anxious and helpless and is happy when his s/o reciprocates his help