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My concerns

So, recently there's been a lot of media about the "Mani-sphere", the Andrew Tate cult / War room, the HSTickyTok following, and these misogynistic figures that are socially influencing the younger generation online. I have deep concerns about the nature of these beliefs, I do not support that women should work while men manipulate - although I believe it happens more and more in the world we are in. Also Sex-work in my opinion (and this might cause debate) is not real work, its exploitation, in its greatest form. I believe women should no longer be oppressed and can work, if they choose to in the military, as mechanics, in warehouses and so on and so forth. I believe the equality of minimum wage is important but do believe that this "Pay gap" between men and women arises because women take more time off and are likely to refuse overtime more than men. (a very close friend alerted me to this recently) I am actually disturbed by the thought of my eldest son growing up surrounded by opinions controversial and extreme as women slavery in relationship, with social pressures to "loverboy" snare women. I would like him raised to be a gentleman, a kindhearted man with a moral code (id like this for all my children)

So please, help the future generations remember chivalry, manners and respect for the important values that they are. Lead by example, I'm sure we can stop this online onslaught of sexist beliefs.

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So, this is the second in a series.... I thoroughly enjoyed the Fourth Wing and Iron Flame, the saucy secrets of the two main characters is a fulfilling story.... the epic revelations about their dragons, inspirational. (I'm trying not to release too many spoilers here) The epic war rages on, with twists and turns every chapter. If your looking for a new fanstay series, Try Fourth wing, by Rebecca Yarros.

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Reset Sunday

So I've done my journal , laid out next weeks plans in my diary, seen the staff for my weekly support session. I've also been spring cleaning. I've washed my duvet and mattress protector and put new sheets on, bleached the bathroom, disinfected the kitchen and bins, re-organised the shelves and put away what didn't need to be out, I've done all the dishes and soda crystals the sink and used limescale removed and I've cleaned all my mirrors! I mean fuck me I didn't know how much housework I could find to do here in such a small flat

I've had a word with my ladies and explained I'm really PMS'y today and might just dark off on everyone this evening. Thinking i need book bed coffee and cookies for my evening chill.

But i got to be up early tomorrow to go to burn class with Lilly at the gym, I'm looking forward to this.

so tonight i shall lay out my gym clothes and get my bag together, make sure I'm ready to go.... I'll stay a-bit after class and grab a shower while I am there tomorrow i think. That be nice.

Then ..... I'm starting a study schedule Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday so that I'm in the habit and routine for college in September. this is the main reason that I need to finish reading Iron Flame by Rebecca Yarros, so that i can focus on my contextual research for college.

other than that, not much has changed. keep safe everyone, and thank you for reading.

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Recently bought this book, am really excited to read it, i think learning how we got into the digital era is really important :)

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march 2026 so far

Well, today i feel chilled and inspired. i've been through my YouTube subscriptions and sorted out a watch later list of things that interest me. I am grateful today - for my family, for coffee and for apple music. I have enjoyed a session for 30 mins at the gym and plan to head back later. I guess you could say its a free day, which is not too far from the norm, seeing as i'm signed off work! I would like to dedicate today to recreational activities and tomorrow to college preparations. It would be good to do 3/4 pomodoros of reading and get back into the iron flame book i'm reading by Rebecca Yarros. especially because next id like to make a start reading the college context literature i have been collecting. my routine is just about still on the go, but i feel a little thrown off of my drive. back to rebuilding a ideal lifestyle i think.

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February

recently, I've done a lot of self development, I've been to the dentist, I've been engaged in yoga classes, keeping up with gym fitness, and learning to pole dance. I'm amazed at how much this all costs though!

I've been getting along with everyone, no complaints or arguments.

Its been a journey, settling into my new placement here, but I feel like this place is just what I need, to become my best self!

I had an amazing night out with my best friend, we went to a drum and bass evening.

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What a wonderful time I've had so far with her on her holiday to dance with me! this girl really has been my rock in recent years, really appreciate all the support and advice i get from her we stims, we joke, we laugh we dance, its a cray cray friendship but I wouldn't have it any other way!!

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College Interview

So, yesterday was life changing in one of the best possible ways. I had a chilled day but also a productive day.... half hour of cardio at the gym, followed by my college interview. I am thrilled to say, i've been accepted on a criminology access course starting in September. Ill be studying psychology, law and politics with the local college each Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday.

I'm so excited to embark on this journey I feel a strong sense of pride to have gotten a unconditional offer! the first man (Christoper) that i spoke to was a good listener and addressed my life goals and desires for the future. the Second woman was full of information about the structure of the course and wanted an in-depth discussion about plans for my future that I hold.

After my interview i went swimming, to get some exercise in , was good fun. I did 10 laps of the pool. i'm really pleased with my ongoing exercise regime, throughout the upcoming weeks i will update this site with my workout plans and progress.

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Day of Rest

Sunday: the 15th February 2026.

Today i'm at home , rethinking my lifestyle. Since coming home from rehabilitation in wales my routine has gone to sh*t, no morning exercise, no morning water. coupled with a neglected journal and a half read book i barely pick up. These are all things that are important to me and i need to fit some ore time for these things in my schedule because like it says in my WRAP plan, thsse are the things that keep me well.

So in the past i had a 3 step morning ritual, plank exercises water and hygiene, followed by journal-ling. My planks would consist of a 2min plank hold, a minute of plank dips and a minute of plank up downs. I'd drink water do my teeth and tongue, wash tone and moisturize my face and sometimes shower. My journal would have a positive affirmation of the day, some reflection on my intention of the day, three things i m grateful for and a check in with the days how i feel.

i want to get back into this routine but am fining the motivation hard to find, but my psychiatrist and pharmacist tell me that's completely normal as i have been through a lot of change recently.