[bob-belcher]

[mossbyrn]

actually, I’m not asking

LEAVE

AND

GO FUCK YOURSELF

[stfumras]

I deleted Facebook, Twitter , tiktok, Instagram, so I'm back here and on RedNote. How you all doing?

[thenuclearmallard]

With the censorship on the rise and limited information being accessible across platforms. This gif will tell you everything you need to know about what's going on in the US.

[thelastmemeera]

[resisteye]

🇺🇸🇵🇸 NYPD reportedly resorts to brutal force, arresting pro-Palestine demonstrators outside Columbia University. The protesters, advocating for a Gaza ceasefire, were engaging in peaceful demonstrations.

[elizabro]

aaron bushnell knew exactly what he was doing. he states his intentions with total lucidity and sense of purpose. he knows what he's about to do is extreme--he says so. he speaks calmly, but he's clearly terrified. he takes a deep breath after pouring the accelerant over himself. he has to psyche himself up to light the flame. he struggles with the lighter. he says "free palestine" normally once before he starts to scream it. even through his agony he manages to say it one last time before he stops being able to speak at all. this is a man with total conviction. he wanted to help people, in any way possible. this action was a moral one, and any news outlet painting this as simply a mental health issue is a disservice to his memory. he knew what he was doing when he burned himself in uniform. he knew that there was a chance that sacrificing his own life could go on to save many others. this was the ultimate act of selflessness, and it should be treated as such. may he rest in peace.

[sayruq]

10 children a day lose their limbs in Gaza. All hospitals in Gaza are basically barely functioning and the amputations are done in unsanitary conditions and without anesthesia

[stfumras]

Not sure the source but yup

[stfumras]

This is the best thing

[stfumras]

So my baby sister who passed last year was a premie, and when she came home from the hospital her head looked like a potato and her formula smelled like potatoes. So my best friend named her potato and it stuck with her her whole life. Today I and my other sister got this tattoo of a potato flower in her memory. Now I feel like she's always with me, just wanted to share.

[ms-hells-bells]

Cristiano Ronaldo: Kathryn Mayorga, The Woman Who Accuses Ronaldo of Rape

An American woman claims Cristiano Ronaldo raped her in Las Vegas. Years ago, the soccer star paid her to remain silent. Now, the woman is g

i want this as its own separate post, because although many know that ronaldo has an 'accusation', i don't think many know the details and how much evidence of it there is, including a police report, medical records, a rape kit, an out of court settlement with an nda, etc. and as you reading this interview article by spiegel, one of the main exposers of ronaldo in this case, you just feel for this poor woman and absolutely believe her. the details are hard to bear, the interview is heartbreaking.

[ms-hells-bells]

here's the most damning piece of evidence, even beyond the medical records and witness reports

this is one of the many documents ronaldo's team has tried to hide from the public. when i say that he admitted to rape, i mean that he literally admitted to rape.

[tolive-forever]

when sylvia plath said “being born a woman is my awful tragedy. from the moment i was conceived i was doomed to sprout breasts and ovaries rather than penis and scrotum; to have my whole circle of action, thought and feeling rigidly circumscribed by my inescapable feminity. yes, my consuming desire to mingle with road crews, sailors and soldiers, bar room regulars - to be a part of scene, anonomous, listening, recording - all is spoiled by the fact that i am a girl, a female always in danger of assault and battery. my consuming interest in men and their lives is often misconstrued as a desire to seduce them, or as an invitation to intimacy. yet, god, i want to talk to everybody i can as deeply as i can. i want to be able to sleep in an open field, to travel west, to walk freely at night“

[stfumras]

Just wondering, does anyone else who has gotten diagnosed with autism after like 30 get immediately met with "no you're not" when you tell someone you thought was one of your safe people? Cuz that's been fun.

[stfumras]

It is your decision but I think you should block the person in the coments of this post — https://at.tumblr.com/stfumras/vulnerable-women-are-routinely-prosecuted-and/aejmr3dcrhq8 who is connecting this phenomenon with “‘medieval muslims” in the uk despite the fact both men in the main cases profiled are white and of unknown religion but not Muslim, and the majority of the authorities involved are also — shocker — not muslim.

Blocking would remove that comment.

If not blocking, replying directly to it could also work to undermine the lying and xenophobic remarks there… I may do that from a different account I suppose.

For my part i am an atheist who despises all patriarchal religions, but xenophobia and false insinuations like the ones made in the direct comments on that post still aren’t right.

Ok I'll check it out when I can get to a computer im very rarely on here anymore so I haven't seen it.

[stfumras]

Hey all I can't find the comments mentioned on this post. I'm not the best with technical shit and I haven't been active on here in a while so if anyone can help me out and point me in the right direction I'd appreciate it.

[stfumras]

I was with a man who raped me and I thought well at least he doesn’t beat me.  I was with a man who cheated on me and I thought well at least he doesn’t rape me.  I was with a man who called me vile things and broke my spirit and I thought, well at least he doesn’t cheat on me or rape me. When it escalated to physical confrontations I thought, well at least he’s never really hurt me, at least we are financially stable. I learned to excuse and rationalize all forms of abuse from men because at least I had won, at least I hit that ultimate goal of womanhood, to become someone’s other.  We accept what we think we deserve and I, not being the epitome of beauty as told to me by the media, thought it was what I deserved, that I could not do better, that it was as good as it was gonna get.  It wasn’t until I realized that no one should be treated in these ways regardless of reason, until I realized that being alone was actually an option, that I started to see the past 35 odd years of my life clearly.  I grew up being told that being a woman means striving to be a wife, being a woman means we aren’t truly happy until we achieve that ending of every romantic comedy we were brainwashed into watching, being a woman means accepting the unacceptable because we just can’t make it on our own.  If that’s all there was to being a woman, I wanted no part of it. It takes a long time to unlearn learnt behaviors, internal narratives and ideas about how we should be, but it is attainable.  I am still going through it.  It may take the rest of my life to achieve, but I refuse to continue to let the supposed to overrule my want to.    

[stfumras]

Just needed to be reminded of this today.

[stfumras]

Today it's been 20 years since my best friend took her own life. On this day I can't quell the what ifs as well as I usually can. I wonder what our lives would be like if she was still in it and hardly a day passes that I don't wish she was. Please know you are loved and if you need a sign to stay in this shitty world, please take this as it.

[stfumras]

It is your decision but I think you should block the person in the coments of this post — https://at.tumblr.com/stfumras/vulnerable-women-are-routinely-prosecuted-and/aejmr3dcrhq8 who is connecting this phenomenon with “‘medieval muslims” in the uk despite the fact both men in the main cases profiled are white and of unknown religion but not Muslim, and the majority of the authorities involved are also — shocker — not muslim.

Blocking would remove that comment.

If not blocking, replying directly to it could also work to undermine the lying and xenophobic remarks there… I may do that from a different account I suppose.

For my part i am an atheist who despises all patriarchal religions, but xenophobia and false insinuations like the ones made in the direct comments on that post still aren’t right.

Ok I'll check it out when I can get to a computer im very rarely on here anymore so I haven't seen it.

[stfumras]

i hope you’re having an amazing day <3 !!

Thank you friend! Same to you ☺️