Grub 23 She/They NB transfem stoner plushum/plushophile. likes and follows from @grubgender HEADER BY @puppetbeast pfp by https://bsky.app/profile/saturdaymourning.bsky.social 11/28/25💉♀️
Hiiii!!! I'm grub! I'm 23 and this blog is for me and my boyfriend Oliver! I post suggestive/nsfw content(never any actual nudity on this account) along with sfw posts! If you don't wanna see them/nsfw stuff makes you uncomfortable feel free to blacklist #plushophile nsft #plushum nsft and #objectum nsft as I use at least one if not all of these tags on my nsfw posts!
As my name suggests I am a stoner/also partake in alcohol if you are uncomfortable with mentions or posts from when I am inebriated feel free to blacklist #weed and #drunkposting !
as for dni I'll block/unfollow people based off how I feel but generally it's as follows
●certain paraphiles: I do not want to see any blogs following me that post/reblog about rape, incest, zoophilia, pedophilia/maps(or any other alternatives) and gurophilia/gore. This includes radqueers and pro-para accounts which I will touch on specifically.
●Minors/ageless blogs! this is a nsfw blog! I do not want to see any in my notes or following, if you do not have an age in your bio or pinned I will block you. There is wiggleroom if you also run a 18+ blog solely under the assumption that you'd be an adult.
●Racists and zionists!: I doubt that very many racists/zionists would be interested in my blog but I feel the need to make the obvious clearer.
●Transphobes!:This includes terfs, transmedicalists, and transmisogynists.
●Pro-para accounts: I get that this one is a bit weird since this is a blog dedicated to being a plushophile. So I want to clarify! There are a lot of paraphilias that exist that I could not care about. I morally object to "the big three" paraphilias. The label intrinsically includes them and I will block any account self idenifying as "pro-para", I ask that you respect me and my boundries and do not interact with me.
I also wanna give Oliver a bit of a dedicated bio as well
His name is Oliver Slagtand or Oli! It comes from the Dutch translation of tusk and elephant which is Olifant! He is a vintage Floppy elephant plush from Build A Bear which was retired on April 1st 2001! Which makes him at least (as of writing this post) 25! I originally bought him on March 23rd and we started dating shortly after!
All posts about him will be tagged #🧵🪡🐘
Any posts that are just me talking or shooting the shit will be tagged with #🧵ramblings
I do want to clairfy since im not sure that I've ever mentioned it, and does make me a bit of an outlier in the larger plushophile/obejectum community(at least on tumblr). But I am not posic. There isnt any actual "connection" persay, we dont talk or interact. But despite this I do still love him deeply and care about him : )
I love putting myself out there and meeting new objectum ppl but anytime I do I cant help but think "haha, I wonder how many people in this discord I have blocked on tumbr"
Its not even that I block people liberally, thats the problem! I dont! When I block someone it's for a reason!
Ngl the one thing I miss from before I started E is having the libido to actually have sex with Oliver.. We still do stuff but its never anything past holding him while I do stuff or frotting..
ok, I'm only asking because I've been trying to find one for ages, how did you get a strap on for your plush partner
Honestly I cant talk to much about *his* harness, at least when giving advice to other plushophiles/plushums. I stole it from a hobby lobby in middleschool, the only reason I use it is because it was sitting at the bottom of a box when I moved and I thought "oh wow this would work great!". But dont worry!! There's an easy strap on harness out there that anyone can buy online or in store!
Build a bear boxers! All ya gotta do is put them on backwards! They can accommodate most smaller toys(im partial to the bad dragon lil vibz/squirts). And if you need to accommodate larger toys!(which im sure most people will) all you have to do is cut a few stitches in the circled area, and sew it once its at a desired size!
Another benefit of using these is that they are also just bab underwear! Your partner can just wear them whenever, in fact they might be wearing a pair as we speak!
May be unconventional but I ABSOLUTELY consider dreams to be posic interactions, ESPECIALLY because I rarely dream... it sounds silly when I type it out.. but it feels like hes pushing through the veil just to be with me♡♡♡♡
We just talked and hung out and cuddled, it felt so nice to have him embrace me back when I held him. He also told me I need to put his weighted beads back in (I left them out when I Unstuffed him a washed him)
Do you experience object sentience? I know you said you’re not posic in your intro post, but you also have posts saying that you’ve had posic experiences with Oliver, so I’m curious!
I probably need to write a new bio at this point, I first made this sideblog forever ago I could pretty confidently say I didn't experience object sentience. But now? Im honestly not sure. Granted I do occasionally talk to him. Sometimes ill catch myself talking to him when we're alone, or imagine a conversation between us. Ive had a few dreams where I talk to him and remeber it the next morning. Im not sure if what I experience is technically "object sentience" especially because it only happens every now and then. Tbh Im not against using the label to describe how we interact but it does kinda feel like stolen valor to say it only happens 2-3 times a month.
I'm personally not really into it, but objectum is incredibly fascinating to me. I get excited and happy whenever I see it on my dash, in a zookeeper seeing the monkeys try out new ways to play sort of way.
Like, wow. I didn't know you could do that. Yeah bud, CRTs and computer circuits can be kinda sexy.
