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i was 14 and i was walking through a mall by myself at 12am after my shift at coldstone creamery lol and a bunch of men started whistling and meowing and getting really close to me and they kept asking me questions and i kept not answering until i didnāt know what else to do so i said āiām only 14ā and almost in unison they said āwe donāt careā i was so fucking scared i didnāt know what to do and they kept talking about how i looked and how my body looked and what they would do i was on the verge of tears i was all alone in a huge mall i knew i couldnāt outrun them all i felt totally hopeless until a maintenanceĀ worker came up to all of us with a huge industrial broom in her hand, i thought she was going to yell at all of us for being in the mall after hours bc she probably thought we were all friends but instead she cursed all of them out in spanish, threatened to press a panic button on her belt and then proceeded to walk me to the basement garage and waited with me until my mom got there to pick me up she had a death grip on her cart the whole time and a face of steel she looked so strong and i just kept saying thank you and she kept saying not to thank her because she had to stop them.
that was the moment i realized women were the most important beings on this planet and we have to protect each other bc nobody else is going to, she didnāt even know me, we couldnāt even communicate that well because of the language barrier, she could have lost her job for waiting with me in the parking lot but she looked out for me when she didnāt have to, she had nothing to gain from it, iām 21 now and i tell everyone this story even though it happened 7 years ago, what she did that night helped me form and shape lot of my beliefs early on.Ā
i was at a grocery store really late one night and some old guy kind of eyed me as i walked out of the store next to this other lady. She and I made eye contact and i knew she was scared too. we loaded up our groceries into our cars as fast as possible and I had way more bags than her so she got done faster than me. I panicked because i was sure she was going to leave so i just hurried faster, shaking a little, and then i noticed she sat in her car, watching me and making sure nobody came near. She waited not until all my groceries were loaded, or until my cart was put away, or until I got into my car. No, she didnāt drive away until I drove away.Ā
And that was the moment that I realized how much women need other women. That we canāt win this war without each other and we have to be looking out for each other, every second.Ā
my last year in new york city, i got off the subway around 9 or 10p.m. i only lived about 5 blocks from the f train, but i hadnāt gotten more than two before a womanās hand suddenly touched my arm.Ā
āthat guy behind us is following you,ā she said. āhe was watching you leave the train car and followed you up.ā
i hadnāt noticed him, or at least not noticed him following me. when we stopped outside a grocery store, he stopped half a block back and loitered. the woman linked her arm with mine and walked me several blocks out of her way to my front door and made sure i got inside safely.
another time, nocigar and i were walking home and at a stoplight a stranger grabbed my arm when i wouldnāt respond to him and tried to physically drag me over to him. sheāwho is, by the way, not a very physically imposing girlāripped his hand off my arm and snarled, ādonāt fucking touch her.ā
protect your friends. protect strangers. there are good men in the world, but donāt wait for them to do something if you can do it yourself.
I was at a club once and my friend left with her boyfriend so I finished my drink and was heading out to the parking lot when three girls came up to me and basically surrounded me.Ā
āThose guys behind us were talking about following you. We can walk with you.āĀ
I have MMA training but have never in my life had been offered the protection and sanction of my own gender. This is so important.Ā
GIRL CODE. FUCKINā GIRL CODE. LEAVE NO GIRL BEHIND. EVER.