Strawberry Jam Girl!🍓🐞

She/her, AroAce, Lover of most everything 20 billion yrs old, nerdy black granny girl

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Officially just took my first asexual L.

I’m so excited to have reached this milestone.

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Thank you to everyone who got me to 100 likes! I would like to thank the aroace community and girls who don’t get out much. I couldn’t have done it without you guys. ❤️

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Dogs named Adesuwa and Apple blossom

And a rat named science.

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Self shipping a QPR with aroace characters whilst being aroace can be so weird. Like if Ryland Grace spawned out of nowhere right now we would be married later today but not like that.

I wish he was real we would be really great friends/ life partners.

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Cat name ideas

strawberry, butterbean, sweet tea, pea pod, beep boop, button, timmyyyyyyy!, agbalumo, princesscake, sweet pea, ladybug, caterpillar, cardamom, clementine, blossom

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I miss when cottagecore was gay and normal.

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Shout out to deeply codependent friendships, qprs and alterous attraction. That’s gotta be my favorite relationship type in media. “A secret third thing” hell yeah brother.

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Time to play the game am I actually aroace, or am I just a closeted lesbian, deeply insecure, sexually repressed or straight and confused.

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Wanting to lose weight but also not wanting to contribute to the rise of fast-ism is so hard.

F my chungus life.

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I feel like you don’t love me as much as I do. Like it’s not mutual.

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Project Hail Mary is good.

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Digital Greek Chorus, is it too late to start reblogging? I’m 3000 likes in.

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One day you’ll realize that it’s just you.

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daughter. little sister. big puppy sister. good friend. former little girl. current young woman. future old lady.

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If I were to be in a qpr, realistically I would like it to be with a man (because homophobic family/ culture) but I feel like that is basically impossible as a woman.

The type of qpr I would want would require the intimacy that I feel is best seen in female friendships.

I find the intimacy of a purely platonic female relationship so beautiful and I feel like due to societal factors it can never be fully replicated between a man and woman. At least not easily.

Basically, I wish I could be friends with boys the way I am with girls.

With the same intimacy and intensity. Without the fear of it being taken as anything other than platonic.

I hope this doesn’t come off as bioessentialist bs or anything. Because I do NOT subscribe to that.

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Shout out to my bellusromantic asexual aroaces! (Me. I’m talking about me.)

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Its officials: School is out! Let loser girl summer begin! Get those laptops out ladies, your screen time isn’t gonna reach 16hr by itself!