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iykyk

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fuck it i don’t really even want a wedding since my mom isn’t here >:c

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yeah sure be honest that you don’t have the capacity to celebrate someone else’s wins but also dig deep and ask yourself why you can’t and please work on it sooner than later because it absolutely is weird

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knowing that people who don’t even know me (but could if they wanted to) have listened to a person (who doesn’t even know me) gossip about me for the last decade is my social roman empire. women can be so insidious and stereotypical. it’s absolutely pathetic.

unless it’s saving someone’s life, gossip doesn’t do anything good for anyone besides maybe give a person some form of social control.

get to know a person for yourself before believing bullshit all because of jealousy and spite.

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i guess being a florist is one of the latest grifts in the last few years 🤔

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a lot of people could still have a place in my life if they had just been nice to me or even just knew how to apologize. oh well i doubt anything has changed!

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finally quit my job and i start working with my fiancé in about a week and i turn 30 next month!

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i hate to say this but being out and about while being one of very few black women in a space, i get so disappointed in small interactions with other women who look like me and i notice i get cold and dry energy from them. like, really? it’s so small but it says a lot. i try not to dwell but i notice every single time it happens and i know i’m not tripping.

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i understand “fake it til you make it” but this main character energy gets to a point lmao. i understand to an extent. not too much please!

[dreamstars]

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im engaged c:

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i wish i could tell my mom :\

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im engaged c:

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if you have to trick someone into having a conversation with you, something is wrong with you

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just found out there’s an orthodox farm 😳 in the little town i plan on going back to college in a year. needless to say we’re so up.

[1010ll]

https://www.instagram.com/p/B9EF1d0pxUG/

[vintagehomecollection]

The stencil pattern on the floor was copied from the nineteenth century Bump Tavern in Cooperstown, New York.

Country Living: Country Decorating, 1988

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waaay too many people are just big fish in a little pond and i won’t elaborate